My wife would love to have anal sex; she regularly has sex with other guys, but has never had it up her rear! She says I'm too big and it would hurt! Obviously I understand her predicament! She has suggested trying another man less well endowed, but if we advertised, would any man put his hand up and admit he had a small coc*k? No chance, or am I wrong?
Any comments guys, especially those not as fortunate as me?
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Ok being serious now have the anus needs to be stretched before you can go all out and etc........... try fingers first then ie 1 finger then work up to 2 and so on get the measure of your thickness (I refer to you penis) then approximate that with width of how many fingers needed etc........... if she is still not wanting you to try then I guess we have our answer dont we ie she does not really want you there. Best of luck :twisted:
I am a female that has always wanted to try anal but was much too wary of my partner being too big. I started by letting him use a finger and then two as the previous poster suggested. Unfortunately, we then split up, I was still curious so I bought myself two different sizes of anal plugs and experimented in the privacy of my home alone, it was a great way to go gently at my own pace and not worry about how little or how much I did in one go. After doing this over a few weeks it became more and more comfortable and the other day I was able to use a vibrator for the first time, it was fantastic. I was a little sore afterwards but soon recovered and now want to do it again and would certainly like any new partner to have a try.
The key is slowly build up to the different sizes, relax and most important is to have lots and lots of lubrication.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
Shyone4u
The key is slowly build up to the different sizes, relax and most important is to have lots and lots of lubrication.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
Shyone4u
I well remember an ageing porn-star once telling me these wise words.
'If you cough a few times, laddie - the old todger pops in easy enough'
By way of explanation, the coughing should be done by the recipient.
Go on - have a cough now and feel what happens to your pelvic floor !
See what I mean !
'If you cough a few times, laddie - the old todger pops in easy enough'
By way of explanation, the coughing should be done by the recipient.
Go on - have a cough now and feel what happens to your pelvic floor !
See what I mean !
Sex God
just emptying all the cough sweets from my cupboard! 
Warming the Bed
yeah, lots of lube helps, my ex said it hurts her to start with so i have to take it slowly, but then i am 7 1/2" which didn't help, but after lots of play it goes in quite nicely then she really enjoys it, she's certainly louder than regular sex.
my ex-ex though was a different kettle of fish, she didn't even need any lube to fuck her in the ass, she was able to take a whole fist with a small amount of lube but i guess she must have been used to stuff like that from her previous boyfriend who was twice her age, (was 19 when i was with her). :shock:
my ex-ex though was a different kettle of fish, she didn't even need any lube to fuck her in the ass, she was able to take a whole fist with a small amount of lube but i guess she must have been used to stuff like that from her previous boyfriend who was twice her age, (was 19 when i was with her). :shock:
Sex God
i cant see how the length matters at all to be honest, its def the width that determines if you can take it or not, one you get past the entrance it doesn't matter within reason how long it is.
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it's just a buzz to be doing something that naughty .