I have a woman friend who is retiring soon from a sensitive job, a little bit early, and thinks that she would like to live a little bit more once she's free of that responsibility.
I wonder if anyone here can give us an idea of what sort of welcome we could expect if we went to a swingers club? Would a couple turning 60 feel right out of place, or are there some clubs that are better for the older age group? Are we the only people in that decade who even consider it?
Also, she doesn't much like the idea of shaving down there. Attitudes seem to have changed since my great days of swinging - is shaving now essential?
Thanks...
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My experience of clubs is that you get people of all different ages, shapes, sizes and colours there :thumbup: So no worries on that front! 
I remember that it took me bluddy yonks to venture into a club because I was convinced that everyone would be staring at my lardy bod in horror
When I finally went in, it took me about a minute before I realised that noone was staring and everyone was very accepting, and that everyone was also completely normal!! :shock:
If you want my advice, I would say to give a club a try out, make it clear to your friend that it would be just a social visit, no playing at all. That way the pressure is completely off her, and she can sus a club out at her leisure, chat to people and get the general vibe of the place.
Then if she likes it and is comfortable, speak to her beforehand to set boundaries and limits, then visit the club again, once again no playing if she doesn't feel ready or comfortable.
Get her to take things at her own pace, enjoy the experience rather than trying to gallop into things.
Above all, have fun :thumbup:
Good luck and enjoy
I remember that it took me bluddy yonks to venture into a club because I was convinced that everyone would be staring at my lardy bod in horror
When I finally went in, it took me about a minute before I realised that noone was staring and everyone was very accepting, and that everyone was also completely normal!! :shock:If you want my advice, I would say to give a club a try out, make it clear to your friend that it would be just a social visit, no playing at all. That way the pressure is completely off her, and she can sus a club out at her leisure, chat to people and get the general vibe of the place.
Then if she likes it and is comfortable, speak to her beforehand to set boundaries and limits, then visit the club again, once again no playing if she doesn't feel ready or comfortable.
Get her to take things at her own pace, enjoy the experience rather than trying to gallop into things.
Above all, have fun :thumbup:
Good luck and enjoy
I personally don't like clubs but can comment on the shaven ladybits and say I prefer natural or neatly trimmed (it doesn't make any difference with 'wor lass' she just ignores my wishes 
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I know from talking to others that au naturelle is other's preference too. So there will no shortage of interest I am sure.
)I know from talking to others that au naturelle is other's preference too. So there will no shortage of interest I am sure.
Sexpert
I personally know of a lady who recently joined sh at the age of 59, she is having a lot of fun on here and yes she also doesn't shave but it defo doesn't put people off, that is all down to personal preferance. Clubs I personally have never been to a club or really fancy the idea of it myself, but its like all things down to the indiviual involved, but I do know a few people who go to chams regually and they really enjoy it. So don't be put off by any of it and just go with the flow, but most of all have fun, its only a game as long as you make your rules and stick to them then everything will be ok.
Orgasminator
As another bus-pass holder I can assure you that she isn't too old. My experience of clubs like chameleons and Xtasias is that everyone is welcomed and when I was a fairly regular visitor to chams (around a year ago) it was with a lovely lady of similar age to myself.
So the answer is definitely "go for it" -- lets enjoy it while we can !!!
So the answer is definitely "go for it" -- lets enjoy it while we can !!!
Sex God
Someone once told me that you are only too old for swinging when you can't get your legs back together after a good session :twisted:
