Sadly it's a fact of life that some men (and dare I say it some women) but ok mostly men, think that swinging is all about a quick leg-over and moving on. WRONG. Well for me it's wrong and if people on here can't observe a few common courtesies and show some respect then the world's a poorer place for it. Er I was going to go on and on and on but I hope I have made my point (and doubtless bored you all).
Play nice, treat people as people and we'll all be happier for it.
And just for the record I think you're lovely Debz xxxxxxxx
All men are bastards......apparently. Really annoys me when Colin Hunts like this give the rest of us a bad name. Hope you find some really nice chaps from now on to level things out a bit x
Debz, you often moan about one thing or another on this forum. A while back you were moaning you didn't have any luck finding men, then you didn't have any luck at clubs. If you remember I suggested on this forum to you months back that considering you were 'almost desperate', asking that the man should be VWE on your profile (as it was then) was limiting your choice somewhat.
But to post that 2 men have done something wrong but not be prepared to mention what it is they did to upset you is a poor show on your part and raises the suspicion that you may be crying wolf.
I'd love to tell you all but really it was my mistake to meet the wrong ones and so what if i moan mostly it's in jest
pm me i will tell anyone who wants to know i wasnt having a go at men nor was i moaning i was pointing out that its not all plane sailing trying to have fun if you read the bottom i needed to post it to forget what happend and move on
i have had some pms telling me i hate men and not all men are the same but no one has read what i actually put properly please read it again it does not say i hate men its me saying i made a big fooking mistake
:cry:
Debz xxxx
I feel for you Debz and anyone else who has a shitty time of it now n again.
Like most, I've had few let downs and disappointments along the way but i can't say i've ever felt the way you do about these 2 men.
The thing is, chicken, and I apologise in advance if this offends you but I'm not one for beating round the bush -
shit happens
some men are shits
so are some women
so are some couple!
if you act a victim, you'll be treated like one
whats wrong with "fuck and fuck off" ?????(or as nw-chap put it - quick leg-over and moving on)
what do you really want out of this and why did it go so wrong with not one but two men on the trot?
without knowing any details whatsoever, it's very hard to say anything about this hurt and humiliation. It may be that, yes, you were totally abused or that you are over-reacting. We may never know.
I'm losing sight of the point to the thread now tbh. If it was just to rant then I'm guessing it's only sympathy you're after and not anything more constructive.
No i never wanted sympathy ..
I'm not crying wolf either
I have been around a fook and go its fine by me
I never said i wanted anything else
just a little reaspect would have been nice from them
after all i'm not a prostitute
but hey your right shit happens
Debz xxxx
) And Im sure that your time will come. If you have defined your boundaries as far as swinging is concerned, and you stick to them, I'm sure you're a lot less likely to be hurt again.
