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So after another aborted meet I'm getting so frustrated.
As clearly stated in my ads I'm wanting to meet for fucking. All night. Filthy. Pretty much it all goes. I chat to the lucky people/ person for a while, we meet. And then...
So far I have had
I can't meet up to your expectations
You are too much for me
You are insatiable I can't do any more.
I ain't bad looking, I'm on the larger side of normal expectations but, I am glorious. And pretty good company. If I agree to meet I will always be there. And I will be there for one reason.
I'm so sick of this rejection I am feeling I may go crazy cat lady.
I get a very rare night away, maybe one every two months. I want to have an epic orgasmic time. Is that too much to ask?
Perhaps I'm going about this wrong?
There is no 'wrong' only your 'right'. The world can be a puzzling place, you sound great!
Maybe people are intimidated by your writing style? I do enjoy meeting people, but not many people want to go all night long.
Then again it might just be a process of finding the right people for you? depending on my mood sometimes all I want is a quick meet and then to doze off.
Maybe you could try a club, possibly on a greedy girl night.
Hi,
you're obviously not shy or lacking confidence. Maybe you come across as intimidating to some? Although as you say yourself, you're pretty good company you might just come across as a bit full on for the more relaxed of people.
I guess another thing that may happen is that there is just no spark, or the spark get's extinguished once the lucky 'chosen one' has met you and played with you, maybe they go the once to be polite, but can't get into it to go all night long?
In my personal experience, it takes a special connection to want to go all night long, both partners have to put effort in as well as having a great lust for each other, if either are lacking, you'll be left wanting.
Maybe a better choice would be to arrange multiple partners, I see a greedy girl night has been suggested, might be a good option?
Cheers,
Neil
Quote by La_bella_donna
So after another aborted meet I'm getting so frustrated.
As clearly stated in my ads I'm wanting to meet for fucking. All night. Filthy. Pretty much it all goes. I chat to the lucky people/ person for a while, we meet. And then...
So far I have had
I can't meet up to your expectations
You are too much for me
You are insatiable I can't do any more.
I ain't bad looking, I'm on the larger side of normal expectations but, I am glorious. And pretty good company. If I agree to meet I will always be there. And I will be there for one reason.
I'm so sick of this rejection I am feeling I may go crazy cat lady.
I get a very rare night away, maybe one every two months. I want to have an epic orgasmic time. Is that too much to ask?
Perhaps I'm going about this wrong?

You could try a friend to go clubbing with, I had a female friend who we went out with and had some great fun. but she has now given up. but in a club you can have fun then leave it alone. but if you meet a decent guy then who can perform that's for next time!!!! I met a really good guy but he has since met and settled down with someone so that's one away!! she is a lucky bugger lol. but i would deffo say go a to a club.
Lisa xx
Quote by La_bella_donna
Perhaps I'm going about this wrong?

Expectations in swinging rarely match reality, If it's not happening/working for you adjust and move along or you might find yourself wanting for something that may never happen? and where is the fun in that?
can i recommend this.
let me know how you do. btw fuck all wrong with you so dont take it all to heart.
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can i recommend this.
let me know how you do. btw fuck all wrong with you so dont take it all to heart.

Throwing me a bone(r)?
Thanks!!
Maybe it's the guy, maybe by chatting to you and getting a meet he is fueling his own ego and when it comes to the crunch had no real intention of meeting. As for the ones you do meet, all guys think they are super studs but when it comes to performing all night very few can do it.
The club thing is a good idea, you can be escorted there by the guy you choose and if he isn't enough for you there my be others there that can help, that's not me saying you don't care who you play with but it is something to think about.
Matt xx