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To Shave or not to shave, that is the question....

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Should men shave the pubic hair?
Should women?
Should all be shaved off?
Should it just be trimmed?
Are hairy balls a turn on or turn off?
Is a mans arse sexy when hairy?
Do Bi / Gay women find other better sexier with a shaved region?
What about gay /bi men?
Ooh! Now there's a question. rolleyes
I once knew a fella that trimmed his pubes daily. They stood to attention like a regiment of Scotts Guards. I never had the heart to tell him how silly they looked. rotflmao
I shave every now and again when the mood takes m - which is not very often. It is kind of nice when you first do it... but the growing back process is very nasty. I'm forever fighting off the urge to scatch. redface surprisedops:
The bottom line (excuse pun) for me is that I really don't care so long as people keep what they've got clean. There's nothing worse than the whiff of Eau De Building Site eminating from the nether regions. evil
Hxx
I am shaved all the time. Its a personal thing, I prefer it that way but I must admit, it's sometimes a chore as it has to be done on a very regular basis.
I do like men being shaved as well but it's not essential for me.
I guess its all up to the individual and I agree what you say Heather, as long as people are clean, that's what matters most!
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I need more time to think about those questions.... confused
Funny old subject.....?
I do and then dont. It is one of those things I guess. I did find it difficult at first, the 'fear' of the trusty old bic OR the cut throat....! It was a sexy feeling to have zilch down below...! I find the only draw back is the stubble and the spots....any ideas on this??? It feels better, and is something to experiment with if you have not tried it? There are some place however that are a tad bit harder to do, and you have to be quite gentle because as you guys know when you slip on the old face it bleeds for ever, and you cannot stick bits of paper down your pants or use one of those cutsticks because they HURT LIKE HELL..... I guess it has issues with you gals, but we have a few more lumpy bits to contend with....?
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I find the only draw back is the stubble and the spots....any ideas on this???

In theory, if you exfoliate regularly, ie use some sort of rough bath mitt, perhaps combined with some face/body scrub, you shouldn't get the spots, which are caused by the hairs getting caught under the skin. You should only shave in the direction of hair growth to reduce the chance of cutting it below the surface of the skin.. but how many of us are really content with the feel of a shave that's only that close?! Exfoliation has to be done very frequently and lets face it we don't always have the time. Some people recommend a slightly medicated wash around the area to prevent the tiny pockets of infection.
Long term the only real answers are electrolysis (ouch), or perhaps laser treatment (even more expensive). Personally I'm not sure I'd go that route "down there" as it's the fact that it's usually got fuzz all over it that makes it sooooo much more sensitive when you de-fuzz.. and of course there's the surprise element which is always nice! Mmmmmmm smile
Mandy
(The brunette)
Personally I prefer women who are shaved completely, or at least well trimmed. When it's smooth, it's great for giving oral. Similarly, I keep partially shaved for the very same reason! Nothing worse than having to stop to spit out pubic hairs mad Ugh!
Mal
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I think part shaved is the most attractive on both men and women. You can avoid stray pubes as Mal says and neatly trimming the rest is just good personal grooming. Just like the hedge outside your house a well maintained bush say's so much about it's owner!!!!
Mike.
As with any other physical attributes, its a matter of personal choice and taste.
Heather rightly says, the priority is keeping whatever you do have clean. I'd also name Eau de Billingsgate and Eau de Dairylea, as smells guaranteed to halt proceedings sad
Personally, I prefer neat and sparse or none at all on my partner, as I am not a "hairy" fan. Quite apart from the aesthetics I, like Mal, hate spitting pubic hairs out. confused
I keep myself trimmed, although have gone for the "Kojak" look in the past. The only problem was the itchiness, as I allowed it to grow back. I also noticed, after letting it grow back the first time, that the hair was more coarse than before I shaved.
Little tip, for any of the guys who don't trim. Your pride and joy looks bigger after you trim wink
In Blue's ideal world all men should be smooth and have silky soft skin from top to toe...none of this hair nonsense, it looks tatty under stockings and sussies :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
WE prefer hairy, it is always better when your favorite picture is adequetly framed. Combed is nice too or platted, some thing to play with when you are resting with a well earned cuppa.
But on a serious note, to gently stoke and twist can be avery stimulating experience. If also the underarm is allowed to florish , then there is another interesting erogenous zone to chew on. wink
You can't beat plain old "neat and tidy".
I suppose fully shaved in an extreme variant of 'neat' lol
Personally, I don't care. If I had the choice, I'd skip the pre-pubescent look and opt for the 'trim' look. Cleanliness is first and foremost though.
/TheKid
But on a serious note, to gently stoke and twist can be avery stimulating experience. If also the underarm is allowed to florish , then there is another interesting erogenous zone to chew on.

one has to wonder about those of us men who are to put it blunty as hairy as an orangutang.
On the shaven question, for us personally, its not a regular occurance, but we both keep what we have short. i've always found it cleaner and less prone to noxious odours.
When I cry in favour of hair it goes without saying that clenliness is so important, however, long hair, short hair, wiry hair, silky hair, black, brown,bonde, red grey white. All are beautiful and sensuous to the look and touch.
I shave, I love the feeling, cross between velcro and velvet and told it feels lovely under a tongue (ooerrr) !!!
I like shaved pubes on a man, but not the balls
Just my personal opinion
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Love and kisses
Claire
xxx

Never having been with a female that has been shaved I can not say which I would prefere.
I think I would miss that bit of foreplay of twisting hairs, combing and stroking and the ever present memory an hour later of finding that little bit of hair between your teeth. smile
Perhaps I will have my chance on here of finding the shaved pussy.
I live in hope
Fred