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Transgender, a serious question

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Hi folks
We have not been around for a while due to other commitments so thought we would contribute while we have the chance.
A serious question, asked for a reason other than pure curiosity.
How do you tell if a woman is transgendered? We mean physically, are there any tell tale signs to look for?
We know that this probably makes us look like a right pair of amateurs, but then we are, so shoot us lol.
Seriously though, we do have a reason for asking so any informative replies would be appreciated.
Thanks all
K & J
Professionaly speaking...Women generally have a wider more defined pelvis.. mens are narrower and shallower and depending on how good the surgeon was... scarring around the genital area ... but it's gonna be difficult for an untrained eye ... smile
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Hi folks
We have not been around for a while due to other commitments so thought we would contribute while we have the chance.
A serious question, asked for a reason other than pure curiosity.
How do you tell if a woman is transgendered? We mean physically, are there any tell tale signs to look for?
We know that this probably makes us look like a right pair of amateurs, but then we are, so shoot us lol.
Seriously though, we do have a reason for asking so any informative replies would be appreciated.
Thanks all
K & J

depends if there pre or post opp , most post opp girls if they started hormones early in life you would never tell . a post opp ts confuses a gynocologist it looks like weve had an hystorectomy , but theres some post opp girls that are still quite male in the habbits they cant shake off there build or gestures , and theres some pre opp that would put a genetic female to shame , im me im not trying to be a female or trying to kill off my male things ive lerned , im transsexual and i love being straight down the middle i get more fun that way
Hmmm, so basically then there’s no real way of telling ? Even during intercourse? :shock:
Wow oh well, we live and learn, thanks for your frank replies anyway.
K & J
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Hmmm, so basically then there’s no real way of telling ? Even during intercourse? :shock:
Wow oh well, we live and learn, thanks for your frank replies anyway.
K & J

what do you expect 3 heads and five arms
Now that could be useful rotflmao
Seriously though, not shure what we expected, that's why we asked dunno
and we are shure that most who have read this have worked out the reason for the question being posted.
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Why would you need to know?
If a person, regardless of the circumstances of thier birth, wants to be accepted as a male, female, alien, jedi, oompaloompa or whatever, then surely that is their choice? If your mate Desmond requests that from now on you call him Marjorie and refer to him as her, surly out of all courtesy you should? And if you accept that, then why would you need to worry about whether any new person you meet might have been born as Oswald but is now Stephanie?

I agree with that, one of my shagging partners friends is post op, maybe I would feel slightly different if I had known her before but I dont think in a bad way I just think it would be a bit strange as I had always known them as a man then they are a woman but at the end of the day she is a she as far as Im concerned and thats good enough for me.
I dont think theres anyway you can tell and to me it doesnt matter either way although not everyone thinks that way suppose in a way its just the same as being or not being gay, straight, bi, swinger etc!? Different things float peoples boat while others dont?
You are right about accepting them as a person and not labelling them but surely you are entitled to know some history about people you f*ck. If this information is not forthcoming, a few clues would be helpful. Its similar to the rights we have to know if someone we interact with has an contageous condition.
I have to say that I think one of my ex girlfriends was post op. She always said there was something she "needed to tell me" , but never did. I just had this feeling that she was post op becuase I never saw any photos of her as a kid, and my intuition just said that she was. Didn't, and wouldn't have, made any difference to me!! Wish she had had the guts to tell me though!!!
aRSeexx :color:
As far as being entitled to some history goes... I'd say you're only entitled to whatever history someone chooses to share. If you feel they're hiding something you'd rather know, it's always your choice not to take it any further.
I don't really agree with equating a sex change to a contagious condition.... sleeping with a she who used to be a he isn't dangerous to your health biggrin
As far as the transgender thing does - I'd have thought, if you really can't tell, then it wouldn't matter? Except that it would be nice to have someone trust you enough to tell you, I suppose.
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Why would you need to know?
If a person, regardless of the circumstances of thier birth, wants to be accepted as a male, female, alien, jedi, oompaloompa or whatever, then surely that is their choice? If your mate Desmond requests that from now on you call him Marjorie and refer to him as her, surly out of all courtesy you should? And if you accept that, then why would you need to worry about whether any new person you meet might have been born as Oswald but is now Stephanie?

I agree here %100. It doesnt matter if they are TS Martian Sarge ori between, you accept them as they are.
P ersonally I dont give a damm about a persons past present/gender, if they have had gender reassignment so what, if you like the personality of the person then what else is needed
personally i always find the beard a bit of a give away !!!!!
Kristoff, as you are bi-sexual going off your "couples" ad it is not suprising someones gender is of little concern to you. However it is to me and I expect somebody to tell me if they are a trans-sexual. I may still choose to be with them but I believe in honesty. If it was a one night stand I may never know, however a longer relationship requires trust and therefore honesty.
isn't it usually written on the care label with the washing and ironing instructions?
40degree wash, cool iron, used to be a man biggrin