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Aw....................... have a hug :therethere: and a kiss 
and a flower too :rose: ..... but I'd better stop dealing out favours before I start with.... 
:wanker: 
ops: :oops: :oops:
:wink: :wink: :wink:
and a flower too :rose: ..... but I'd better stop dealing out favours before I start with.... :wanker: ops: :oops: :oops: :wink: :wink: :wink: Orgasminator
feels bloody good to get it off my chest what a weight off the old shoulders , 
:rose: Well Midsmale, though not sure if we have chatted in the chatroom ive read some of your posts on Luck for whatever the future holds....love...luck....and happiness hopefullyxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx :thumbup: :giggle:
P.S you only get one life and as you said you have done the right thing by your children it is time for you now........GO FOR YOUR LIFE! love peppsxxxxxxxx
P.S you only get one life and as you said you have done the right thing by your children it is time for you now........GO FOR YOUR LIFE! love peppsxxxxxxxx
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thanks everyone ,
Sex God
If it is time to move on then you both are brave to admit it........and take that chance of finding some happiness again. 
Sex God
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If it is time to move on then you both are brave to admit it........and take that chance of finding some happiness again.
What a beautifully pure thought - really couldn't have put it better - mind you there are still some surprises around the corner for you - just be prepared to take 'em on in a constructive manner.
yeah, i know how you feel m8, er except i was the one getting lied to 
it hurts, but youll get there, says me with 2 kids and just 1 month ish of being left alone and feeling guilty, or made to feel guilty for using site like this, ive not been with anyone except my ex for 10 yrs!!!! :shock: hey thats why im here :P im in no rush though, its just good to see there are people on this site having a ball, er or 2?
anyhow, midlands, take it easy and as the streets say, dry yours eyes m8, theres plenty more fish in the sea :karaoke:
it hurts, but youll get there, says me with 2 kids and just 1 month ish of being left alone and feeling guilty, or made to feel guilty for using site like this, ive not been with anyone except my ex for 10 yrs!!!! :shock: hey thats why im here :P im in no rush though, its just good to see there are people on this site having a ball, er or 2?
anyhow, midlands, take it easy and as the streets say, dry yours eyes m8, theres plenty more fish in the sea :karaoke:
Sex God
Good for you mate.
:cheers: Bloody hard decision to make. Just glad you made one rather than just languishing in 's plenty of people out there who would just sit and accept the situation for an easy life.
Good for you and I wish you all the luck in the world.
:cheers: Bloody hard decision to make. Just glad you made one rather than just languishing in 's plenty of people out there who would just sit and accept the situation for an easy life.
Good for you and I wish you all the luck in the world.
Orgasminator
stood there for years thinking that easy, cheers mate
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Have a hug and a kiss
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cheers babe thanks for the pm by the way
Mids, from someone who has been through the mill a bit just a few years ago, you have my best wishes. You maybe in for some bumpy times - but you will come out the other side a much stronger person, with several lessons learnt and a whole new appreciation of life and the world.
Now this next bit, I started to type and ended up on bit of a roll ..... quite personal to me, so decided to PM it to you instead. Then thought, oh why not, share it with everyone, just a little anecdote of when I went through a tough time. Probably won't help in the least, but I've just spent ages typing it and begrudge deleting it all now!!
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It's funny what you remember, I read a book and I could so relate to a part of it which described the first smile. When the split initially happened, I never thought I would cope or get over it - it came out the blue which was especially traumatic. Then one day, a few months later I smiled at something, a proper smile, not one of them ones that you 'should' do. Cant remember what at now, but imediately after it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had done exactly what this book described. The smile happened when I wasn't thinking about that guy at all. I had actually gone 5 mins without thinking about him and not only that, I had also done a genuine smile!
I was still in the dark tunnel, cos once I realised I had gone 5 mins without thinking about him, it made me think of him but I had that little bit of light to aim for, so much easier to pull through once you can see the other side.
I will never forget that smile, it wasn't even one of my biggest ones, but it was such a turning point for me. And if ever I feel down about anything these days, I always go back to that smile. It reminds me that things do get better, and how far I have come since then.
I don't know if this is or will be of any help to you. It was such a profound thing for me that I think it must be like that for everyone :lol2:
Just thought I would share it with you
Now this next bit, I started to type and ended up on bit of a roll ..... quite personal to me, so decided to PM it to you instead. Then thought, oh why not, share it with everyone, just a little anecdote of when I went through a tough time. Probably won't help in the least, but I've just spent ages typing it and begrudge deleting it all now!!
..........It's funny what you remember, I read a book and I could so relate to a part of it which described the first smile. When the split initially happened, I never thought I would cope or get over it - it came out the blue which was especially traumatic. Then one day, a few months later I smiled at something, a proper smile, not one of them ones that you 'should' do. Cant remember what at now, but imediately after it hit me like a ton of bricks. I had done exactly what this book described. The smile happened when I wasn't thinking about that guy at all. I had actually gone 5 mins without thinking about him and not only that, I had also done a genuine smile!
I was still in the dark tunnel, cos once I realised I had gone 5 mins without thinking about him, it made me think of him
but I had that little bit of light to aim for, so much easier to pull through once you can see the other side.I will never forget that smile, it wasn't even one of my biggest ones, but it was such a turning point for me. And if ever I feel down about anything these days, I always go back to that smile. It reminds me that things do get better, and how far I have come since then.
I don't know if this is or will be of any help to you. It was such a profound thing for me that I think it must be like that for everyone :lol2:
Just thought I would share it with you
Orgasminator
funny
Hugs to you Misschief
I can very much relate to what you have posted, breaking out of a particularly abusive relationship from a man who had far too much control over me. i was only 21 and had been with him for 6 years.
The pain in letting go initially was too much and then a friend flew me to Spain, and showed me how to be alone and enjoy life, at the end of the holiday I suddenly realised how sunny life was and that I'd not missed him once and also had enjoyed the company of other people for the first time without worrying about "his" reaction.
The first few smiles, thoughts and actions are very scary, but wounds and scars do heal and ease with time.
Calista x
I can very much relate to what you have posted, breaking out of a particularly abusive relationship from a man who had far too much control over me. i was only 21 and had been with him for 6 years.
The pain in letting go initially was too much and then a friend flew me to Spain, and showed me how to be alone and enjoy life, at the end of the holiday I suddenly realised how sunny life was and that I'd not missed him once and also had enjoyed the company of other people for the first time without worrying about "his" reaction.
The first few smiles, thoughts and actions are very scary, but wounds and scars do heal and ease with time.
Calista x
Thank you for that.
I know it doesn't really relate to the point you are at now Mids, but I kinda got on a roll, then ended up with all this typing I didn't know what to do with.
All the best to you, you can move on with your life now, in a direction you want it to go
Just like you said Calista ...... that smile I done and carry round with me now, to this day gives me my optimism and hope. All that happened a few years ago now, the only thing I kept from that time was the smile and what it meant to me.
I know it doesn't really relate to the point you are at now Mids, but I kinda got on a roll, then ended up with all this typing I didn't know what to do with.
All the best to you, you can move on with your life now, in a direction you want it to go
Just like you said Calista ...... that smile I done and carry round with me now, to this day gives me my optimism and hope. All that happened a few years ago now, the only thing I kept from that time was the smile and what it meant to me.
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cheers judy
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ive had a fair few loveley pms
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well telling the ex
Hugs Mids ....
It would never be the right time ... if you and your ex can show your children that despite splitting up you can still be "friends" (however hard it is) you will be teaching them a fine lesson.
The hurt will be there initially, but they will come to understand and appreciate you needed to take this action ...
It gets easier hon ..... it does get easier.
It would never be the right time ... if you and your ex can show your children that despite splitting up you can still be "friends" (however hard it is) you will be teaching them a fine lesson.
The hurt will be there initially, but they will come to understand and appreciate you needed to take this action ...
It gets easier hon ..... it does get easier.
