Have of late noticed that more than a few posts have come from people obviously involved in the "paid sex industry" .
Ive read a little of the "Escort" type bulletin boards through friends , although I confess its a route thats never appealed to me . What I did notice is that many of the 'punters' dont seem to look at Women involved in swinging any differently to those involved in prostituition . In fact many report clubs and parties as a cheap alternative to paying for their regular encounters . Also it has to be said that Ive witnessed more than a few women progress to working sex from internet swinging with the old " why give it away when i can earn from it" excuse often used by their partner .
(Incidentally well done to the Mod's for locking the threads almost immediately)
I know what I think the differences are between the two so i wont bore you , but just thought it would be interesting for the illustrious members here to clearly explain the difference to any punters who might be listening(as theyre obviously popping in) .
Apart from the obvious cash transaction what defines the differnce for you guys between sex for money and sex as a swinger ??
Think hard and dont make your nose grow Pinnochio ...................
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Orgasminator
because she wants to , not because she needs to has to .
Sex God
One does it for a job, the other does it for fun. What more is there to it than that?
I'm not sure about your motives for asking the question in the first place
.... maybe you're a journo looking for a new "angle"? 
I'm not sure about your motives for asking the question in the first place
.... maybe you're a journo looking for a new "angle"? I once read a quote that said "With a prostitute, you're paying for what you DON'T get", which I think is pretty true - it's a financial transaction, if you're lucky you get what you paid for, but there's no requirement for any kind of involvement or commitment other than the fee.
I'd imagine that most people who indulge in recreational sex expect at least some kind of effort to be made before and after- I've noticed a lot of people on this board say that swinging is primarily about friendship.
I'd imagine that most people who indulge in recreational sex expect at least some kind of effort to be made before and after- I've noticed a lot of people on this board say that swinging is primarily about friendship.
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Apart from the obvious cash transaction what defines the differnce for you guys between sex for money and sex as a swinger ??
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I've never had sex as a swinger, but at a guess... there's less wooing involved when you pay for it.
From the swinging woman's point-of-view she has to find you attractive too, which isn't usually an issue for paid sex workers. Naturally there's a lot more faked orgasms involved with the latter!Quote by Jiminy Cricket
What I did notice is that many of the 'punters' dont seem to look at Women involved in swinging any differently to those involved in prostituition . In fact many report clubs and parties as a cheap alternative to paying for their regular encounters .
I might not be seeing escorts anymore but I still post regularly on a punters forum (why? Met some nice folks on there, we have a laugh) and I can't recall even once seeing that view advocated. Just FYI.
I have heard of plenty of instances of punters hiring prostitutes to go dogging/to swinging clubs/etc with, though.
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roger why do i always think of Frank skinner when i see your avatar?
Sex God
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Orgasminator
thats it , i can see the likeness now, it is the lack of a beard,
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Little dissapointed really. Perhaps it was a Thursday afternoon posting rather than a Saturday night one.
Thankyou Roger for your decent honest reply .
Either the thread got swallowed up or it was something people didnt want to talk about , wether that be because the subject disturbs them or its just dull i dont know.
No Blue hand over heart Im not a reporter , im a regular user of this board and many others and just noticed that the crossover I talked about was without doubt a problem on nearly all the other Swingers boards. I also noticed that Swinging Heaven was extremely well moderated in that respect , along with the fact that the people posting here have not only a talent for having a giggle but a proper abilty to enter into very interesting serious discussion about facinating subjects as well .
I genuinely just thought it would be nice to hear the views of the members just for curiosity sake since there had been a couple of recent threads started along those lines.
If ive brought up a subject you consider too off topic my humble apologies , ill ask something less challenging next time .
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Thankyou Roger for your decent honest reply .
Either the thread got swallowed up or it was something people didnt want to talk about , wether that be because the subject disturbs them or its just dull i dont know.
No Blue hand over heart Im not a reporter , im a regular user of this board and many others and just noticed that the crossover I talked about was without doubt a problem on nearly all the other Swingers boards. I also noticed that Swinging Heaven was extremely well moderated in that respect , along with the fact that the people posting here have not only a talent for having a giggle but a proper abilty to enter into very interesting serious discussion about facinating subjects as well .
I genuinely just thought it would be nice to hear the views of the members just for curiosity sake since there had been a couple of recent threads started along those lines.
If ive brought up a subject you consider too off topic my humble apologies , ill ask something less challenging next time .
xx
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Little dissapointed really. Perhaps it was a Thursday afternoon posting rather than a Saturday night one.
Thankyou Roger for your decent honest reply .
Either the thread got swallowed up or it was something people didnt want to talk about , wether that be because the subject disturbs them or its just dull i dont know.
Or maybe because it was discussed so recently.
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewtopic/13465.html
I genuinely just thought it would be nice to hear the views of the members just for curiosity sake since there had been a couple of recent threads started along those lines.
If ive brought up a subject you consider too off topic my humble apologies , ill ask something less challenging next time .
xx
Well so long as you guarantee it will be less challanging for us
Jas
LOL@Tim Jas
Opps challenging does look a bit condescending in type doesnt it !! :shock:
I was hoping my prior glowing praise in the thread for the members interesting comments might have made the meaning of challenging more clear ( ie less out of tune with the boards ethos).
Thank you for pointing out the previous thread , but that was actually one of the threads I was referring to that prompted the question , since my bet would be that the person who posted it is a punter himself .
Regards
Opps challenging does look a bit condescending in type doesnt it !! :shock:
I was hoping my prior glowing praise in the thread for the members interesting comments might have made the meaning of challenging more clear ( ie less out of tune with the boards ethos).
Thank you for pointing out the previous thread , but that was actually one of the threads I was referring to that prompted the question , since my bet would be that the person who posted it is a punter himself .
Regards
