Well, some of you may or may not know that I`ve found myself in the unfortunate position of having to sign on. Today was the first time I had to go in for my fortnightly declaration. I arrived, somewhat nervous because I hadn`t quite stuck to the agreement to the letter, (I`ve not being applying for just any old job as I`d first promised in my moment of desperation, but have been applying for more relevant positions)
I went in, clutching my booklet, and was confronted by three words.
`Please sign here`
so I signed, and continued to remain seated not realising that my meeting had ended. I said somewhat hopefully, `I have a job interview on Friday`. He didn`t even look up, he just said, `Good`.
Is it just me, or does anyone else think there is something wrong with this picture?!
Hopefully this will be the first and last time I need to go in, but anytime I wish to become comfortable on the dole (which I won`t), I`d say I`ve just been given the green light!
Time to catch up on some sleep.
Later
Venusxxx
I found the whole signing on procedure, etc, to be utterly demoralising and depressing. It just made being out of work harder to deal with. You're under enough self imposed preassure to get work without having the spanish inquisition when you go to sign on. Oh, so, yeah, it is odd you weren't quizzed. I was. You should also be permitted to find a job within your chosen area then if you have no luck after a few weeks, they will tell you to be less choosy.
Hope you find work soon, good luck!
I would like to offer a little bit of advice, F*** them (mods i promise not to do this again its just i feel very strongly about this). I had to sign on for a short period in 2003 and i was made to feel like the dirtiest scummiest person on earth. I was treated as if i had just murdered someone. There is a massive difference between someone who is unfortunate enough to not have a job and are willing to work and someone who has no intention of ever finding a job. Dont let them drag you down.
Theres no wonder the countries in a mess if the people employed to help you to get a job cant be arsed to actually help you or offer any encouragement.
I then had to sign on for benefit when i damaged my knee and was on crutches for 3 months. They even questioned this and made me go to see a seperate doctor even though the surgeon who operated on me is one of the best in his field and highly respected. Then they attempted to make me go in and sign on grr
Rant over
Congratulations on your interview and i wish you all the best.
i know it took a lot of courage for you venus, an i know you have kept putting this off, but needs must..best of luck with the interview, i know if they have their heads screwed on correctly, the job should be yours.
take care now
"s" xxx
Congratulations on the interview. It seems harder to even get to this stage nowadays.
Wishing you all the best.
G x
Congrats on the interview and goodluck Venus. I know what you mean about the lack of interest.
I'm unemployed at the moment, so it's the big Job Hunt for me too. I'm too scared to sign on though. It's such a slippery slop and I've seen the damage it's done to my sister. We actually haven't spoken in almost five years because of it. You know how on a council estate you get the families who really give a damn, and then the families who don't, wild kids, garbage on the lawn kinda thing? That's the one. She lost motivation.
The benefit system has it's place, but it does leave room for change. Perhaps a 6 month unemployment entitlement would be motivation enough for most people to take a position which they believe is beneath their station/status? At least they'll be self supporting and less of a burden on the tax payer and state. A close friend of mine has been looking to come off the unemployment line now that she only has one child at home in full time education, but after a number of interviews and eventually a job offer it worked out that she'd be (£10) a week worse off than she is now, so she's decided it's not worth it. I get where she's coming from. But at the same time it's the government who has demotived her. She'd have taken the job if she knew her benefits where soon to end. That's motivation enough to accept a job, isn't it?
Yes, there are people on full-time benefits due to extenuating circumstances, but I'm talking about healthy, whole-bodied people.
A benefit system that both assited, motivates, and supports those in temperary dire straights and those in genuine need would be less scarey for me.
Hi rudolph uk, we have encountered the same problem as you. The social , in their wisdom, stopped hubbys benefit on the advice of their doctor, because........He has a dog. ( WELL YOU NEED A DOG TO GO DOGGING, DONT YOU!!!!!) This was also against the advice of one of our areas top orthopaedic surgeons, we sympathise with you , and we cant wait for the day our GP finds him fit for work, then we wont have to be demoralised every week by having to sit in the social for a counter payment with drunks and druggies because the powers that be have yet again forgotten to send out our weekly giro. :twisted:
The benefit system,in a perfect world,should provide support and assistance for people who for whatever reason are unable to support themsleves to a basic level.
Of course there are workshy people,there always have been and you find them in ant society throughout the world.
But the benefit system is about more than the so called workshy,its about genuinly sick and disabled people,vulnerable children and pensioners and those who genuinlt cant help them selves.
There is a hidden underclass of mentally disrurbed people whi have been released into care in the community who need protection.
Of course we can all name a disabled person who works,someone who has no interest in work,a scrounging asylum seeker,a feckless single mum,but i believe they are an exception and this shouldnt lead to vigilantes shopping people for a few hunderd quid.
In fact im sure the goverment and authories are well aware of the situation regarding Disability people onto this particular benefit has been largely responsible for the success of this tory goverment in bringing down the unemployment rate
Venus,
Luckily I have never been in the position of being a "client" of the JobCentre, but I know loads of people who have. Apprently best thing you can do when going to the JobCentre is take in a clipboard with a pad of paper on it.
First ask your JobCentre person their name. Write it down. Ask if they don't mind you taking notes, they will start to look worried at this point!! If they give a statement such as "I think your bad leg would allow you to be a deep-sea diver, have you applied for that job?", ask what qualifications they have to make that statement. If they qoute a rule ask them which paragraph, sub-paragraph, subsection, etc they are refering to. Make sure you write everything down.
Apparently they get undercover investigators checking on them, rather like mystery shoppers, by now they will be breaking out in a real sweat and you might find you are ushered out of the door real quick.
Best of luck with the interview, John
Well done Venus and everyone who's gritted their teeth for this ordeal! I've got it to look forward to myself if I don't find a job in the next month or so, and I'm not looking forward to it. They'll probably force me to take a job as a lumberjack or something... :shock:
HI libra love i see from your other posts your are unemployed are you bucking the so called system as i have only now found myself on the sick after having worked constantly since leaving school. Many of us are genuine cases , but how many more abuse the system?