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Quote by Dawnie
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In Edit: My boobs look like they could belong to a 38 year old, and seeing as that's all you're really interested in I may be ok! :P

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Quote by Kiss
Well at 28

I'm 38 and would consider 10 to 12 years younger so thats 26 or 28 innocent
And your straight :whistling:
Quote by Mallock2006
And your straight innocent

Damn it, I forgot that bit :doh:
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Quote by Dawnie
And your straight innocent

Damn it, I forgot that bit :doh:
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You seem to do that on a regular basis..... ;-)
Off to the forgetfull thread
smackbottom
I've had a huge amount of fun with a girl who is only a third of my age - we talk incessantly, and have a lot of laughs, and I love her youthfulness. She's much younger than my own kids - but that has never bothered me! Am I very wicked?
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I've had a huge amount of fun with a girl who is only a third of my age - we talk incessantly, and have a lot of laughs, and I love her youthfulness. She's much younger than my own kids - but that has never bothered me! Am I very wicked?

Naaaaaaaa, you enjoy!
I was thinking the very same thing FB lol
Is there something afoot with all this boundary setting?
Abi - are you drawing up yer business plan or summat? wink
Surely, one of the pleasures in life, as we know it, is to allow things to happen naturally. If it's good go with it - if it's not then drop it.
Setting boundaries just narrows options.
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Quote by westerross
Is there something afoot with all this boundary setting?
Abi - are you drawing up yer business plan or summat? wink
Surely, one of the pleasures in life, as we know it, is to allow things to happen naturally. If it's good go with it - if it's not then drop it.
Setting boundaries just narrows options.
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My view entirely, oh and wave Hi Abi, good to see you posting :wink:
Personally, i do not find the age gap a problem. to be honest i prefer woman to be 35-55ish, but that said, i would have no qualms in getting it together with a much younger female(so long as it was legal) if i was sure that they were willing & going into it with their eyes open. i have one aquaintance of 53 who since splitting with his wife, has only had relationships with 16/17 year olds. Perhaps its because sub conciously im scared of getting old & trying to convince myself i'm not, who knows, but as i said, it would have to be STRICKLY ok on both sides.
I hope these comments do not offend anyone as they are merely my thoughts & are not intended to.
Anyone older than 18 and younger than pensionable age, I'm desperate God damn it desperate i tell ya!! :shock:
I like the lady to be older than me, if possible, if available, if willing, if keen, thanks a lot
Quote by Abilene
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Half my age plus ten is the youngest I will date. So I am 34 ... therefore the youngest I will date is 27. Why?

hey Abi...ive got 2 months to wait...roll on june!!
for me i guess its about if you connect to someone..age, to a certain degree, is irrelevant....although i guess wouldnt go younger than my nephew nieces and their late teens...
I haven't really dated a guy much younger than myself. As a rule though I think anyone younger than 27 or 28 would be too young (I am 35) - I am judging this on frienships I have and the knowledge that I find younger men (again in my experience) to be immature. Although I would like to add this is not a generalisation of any kind - I could be proved wrong!
Quote by varca
I have playmates that range from 31 to 59 and each brings something different experience wise. I have always said no male playmates under 30, although a lady can use her prerogative of course biggrin Why no under 30's? I am not really sure now I come to think of it. Methinks I am scrapping that rule.... and fast :rascal:

And nooo it has nothing whatsover to do with the timely arrival of lukes innocent :giggle:

You could wait two years!! But there again patience is a virtue isn't it! :giggle:
We were having a conversation about this with a couple the other week.
Both ladies immediately said, not under 30.
Both us guys immediately said 18!!
Guess we're shallower rotflmao
The conversation then took a silly turn and we've ended up with a bet to see who can snog the youngest person (18+). My money is on the ladies personally lol
j xx
My cut off age is 40+, which could still make me 15 years older. Having given some thought to this I think it is also because of shared experiences. If we ever get round to conversing and I mention something I dont want them to be able to make the comment " I wasn't born then" At least with someone closer to my age group they may even understand when I talk of things happening in the 70's even if they were only todddlers then. I have a son of 20 and I would honestly want him to have experience with his own age group. Also I find older guys are more tolerant of sagging and drooping and are unlikely to make spaniels ears comparisons when I remove my top :taz:
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Don't you find though, that you tend to stick to people within your own age group - not necessarily through a mental choice, but just because it turns out that way??? dunno

It's certainly what we've found
Sorry ... I had a comment all thought out and then couldn't stop staring at your avatar. Lost me train of thought!!
Ha smile Only just noticed that !!
Quote by varca
I have playmates that range from 31 to 59...

How about 28, is that too young? :rascal:
Quote by varca
I have playmates that range from 31 to 59 and each brings something different experience wise. I have always said no male playmates under 30, although a lady can use her prerogative of course biggrin Why no under 30's? I am not really sure now I come to think of it. Methinks I am scrapping that rule.... and fast :rascal:

I reckon you should definetly think about scrapping that rule :twisted:
good question.
Being 'only' 26 I tend to find that say girls of 20 or so are just sooooooooo hard work.
I've went out with woman of 37 and never had any probs.
I have not put any limits on age, other than the legal one. in fact I do not ask "How old are you". Having said that I can not remember any young ones lately.
Its post like this that make me cry. lol
*cough* Is 18 *cough*
Up until now I've always said about ten years younger and five years older, I did date a guy six years older than me and we had very little to talk about so I think maybe he's jaded me against seeing older guys. I do find I have more in common with people younger than me but I don't feel particularly comfortable seeing anyone much more than ten years younger mainly because I'm embarrassed about what the rigours of time have done to various bits of me. I don't have children so I think that might be why I feel younger than I do? Not sure what anyone else feels about that bit.
H.x
Age is only a number,there is a large age gap between us but as we get older it doesnt seem so bad.
for eg
If a female was 18 and male was 40 it would be dirty old man but if it were female that was 28 and male was 50 it would't get the same reaction.
Makes me laugh when a 38 year old female will meet a 23 year old guy but wont meet a 53 year old guy ffs same age gap,only different way round rolleyes
woo
Quote by H-x
I don't have children so I think that might be why I feel younger than I do?

You definitely feel younger than 39. :grin:
Quote by H-x
Up until now I've always said about ten years younger and five years older, I did date a guy six years older than me and we had very little to talk about so I think maybe he's jaded me against seeing older guys. I do find I have more in common with people younger than me but I don't feel particularly comfortable seeing anyone much more than ten years younger mainly because I'm embarrassed about what the rigours of time have done to various bits of me. I don't have children so I think that might be why I feel younger than I do? Not sure what anyone else feels about that bit.
H.x

I have four kids. My eldest is now the same age I was when I fell pregnant :shock:
I still walk on walls, skip in the street, and generally play up cool I'm pretty much the only member of my martial arts club of my age & end up hanging around with guys in their early twenties, I spar with them, get changed with them, and am pretty much just "one of the lads".
I don't want to grow up- it's dull rolleyes
OOO wench.
Thats's where I met my gf at my club and we have been together nine years now.
She is a 2nd dan blackbelt and I'm still only a beginner at 6th Dan wink.
Don't give up your training as it will keep you fit and supple in your old age ffs just look at me, im an oap and I can still touch my toes (with my other foot) :wink:
woo
It's amazing how many of you SAY you wont go for anyone as young me, but not naming names cause im too MATURE, have in the past propositioned me!
Personally i think your all be slightly age-ist.
I think it is more to do with maturity and self development. Of course your arugement isn't a complete flaw as you can use age as a guideline, but you should give and take as some are more mentally developed then others!
If i offend anyone with this then im sorry.
Quote by Chaotic_Spirit
It's amazing how many of you SAY you wont go for anyone as young me, but not naming names cause im too MATURE, have in the past propositioned me!
Personally i think your all be slightly age-ist.
I think it is more to do with maturity and self development. Of course your arugement isn't a complete flaw as you can use age as a guideline, but you should give and take as some are more mentally developed then others!
If i offend anyone with this then im sorry.

Are you saying that someone in this thread has propositioned you, even though they have said on here that you're too young?
I think you'll find that there are a few who have said that age is irrelevant.
Quote by Freckledbird
It's amazing how many of you SAY you wont go for anyone as young me, but not naming names cause im too MATURE, have in the past propositioned me!
Personally i think your all be slightly age-ist.
I think it is more to do with maturity and self development. Of course your arugement isn't a complete flaw as you can use age as a guideline, but you should give and take as some are more mentally developed then others!
If i offend anyone with this then im sorry.

Are you saying that someone in this thread has propositioned you, even though they have said on here that you're too young?
I think you'll find that there are a few who have said that age is irrelevant.
Yes sorry i did slightly rush that post and have used the incorrect word here, i find some of you slightly age-ist would have been better.
Thank you for pointing this out to me freakled! biggrin