To Bi or not To Bi

29 Oct 2009

Quote by goldsmith
FFS am I talking a foreign language - I have NO problem with people being bi, although we choose not to meet bi guys, its just our choice....

I don't think his comments were aimed at you - you seem to have personalised a lot of the responses so far confused

I'm just reading them as general chit chat and opinion :P

29 Oct 2009

Quote by BIoke
FFS am I talking a foreign language - I have NO problem with people being bi, although we choose not to meet bi guys, its just our choice....

I don't think his comments were aimed at you - you seem to have personalised all of the negative responses so far confused

I'm just reading them as general chit chat :P
Thanks BIoke. xxx It seemed to me that my point was lost in the melly of the posts, and I was getting rather frustrated with it really.

29 Oct 2009

Personally, I MUCH prefer straight guys too :rascal:
Hmmm... I'm not helping am I? <snigger> x

29 Oct 2009

Quote by BIoke
Personally, I MUCH prefer straight guys too :rascal:
Hmmm... I'm not helping am I? <snigger> x

NO! (sniggers back) lol

29 Oct 2009

Quote by brucie
i just had a look at someone's profile as they posted on my thread. yup, a single male looking for all sorts including couple with bi male...
either the scatter gun approach or just happy to suck cock but not talk about it.

That could hav been my profile Bruce, I don't mind meeting a couple wherethe guy is bi, just as long as he apreciates that I'm straight and am there to meet his female partner. As I pointed out earlier I had a great time with the wife of a bisexual man once, he just watched, I don't know or care if he had a wank but he didn't touch me accept to shake hands.
What is up with that?

29 Oct 2009

Quote by goldsmith
But I will state once again that my question was, and still is:
Why do STRAIGHT SINGLE GUYS say they are looking for BI SINGLE GUYS?

Quote by Steve

Does anyone understand what I meant when I started this thread, it's gone so far off the point now you need a sat nav to get back. I am not uneducated or inexperienced, just confused as to why single str8 guys look for single bi guys on their profiles. Simples!!

Perhaps they are looking to experiment dunno

but dont want to "pigeonhole" themselves as bi (and we all know everyone should be in a pigeonhole somewhere dont we) untill they have dabbled a little :dunno:
Or perhaps they see it as an easy way to get a BJ as we all know bi/gay blokes will suck anything if its hard....Just look at some of Blokes exploits .... :lol2:
*goes looking for tongue in cheek emoticon*

29 Oct 2009

Quote by BrightonGeezer
That could hav been my profile Bruce, I don't mind meeting a couple wherethe guy is bi, just as long as he apreciates that I'm straight and am there to meet his female partner. As I pointed out earlier I had a great time with the wife of a bisexual man once, he just watched, I don't know or care if he had a wank but he didn't touch me accept to shake hands.
What is up with that?

Hmmm, that's interesting as I've always assumed (maybe wrongly) that if a bloke is after a couple with a bi male then he must be bi himself confused

It's actually one of the things that will either lead me to message a couple/guy or not to be honest.. it's a bit like me saying I'll meet a single female so she can make tea and iron for me surely? wink

(Can iron but make crap tea myself) :P I dunno - it just seems to me that its a redundant category when you're straight biggrin

30 Oct 2009

i am happy to meet a couple with a bi man, not because i am bi or wish to be, but here is were my mind is in two minds.
Yes i am happy for him to play three in a bed. Yes I am happy, but why not experiment given the chance. I know there are places I will not go, but there is a grey shade of bi. At this time I am not bi, but I will never say will not be. On the other hand I do know I will never be 100% bi, i will always have limits.
Travis

30 Oct 2009

Quote by BrightonGeezer
i just had a look at someone's profile as they posted on my thread. yup, a single male looking for all sorts including couple with bi male...
either the scatter gun approach or just happy to suck cock but not talk about it.

That could hav been my profile Bruce, I don't mind meeting a couple wherethe guy is bi, just as long as he apreciates that I'm straight and am there to meet his female partner. As I pointed out earlier I had a great time with the wife of a bisexual man once, he just watched,I don't know or care if he had a wank but he didn't touch me accept to shake hands.
What is up with that?
He hadn't washed them.

31 Oct 2009

I think the answer to goldsmith's question lies midway between the residual but strong prejudice against bi men and the fact that men fib so much.
Labels are deceptive. I guess I'd have to call myself bi but it's women I find attractive. They are the ones I want to cuddle and be affectionate with and to snog. I don't feel that affection for men. But a man's tackle can be fun to play with. So I keep an eye out for bi-friendly couples (unsuccessfully of course confused

). That leads me to have a browse in the rooms for bi men and when I check the couples' profiles in the male bi rooms, a good proportion of the men label themselves as straight.
*is puzzled*
Women being bi is seen as adventurous, sexy and provocative.
Men being bi is seen as sleazy. The attitude to masturbation has a similar gender divide. So I guess the disconnect between label and behaviour is a sign of that disapproval, even on this site.

1 Nov 2009

Quote by ToshUK
I think the answer to goldsmith's question lies midway between the residual but strong prejudice against bi men and the fact that men fib so much.
Labels are deceptive. I guess I'd have to call myself bi but it's women I find attractive. They are the ones I want to cuddle and be affectionate with and to snog. I don't feel that affection for men. But a man's tackle can be fun to play with. So I keep an eye out for bi-friendly couples (unsuccessfully of course ). That leads me to have a browse in the rooms for bi men and when I check the couples' profiles in the male bi rooms, a good proportion of the men label themselves as straight.
*is puzzled*
Women being bi is seen as adventurous, sexy and provocative.
Men being bi is seen as sleazy. The attitude to masturbation has a similar gender divide. So I guess the disconnect between label and behaviour is a sign of that disapproval, even on this site.

That must be where I lay, it is just that I have not gone bi...and am not actively seeking to.