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Tips on how to last longer??

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Quote by bbw_lover

Try the 'pinch technique',
wink

which bit can i pinch loon
is that pinch as in steal????? lol
nooo nipple pinching of course biggrin
You're giving me ideas dektan.
:twisted:
there people go again say i lead people astray moi????? never
not me not i
i am innocent until f**ked otherwise
Quote by Hungrypussy69
Errrr..... why do you want to last for hours? :shock: I hate it when someone goes on for too long, I get sore, dry and deflated...just my thoughts
Love fast repeaters but too long waiting for one cum is boring IMHO.
pink x

Absolutely, it`s no fun when a guy makes it into an Olympic stamina event!
not an olympic stamina event nooo :eeek:
but an hour or so is sometimes good :twisted:
shaz x
I've done a little bit of studying on this subject and one method that seems to work is be lazy. :thumbup: biggrin
I read somewhere that the act of contracting the muscles of the buttocks can speed up your orgasm, so if you're lazy and don't contract these muscles then it helps to slow things down. Ideal position is her on top doing all the work. :grin:
Other than that it's the "There's Something About Mary" method of crack one off before the main event and you'll find you'll probably not cum as quickly. :lol2:
Quote by easy
Ideal position is her on top doing all the work. :grin:

so thats why he never comes when im on top rolleyes :roll:
A couple of years ago I had a gf who was very demanding in the bedroom and also very long sighted, so to last longer I took my mind off her by trying to do a Sudoku puzzle I had stuck to the headboard.
She never suspected a thing... lol
cheers all.
for starters biff is flaming, starting a row, being argumentative.
i dont want to be able to bang for hours on end, yes i agree boring and can only lead to a sore knob.
problem is i find my wife so sexy and struggle to hold it back, even after 20 years together she still turns me on.
she gets sore if we go on for to long, but she takes ages to climax and usually gets sore before it happens.
so i normally do it orally.
i would like to suprise her and give her the fuck of her life.
so ladies if its not how long we last thats important, what is??
i always put her needs before mine.
like to pay her lots of compliments and show her affection, as well as fucking her from all angles and as hard as poss or slow as epending on the mood.
but if i really wanted to rock her world, how would i go about doing this???
all i really want is her to be happy before, during, and after sex.
I know have sex in the morning ( stop half way through) and finish it at night rolleyes
Good for you. Have you introduced vibrators into your play? It might speed her orgasm. Does she feel comfortable in using her fingers on herself while you fuck? The squeeze technique is just before orgasm pinching firmly just below the glans (or bell end). It is a recognised and well tested technique.
Now I am older I take ages to orgasm so I have the opposite problem. Pulling out several times to move on to other nice actions might help.
There is a technique similar to the nodding Percy method. Where do I get a nodding Percy by the way - to put in the back of my car with the nodding Churchill dog?
Every time you go for a pee - practice clenching the right muscles to stop mid-stream. Not your buttocks - that's for staopping farts (or making them whistle at least). You may not be able to stop at first but with practice you can. When you want to delay cumming you clench the same muscles - apparently it works.
Ladies - the same technique will tighten and strenthen the vaginal muscles. Good old 'pelvic floor execrices'. Practice with your partner inside and he will love it. :bounce:
Quote by bbw_lover
chaps any tips for me although i dont shoot after 30 seconds i would like to be able to hold out for as long as i can.
on a good day i can manage 30 mins but mostly its about 10-15 mins.
any guys or girls for that matter got any tips for me???
i dont wanna do it for hours on end but i would like to be able to come when i choose not when my ball bag says so.
no biff please, proper answers only cheers!!!!!!!!

Try the 'pinch technique', it really works but needs a lot of practice.
With the right person you can last for hours, but that's not always a good thing, it may get boring but being able to hold back so it lasts longer than just a few minutes is so rewarding.
wink
Yeah works a treat!! Can keep a guy going for ages doing that one...you learn when to stop and start etc :wink:
Another tip is *hit left thumb with a huge hammer* that way all your thoughts transfer to your thumb..... takes your mind off your penis! lol
Quote by foxylady2209
There is a technique similar to the nodding Percy method. Where do I get a nodding Percy by the way - to put in the back of my car with the nodding Churchill dog?
... :bounce:

You would get arrested.
...but if you really really need a Percy I have one.
Quote by foxylady2209
Every time you go for a pee - practice clenching the right muscles to stop mid-stream. Not your buttocks - that's for staopping farts (or making them whistle at least). You may not be able to stop at first but with practice you can. When you want to delay cumming you clench the same muscles - apparently it works.
Ladies - the same technique will tighten and strenthen the vaginal muscles. Good old 'pelvic floor execrices'. Practice with your partner inside and he will love it. :bounce:

I did this for 9 months while pregnant and ended up with a C Section... result: super tight pelvic muscles for no reason (has it's benefits now tho wink )
Look, I think it's great how much you love your lady. It is clearly evident you just want to please her, that's great but don't forget the love making session is about both of you having fun :wink:
For us, Jay normally spends time getting me 'near the mark' before anything else and we 99% of the time cum together. smile
Quote by look
cheers all.
for starters biff is flaming, starting a row, being argumentative.
i dont want to be able to bang for hours on end, yes i agree boring and can only lead to a sore knob.
problem is i find my wife so sexy and struggle to hold it back, even after 20 years together she still turns me on.
she gets sore if we go on for to long, but she takes ages to climax and usually gets sore before it happens.
so i normally do it orally.
i would like to suprise her and give her the fuck of her life.
so ladies if its not how long we last thats important, what is??
i always put her needs before mine.
like to pay her lots of compliments and show her affection, as well as fucking her from all angles and as hard as poss or slow as epending on the mood.
but if i really wanted to rock her world, how would i go about doing this???
all i really want is her to be happy before, during, and after sex.

Ahhh... well put that way it's kinda different.
What works for me when I'm about to come but sense the lady in question is close but not quite there yet is get her husband to take over for a while..
Apart from all the above better more sensible suggestions I have no idea sorry lol.. lol

Like the 'Biff' thing tho
Mike
Quote by foxylady2209
Where do I get a nodding Percy by the way - to put in the back of my car with the nodding Churchill dog?

I can hear it now.....
Oh yes

YES
YES!!