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Soo seeing as the suspect hasn’t been bought up (from what I have seen) in a while.

What are the things that you all find to be a turn off?

Obviously bad personal hygiene is at the top for everyone, but what other things do we all find that give us the ick and can either stop conversation or end a meet abruptly.

For me I find ignorance to be one of the top reasons, due to impatient idiots being demanding due to their own needs.

Smelly feet, and unkept toe nails will have me running for the hills (not sorry). along with Bad teeth/breathe 🤢

I also won’t meet a smoker, although I’m an ex smoker (12 years smoke free) I cant stand the smell or taste, soo it’s a no from me.

But I think not being able to stimulate someone mentally before a meet is also right at the top of my list, as why would you meet someone if your not even attracted to them mentally and not be able to have that connection when getting physical.

That’s just a few of mine. What else is it for you guys? X

Where do i start ?? I cant stand :

All of the above totally agree there ^^^

Defining it a tad more :

People who mail you or DM you with just Hi and sod all else.....shows lack of personality and imagination god knows what they would be like on an actual meet.

People who reffer to you as 'Lovely' ' Sweetie ' 'Deary' ...... nah i am not your whatever i have a name.

People who use the same chat up lines or conversational lines everytime they log into a chatroom, puts predicta txt into a whole new light. 🙄

People who send you unsolicited cock picture or such like without even having a conversation before hand.

People who abuse you because you wont meet ' cos they live close'

People who put profile face pictures on that were taken soon after they left school and they are now in their midlife crisis.

There are many more but i dont like to wear Knickers let alone grumpy ones.

Omg, the demanding locals piss me off to the high heavens, just because they aren’t working that day or have a few hours free doesn’t mean we all have. Told a few to jog on 😂

Cock pic’s are just not necessary unless they have been asked for!

If we have seen one we have seen them all so a bit of originality won’t go a miss.

And yes the the lack of originality when it comes to simple and short text is just a no too. I have stated on my profile about this in winks too, if they can’t be bothered to start a conversation with a brief message and a question of what it is we are looking for the don’t waste your time as I won’t waste yours x

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Where do i start ?? I cant stand :

All of the above totally agree there ^^^

Defining it a tad more :

People who mail you or DM you with just Hi and sod all else.....shows lack of personality and imagination god knows what they would be like on an actual meet.

People who reffer to you as 'Lovely' ' Sweetie ' 'Deary' ...... nah i am not your whatever i have a name.

People who use the same chat up lines or conversational lines everytime they log into a chatroom, puts predicta txt into a whole new light. 🙄

People who send you unsolicited cock picture or such like without even having a conversation before hand.

People who abuse you because you wont meet ' cos they live close'

People who put profile face pictures on that were taken soon after they left school and they are now in their midlife crisis.

There are many more but i dont like to wear Knickers let alone grumpy ones.

Ah cumon sweetie don't be like that 🙄

Ah cumon sweetie don't be like that 🙄🤣 🤣 you can go off people you know 😘

Turn offs. Bad manners. Poor personal hygiene. Dishonesty. Disrespectful, boorish behaviour. Smoking. Drugs. Heavy tattoos. Male piercings.

Update: 29/4/23 Idiots, like the one we just blocked, who think it's ok to disregard our profile and send unsolicited cock shots. They behave like flashers!

Turn offs

hmmm 🤔

Winking wankersI

I’m in your area - quick drop your life and come and shag me

Do you do bare back and show us yer tits

Is this the missus? Would you share your missus? (like I’ve not got a brain)

Messages of hi, hi there, hey and hey there

No face pic, gym chest pics, bathroom chest pics, dick pics from bathrooms, especially dick pics from the public toilets actually dick pics in general.

Do you want to watch me wank? Like why would I do that?

I think that’ll do for the moment but if I think of anymore I’ll be back!!

People who moan this site is shite as they have been here 10minutes and still they haven't been asked to shag a super model, although they have sent out hundreds of cock pics to any random profile that happens to be on line,even although they are sometimes thousands of miles away.

They might be only 1000 miles away one day,so how's about it?

People with no manners,patience or even a sense of humour

People who ask personal questions,like "where do you work or even live!

And the daddy of them all.

People that won't take NO as an answer.

All the above is when my mrs is on our couples account.

Where do you live? Drop everything - you know you want it you little tease 😂🤣

We have a few turnoffs! What we call "guff shots" in the picture section, especially with harry monk dribbling out! People who deliberately post pictures of expensive cars and things. We just want to meet people, not their possessions. Obviously most of the above with reference to hygiene. Overly large people.

But worse of all are those with a sense of entitlement. Who think that they are on a swingers site, so they should be able to get a shag. We have had very many of those since 1999.