Any other couples becoming frustrated at arranging meetings, after lengthy phone and text messaging ( and in one case meeting for a couple of hours at a bar, before committing to meeting to play) and then finding one of the other couple is overcome with jealousy and can't cope with the idea of their partner with another man or woman?
Why are these people using this site? Are they just inadequates? Or do they get off on the attention?
We don't meet with couples so we are probably not the best placed people to give advice in this area. But it would seem to me that the people you describe are probably new to swinging and nervous, undecided, or merely in it for the thrill of the chase. Perhaps you would be better served if you looked for a more experienced couple?
why always also check out any Shrep they have and if meeting use the Shrep 'meeting' facility
Two helpful observations
We are careful - in both cases recently we spent hours on the phone
In one case we met for drinks previously
No boundaries set at all - just really childish and immature behaviour on both occasions form the half of the couple who initiated contact and was 'driving the train' as it were.
Lack of class lack of courtesy!
Lengthy messaging almost always means someone just getting off on the messaging. Just don't get into it without at least saying hello to the lady on the telephone. Meeting in public, however, is fair enough, and you can never know how people will feel until you meet. It does seem though, that going to a club would probably be a much more suitable option for you if you are seeking action at the time.
Don't pass up on going to a social, it's worked for lots of couples in the past, and it's an opportunity to meet without trying to pre-empt an outcome.
