Warming the Bed
Recently went out in Peterborough dressed as Karen for the first time(been to tv clubs etc) got a mixed reactioin not any bad moments though,but would like to hear people views and i wont take it personal so please be xxx
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Sex God
Awwww... go you!! :thumbup:
I got a real eye opener the first time I came down to Manchester and went out in Canal Street. Brilliant. Utterly fantastic that you girls can come out dressed as you like and be yourselves. I take my hat off to you all.
I live in Edinburgh and I actually can't explain the reaction that would no doubt go on there.
I don't like that most of you have better legs than me though. Can you just stop that please?!
I got a real eye opener the first time I came down to Manchester and went out in Canal Street. Brilliant. Utterly fantastic that you girls can come out dressed as you like and be yourselves. I take my hat off to you all.
I live in Edinburgh and I actually can't explain the reaction that would no doubt go on there.
I don't like that most of you have better legs than me though. Can you just stop that please?!
Sex God
Hi Karen 
Personally I don't have a problem with TV's/ CD etc what so ever, and have had some great nights out in Manchester and clubs with some.
Glad you have made it to the forums and the cafe
I agree with DG, TV's have great legs, look good in stocking and heeled boots!
Mind you one TV did some years ago, after a munch in the hotel the following morning reappeared as his normal self, and compeltely threw me, when he came up to me and asked me if I knew who he was,
ops: :oops: :oops:
Personally I don't have a problem with TV's/ CD etc what so ever, and have had some great nights out in Manchester and clubs with some.
Glad you have made it to the forums and the cafe
I agree with DG, TV's have great legs, look good in stocking and heeled boots!
Mind you one TV did some years ago, after a munch in the hotel the following morning reappeared as his normal self, and compeltely threw me, when he came up to me and asked me if I knew who he was,
ops: :oops: :oops: 
Sex God
Well I find the picture quality is better on the new flat-screens and CD's need at least 5.1 sound system - - - - -
Sorry, Karen, couldn't resist. xxxx
Serious reply. As a bi-woman, I have no 'problem' with any gender variation. If you look better in stockings than me I may get a tad green-eyed. LOL
I overheard some colleagues (male) talking about a guy at work who went the full way with gender reassignment and their reactions were a master-class in insecure, hetero males trying (and frankly failing) to deal with something that they didn't understand. It's not so much what they said (mostly about what do you call them, which loos do they use ffs) but the tone. It was quite obvious that they were most concerned about what the other guys in the group would think of them during the conversation. I found it hilarious.
I know that face to face they would be perfectly civil, but they would be sweating with worry about what their male 'mates' would be thinking.
The only thing that will change that kind of thing is exposure - as people get used to seeing a wider variety of gender options around them, they will become more comfortable about it.
Personally I love the bit in To Wong Foo (if you haven't seen it - you must Patrick Swayze is to die for!!) where he says to his (absent) mother. "Your approval is neither desired nor required, I will take your acceptance." I LOVE that quote.
Sorry, Karen, couldn't resist. xxxx
Serious reply. As a bi-woman, I have no 'problem' with any gender variation. If you look better in stockings than me I may get a tad green-eyed. LOL
I overheard some colleagues (male) talking about a guy at work who went the full way with gender reassignment and their reactions were a master-class in insecure, hetero males trying (and frankly failing) to deal with something that they didn't understand. It's not so much what they said (mostly about what do you call them, which loos do they use ffs) but the tone. It was quite obvious that they were most concerned about what the other guys in the group would think of them during the conversation. I found it hilarious.
I know that face to face they would be perfectly civil, but they would be sweating with worry about what their male 'mates' would be thinking.
The only thing that will change that kind of thing is exposure - as people get used to seeing a wider variety of gender options around them, they will become more comfortable about it.
Personally I love the bit in To Wong Foo (if you haven't seen it - you must Patrick Swayze is to die for!!) where he says to his (absent) mother. "Your approval is neither desired nor required, I will take your acceptance." I LOVE that quote.
Warming the Bed
TY Sarah,I had same sort of experience,I went to Eastbourne on a Transliving Weekend,8 of us teamed up at meal times etc,all the time dressed as girls then on the final morning I was only girl at breakfast it was a shock,but a funny
Sex God
Well you have brought out a few memories for me,thinking of the TV's I know.
A Glasgow pre much drinks, chatting away to the couple during the afternoon, having an odd few beers like you do, off they go early with the male saying, got to go and get dressed up.
That evening meet the female at the munch and ask where (hubbys name) is, to get loads of laughter from these 2 women.............. ops: :oops:
(I still want his red boots)
A Glasgow pre much drinks, chatting away to the couple during the afternoon, having an odd few beers like you do, off they go early with the male saying, got to go and get dressed up.
That evening meet the female at the munch and ask where (hubbys name) is, to get loads of laughter from these 2 women..............
ops: :oops: (I still want his red boots
) Warming the Bed
The transformation can be so amazing,and a tribute to the girlsfor the effort they put into
I have no probs at all with CD`s or TV`s, we`ve been to quite a few socials where the ladies (I say once you`ve got your tights on, you are ladies) have attended too and they look fab, very true about the legs tho, put my little dumpy ones to shame 
We should all be able to live how we want to, so go for it and be happy
We should all be able to live how we want to, so go for it and be happy
Warming the Bed
Ty Sandy,your legs are lovely,keep opening them xxxxx
Sex God
Karen, have you considered a trip to Manchester for Sparkle?
Fabulous weekend!
Fabulous weekend!
Now then, I am not a cross dresser, or transvestite, or whatever the current terminology is, but I am a person who enjoys... shall we say... specialist clothing.
an ever so slight leaning towards the rubbery/latex end of the aisle.
so, in mylove of latex, and what it does for me I have over the years tried and enjoyed some garments that ordinarily would have been considered for the female. Which I'm not. Nor do I feel I wish to be.
However, wearing latex and with a 'fetish' mindset using clothing styles that ordinarily would be feminine, I have discovered something that I really rather enjoy.. and it has indeed been rather a confidence booster.
I had a little black dress,that I genuinely braught thinking it was a vest... when worn to it's full length (still very short!) it helped me to 'feel' extremely sexy... something I wouldn't think of myself in the day-to-day. So further within this latex/fetish arena I have tried stockings, suspenders, leggings and catsuit...
None of this, in my case, is done to become or feel feminine, though when I dress in this manner I feel it gives me a glimpse of wat itmay feel like to be a female in the sence of a desirable and attractive physical form.
So that is my slant on this subject, within this 'fetish' area of rubber and latex, I am not averse to wearing some generally thought of as female clothing, though I am not attempting to 'be' or 'appear' female. (making sence yet?)
This is the that started it... it felt jolly nice too. It's alittle damaged.
lp
an ever so slight leaning towards the rubbery/latex end of the aisle.
so, in mylove of latex, and what it does for me I have over the years tried and enjoyed some garments that ordinarily would have been considered for the female. Which I'm not. Nor do I feel I wish to be.
However, wearing latex and with a 'fetish' mindset using clothing styles that ordinarily would be feminine, I have discovered something that I really rather enjoy.. and it has indeed been rather a confidence booster.
I had a little black dress,that I genuinely braught thinking it was a vest... when worn to it's full length (still very short!) it helped me to 'feel' extremely sexy... something I wouldn't think of myself in the day-to-day. So further within this latex/fetish arena I have tried stockings, suspenders, leggings and catsuit...
None of this, in my case, is done to become or feel feminine, though when I dress in this manner I feel it gives me a glimpse of wat itmay feel like to be a female in the sence of a desirable and attractive physical form.
So that is my slant on this subject, within this 'fetish' area of rubber and latex, I am not averse to wearing some generally thought of as female clothing, though I am not attempting to 'be' or 'appear' female. (making sence yet?)
This is the that started it... it felt jolly nice too. It's alittle damaged.
lp
And no one wears a rubber skirt quite like you LP :twisted:
Karen, kudos to you for doing what feels right for you
At the end of the day everyone should have the freedom to dress how they wish but sadly the world is full of closed minds and hateful people. For every one person willing to accept you for who you are, there will always be another 5 ready to insult or humiliate.
In the words of Judy Garland - Be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of everyone else :thumbup:
Karen, kudos to you for doing what feels right for you
At the end of the day everyone should have the freedom to dress how they wish but sadly the world is full of closed minds and hateful people. For every one person willing to accept you for who you are, there will always be another 5 ready to insult or humiliate. In the words of Judy Garland - Be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of everyone else :thumbup:
Warming the Bed
Ty for your comments,yes nola i am going sparkles really looking forward to it,random orbit ty very interesting,and ty sassy seren know exactly what you mean makes you want to open their minds with a blunt can
Sex God
OMG... i just looked at the 'vest' pic... as if its not already hot enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
hwoar:
hwoar: 
Sex God
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Ty for your comments,yes nola i am going sparkles really looking forward to it,random orbit ty very interesting,and ty sassy seren know exactly what you mean makes you want to open their minds with a blunt can
You'll have a great time Karen. :thumbup:
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This is the 'vest' that started it... it felt jolly nice too. It's alittle damaged.
lp
I was sooooooo tempted to edit that link to one! :giggle:
I just realised, that looks just like
The only issue I have with TVs/CDs is that they cause me headaches with the mod's photo approvals! It can be a real challenge trying to decide if the photo is male or female! :shock: ;-)
