Call me a cynic hun but i'd go with your first thought allways and what your "gut instinct" tells you.
My opinion (ie my gut-feeling) = you are right
Underhanded tactics to procure a bi fem/heteroflexible lady
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I must be cynical too I've only ever got caught out once!
Usually I can spot the single male posing as a female or couple a mile away after just a bit of online communication.. but not this time.
I have to admit that I was totally taken in by this so called 'couple' and went from PM's on here to MSN to briefly texting until I sussed.
And I only sussed because the guy sent me an email from 'her' and the typing style and choice of words was just too similar.
Of course I confronted him and he denied it, but then the idiot then sent me another email in error that was obviously intended for somebody else and was all about him being a single male. :doh:
Saying that though it's only happened once so I can;t really complain!
Usually I can spot the single male posing as a female or couple a mile away after just a bit of online communication.. but not this time.
I have to admit that I was totally taken in by this so called 'couple' and went from PM's on here to MSN to briefly texting until I sussed.
And I only sussed because the guy sent me an email from 'her' and the typing style and choice of words was just too similar.
Of course I confronted him and he denied it, but then the idiot then sent me another email in error that was obviously intended for somebody else and was all about him being a single male. :doh:
Saying that though it's only happened once so I can;t really complain!
Sex God
Go with your gut feeling - most women I know seem to get it right. If you don't you'll always have that doubt, which will sully things anyway.
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Sex God
Varca, how annoying for you investing time and energy into a dead end and I agree with Choon, your instinct is most likely the right choice.
But hearing these stories from time to time, it beggars belief
. Why do people do it? I know the SBF's are hard to find but do they really get better results by deceiving people? Surely surely they can't.
pink x
But hearing these stories from time to time, it beggars belief
. Why do people do it? I know the SBF's are hard to find but do they really get better results by deceiving people? Surely surely they can't.pink x
Varca.... had much the same thing happen to me- twice (yeah yeah yeah gullible to a fault)
I am sorry to say that I am totally gullible. It has made me pull back the reins on swinging. so much so that I have cleared my profile and taken off my pics.
I contact the people I want to play with and ignore the ones that contact me.
it has worked for the last few weeks.
splendid
I am sorry to say that I am totally gullible. It has made me pull back the reins on swinging. so much so that I have cleared my profile and taken off my pics.
I contact the people I want to play with and ignore the ones that contact me.
it has worked for the last few weeks.
splendid
Sex God
omg......
i would like to come out and admit i have a partner.......
mrs palmer, sorry i cant help being such a wanker....
anyway seriously tho, i am shocked at that tatick why arnt people honest....Just say your a single guy,cpl,single fem. If people want to play with you and like you that will like you for what your current status is.
Mike
i would like to come out and admit i have a partner.......
mrs palmer, sorry i cant help being such a wanker....
anyway seriously tho, i am shocked at that tatick why arnt people honest....Just say your a single guy,cpl,single fem. If people want to play with you and like you that will like you for what your current status is.
Mike
Master of Sex
Varca hun, on the topic of deceit, we have a similar thing happen regularly when we are in the chatroom or via pm.
Again it concerns single males - they see our profile and the very nice pics of Vicky on there. We then get a message seeking a meet, and mentioning that they are bi, or bi-curious. Yet when we check out their profile, it says they are straight. All because Baz is a bi male, they think that it will get them a meet :shock:
Never works, sad thing is that if they had simply said they were straight in the first place we might have been interested.
Dishonesty costs.
Again it concerns single males - they see our profile and the very nice pics of Vicky on there. We then get a message seeking a meet, and mentioning that they are bi, or bi-curious. Yet when we check out their profile, it says they are straight. All because Baz is a bi male, they think that it will get them a meet :shock:
Never works, sad thing is that if they had simply said they were straight in the first place we might have been interested.
Dishonesty costs.
Quote by varca
I have searched the archives and could not find anything about this and I am wondering if anyone else has experienced the following:
We are all aware that it is not as easy to find a single bi fem to join a couple as it is to find a single male for a threesome. With that in mind, I am wondering if I have been subject to an underhanded scheme and almost primed by a devious couple to try and secure a bi fem to play with.
What happened is this:
I have been chatting to a 'single' guy on here for a good while now and eventually we met for dinner. We got on okay and decided that we would arrange to meet up again for some fun. Both have busy lives and so it was to be sometime in the future but we kept in touch via text. Eventually we arranged to meet up over Easter but then he had to cancel, which was no problem at all, something to do with his daughter. Anyway, there followed yet more texts over the next few weeks and then I got a pm. This pm was to tell me that he had got back with his girlfriend and that he wanted me to know that he still fancied me. My immediate thoughts were "Oh that's lovely" I like it when things work out for people and I was pleased for him. Then I read the next bit..... his girlfriend had suddenly become bi curious and they were wondering if I would consider playing with them both and experimenting by which I assume he meant showing her the ropes
I ignored the mail and then I got a text asking what I thought of the "proposition" lol
Now call me cynical, but my gut feeling here was that they had never split up and that I had potentially been had
I texted back to explain that I was not interested in the slightest and that I felt as though I was being manipulated/primed and that they had been very deceitful and underhanded. He denies all this of course
Had they been upfront and honest then it may have been something that I may have considered but certainly not now
So, we have heard about single guys pretending to be couples but I have never had this happen to me before, has anyone else lol?
damn!! why didnt i try that!!!
errrrr maybe best i didnt
Some people will try any angle for a shag wont they? lol
That one hasn’t happened to me. But I have lost count of the amount of guys that have asked me to try and ‘get another woman’ for a FMF threesome. I start to feel like worm bait on a hook! Obviously a very popular fantasy.
Honesty works better.
That one hasn’t happened to me. But I have lost count of the amount of guys that have asked me to try and ‘get another woman’ for a FMF threesome. I start to feel like worm bait on a hook! Obviously a very popular fantasy.
Honesty works better.
Quote by Bazza64
Varca hun, on the topic of deceit, we have a similar thing happen regularly when we are in the chatroom or via pm.
Again it concerns single males - they see our profile and the very nice pics of Vicky on there. We then get a message seeking a meet, and mentioning that they are bi, or bi-curious. Yet when we check out their profile, it says they are straight. All because Baz is a bi male, they think that it will get them a meet :shock:
Never works, sad thing is that if they had simply said they were straight in the first place we might have been interested.
Dishonesty costs.
As a straight single male, I am constantly amazed at the number of approaches I get from other so called ssm's!
So, Bazza, I would be inclinded to think that you are most likely getting approaches from bi males who don't declare that fact on their profiles. I would guess there are more bi males that want to con couples with straight males than the other way around.
Warming the Bed
Hi All
Interesting topic, not quite the same but we have been accused of being a single male when we are in fact a couple. Im the female.
We didn't reply to a pm for a few days, (we were away for the weekend)which was in effect an ultimatum, ring this mobile number at 9pm prompt to prove you are a couple.
We didn't, because we hadnt read the message and Im so glad we didn't, because the subsequent messages we received from this couple were aggressive and abusive. Not the type of people we would want to meet anyway! Oh and they put us in their ignored list!!!
I suppose the point I am making is assumptions are not always correct, but gut instinct is....if something doesnt seem quite right, then usually it isnt.
NG2
Interesting topic, not quite the same but we have been accused of being a single male when we are in fact a couple. Im the female.
We didn't reply to a pm for a few days, (we were away for the weekend)which was in effect an ultimatum, ring this mobile number at 9pm prompt to prove you are a couple.
We didn't, because we hadnt read the message and Im so glad we didn't, because the subsequent messages we received from this couple were aggressive and abusive. Not the type of people we would want to meet anyway! Oh and they put us in their ignored list!!!
I suppose the point I am making is assumptions are not always correct, but gut instinct is....if something doesnt seem quite right, then usually it isnt.
NG2
Quote by naughtygoo
Hi All
Interesting topic, not quite the same but we have been accused of being a single male when we are in fact a couple. Im the female.
We didn't reply to a pm for a few days, (we were away for the weekend)which was in effect an ultimatum, ring this mobile number at 9pm prompt to prove you are a couple.
We didn't, because we hadnt read the message and Im so glad we didn't, because the subsequent messages we received from this couple were aggressive and abusive. Not the type of people we would want to meet anyway! Oh and they put us in their ignored list!!!
I suppose the point I am making is assumptions are not always correct, but gut instinct is....if something doesnt seem quite right, then usually it isnt.
NG2
if the abusive messages were via this site, did you report it?
Warming the Bed
Hi no, I will just clarify they didn't swear at us, but had a really bad attitude which was offensive,not that we are goody goodies, just expect manners really.
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