Time wasters

24 Mar 2005

We have been on the scene for about 4 years now and in that time i/we have come across a number of time waster, several cplz and single guys not showing and know many others that have come across the same, most days you go into the chat room and someone is moaning about no shows etc, a woman that goes in the chat room (who i not name) has stood up 5 people that i know of!! never a call or anything till they get in touch with her first, yet still her and many like her still go in the room arranging meet!! why are these people not named and shamed? to stop other wasting their time arranging meet that they had no intentions of got to confused

now i know sometimes things come up, i have kids i have had to cancel and so do other but a text, a e mail, a something to let the people know so they not stood about waiting is it to much to ask? if you just send a text so they know, it takes 20 seconds costs 10p (ish) and makes you genuine!! if you can't even do that then in my book ur just here to mess people about and i think other should know who they are, even more so the ones that do it regular!!
Right that my ten bobs worth i'll pee off now lol
Alison xxx

24 Mar 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
why are these people not named and shamed?

For the simple reason that nobody would know whether the negative report was genuine or malicious. Once we start going down the road of publicly labelling individuals as timewasters, anyone could be unjustly dissed just because someone doesn't like them.

24 Mar 2005

I can only guess how frustrating it can be for a no show - like you say it's only a matter of pennies to let someome know.
But the idea of naming and shaming - getting a bit too close to the Verification malarky - 70 page thread or something!!
Suppose it goes with the game, and all about doing your homework - thats why I envisage it's best if are a swinger that you get involved with the social side and get to know the people in your loocal area - then you can get to know who the time wasters are.
p.s written fromt eh perspective of a non -swinger so the above may be totally wide of the mark, but i am gobby and thought I'd have my two peneth worth!!

24 Mar 2005

Basically, because how would the moderators know who was telling the truth?
It would end up with endless arguments and mudslinging with the moderators expected to make decisions and cop all the flak for it.
lhk
Kat

24 Mar 2005

Quote by naughtynymphos1
a woman that goes in the chat room (who i not name)
Alison xxx

why are these people not named and shamed

:doh:

24 Mar 2005

i made the same post on sunday mine was locked confused

: i fell the same way as you
they seem to be a kick out of arranging it all but when it comes to it there bootle
goes o well thats life long live all the genuine folk

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