I've had a huge amount of fun with a girl who is only a third of my age - we talk incessantly, and have a lot of laughs, and I love her youthfulness. She's much younger than my own kids - but that has never bothered me! Am I very wicked?
Personally, i do not find the age gap a problem. to be honest i prefer woman to be 35-55ish, but that said, i would have no qualms in getting it together with a much younger female(so long as it was legal) if i was sure that they were willing & going into it with their eyes open. i have one aquaintance of 53 who since splitting with his wife, has only had relationships with 16/17 year olds. Perhaps its because sub conciously im scared of getting old & trying to convince myself i'm not, who knows, but as i said, it would have to be STRICKLY ok on both sides.
I hope these comments do not offend anyone as they are merely my thoughts & are not intended to.
Anyone older than 18 and younger than pensionable age, I'm desperate God damn it desperate i tell ya!! :shock:
I like the lady to be older than me, if possible, if available, if willing, if keen, thanks a lot
I haven't really dated a guy much younger than myself. As a rule though I think anyone younger than 27 or 28 would be too young (I am 35) - I am judging this on frienships I have and the knowledge that I find younger men (again in my experience) to be immature. Although I would like to add this is not a generalisation of any kind - I could be proved wrong!
My cut off age is 40+, which could still make me 15 years older. Having given some thought to this I think it is also because of shared experiences. If we ever get round to conversing and I mention something I dont want them to be able to make the comment " I wasn't born then" At least with someone closer to my age group they may even understand when I talk of things happening in the 70's even if they were only todddlers then. I have a son of 20 and I would honestly want him to have experience with his own age group. Also I find older guys are more tolerant of sagging and drooping and are unlikely to make spaniels ears comparisons when I remove my top :taz:
good question.
Being 'only' 26 I tend to find that say girls of 20 or so are just sooooooooo hard work.
I've went out with woman of 37 and never had any probs.
I have not put any limits on age, other than the legal one. in fact I do not ask "How old are you". Having said that I can not remember any young ones lately.
Up until now I've always said about ten years younger and five years older, I did date a guy six years older than me and we had very little to talk about so I think maybe he's jaded me against seeing older guys. I do find I have more in common with people younger than me but I don't feel particularly comfortable seeing anyone much more than ten years younger mainly because I'm embarrassed about what the rigours of time have done to various bits of me. I don't have children so I think that might be why I feel younger than I do? Not sure what anyone else feels about that bit.
H.x
It's amazing how many of you SAY you wont go for anyone as young me, but not naming names cause im too MATURE, have in the past propositioned me!
Personally i think your all be slightly age-ist.
I think it is more to do with maturity and self development. Of course your arugement isn't a complete flaw as you can use age as a guideline, but you should give and take as some are more mentally developed then others!
If i offend anyone with this then im sorry.