Vanilla Relationships - Definitions

20 Sep 2005

People have used Vanilla a few times recently so I looked it up as a google search to make sure I was not geeting it wrong - and ended up with 1001 variations - anyone offer a good definition and a good site that gives all the words used for people who think they know most but find they are being used in different ways - expereinced guy of 45 wanting to know what all the permutations are called nowadays! Blake

20 Sep 2005

well depends on the person using the word i suppose but generally around here we use vanilla to describe something that's plain or "normal" as in not unusual or different

20 Sep 2005

Hmmmm vanilla....well I personally find it's best to only buy good quality stuff and smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy. lol

Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? redface

:lol:

20 Sep 2005

well unsure myself but ive allways taken it to be like a relationship with "standard" sexual activities when applied to a cpl or the way of play , or if in reference to a much ect then to mean no sex ect ....
then again maybe im wrong and making a fool of myself :P
matt

20 Sep 2005

I think vanilla means non-swinging in this context.

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Him'nHer
well depends on the person using the word i suppose but generally around here we use vanilla to describe something that's plain or "normal" as in not unusual or different

Around here being in SH?
I think in here it's used to differentiate between swingers and non-swingers.
It's what goes on outside this depraved community....so I guess you could call that normal... lol

20 Sep 2005

Quote by freckledbird
smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy.
Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? :lol:

A bit like Saturday night then? :lol:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by SunBunny
Around here being in SH?
I think in here it's used to differentiate between swingers and non-swingers.
It's what goes on outside this depraved community....so I guess you could call that normal...

Around here fits this forum as you describe SB, but I used "around here" to mean things we as in M & H come into contact with in everyday life smile

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Blake45
People have used Vanilla a few times recently so I looked it up as a google search to make sure I was not geeting it wrong - and ended up with 1001 variations - anyone offer a good definition and a good site that gives all the words used for people who think they know most but find they are being used in different ways - expereinced guy of 45 wanting to know what all the permutations are called nowadays! Blake

"Vanilla" to me reads heterosexual couple in monogamous relationship, no kinks such as bondage involved.... probably once a month with the lights off :lol2:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by bluexxx
People have used Vanilla a few times recently so I looked it up as a google search to make sure I was not geeting it wrong - and ended up with 1001 variations - anyone offer a good definition and a good site that gives all the words used for people who think they know most but find they are being used in different ways - expereinced guy of 45 wanting to know what all the permutations are called nowadays! Blake

"Vanilla" to me reads heterosexual couple in monogamous relationship, no kinks such as bondage involved.... probably once a month with the lights off :lol2:
Thank fluck I not one of them ... thinks through life... well not all of the time anyways lol

20 Sep 2005

Well blue, until a few months ago we were monogamous, but sex in our relationship involved me dressing as tarzan and her jane....... we'd leave the lights on and i'd swing from the ceiling lamp, and drop down on the bed all the time making them funny tarzan yodels. before ravishing her and then making funny chimp noises. BUT we did only do this once a month....... does that count as vanilla or fruit and nut?? :grin: :grin:

20 Sep 2005

Vanilla is the type of relationship your parents have :shock: blink

I hope!!!
yuck :eeek:

20 Sep 2005

Does anyone know where the term "vanilla" in this context came from? dunno

I love the flavour of vanilla (as in fudge and ice cream etc.,) but I find the whole idea of a vanilla relationship breathtakingly boring! :yawn: :yawn:
:rascal: :rascal:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by bluexxx
People have used Vanilla a few times recently so I looked it up as a google search to make sure I was not geeting it wrong - and ended up with 1001 variations - anyone offer a good definition and a good site that gives all the words used for people who think they know most but find they are being used in different ways - expereinced guy of 45 wanting to know what all the permutations are called nowadays! Blake

"Vanilla" to me reads heterosexual couple in monogamous relationship, no kinks such as bondage involved.... probably once a month with the lights off :lol2:
and socks on.
Just to clarify that point lol

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Sarah
smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy.
Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? :lol:

A bit like Saturday night then? :lol:
Ermmmmmmmm a bit, but I was thinking of vanilla in a bowl with choc sauce surprised

ops:
pleads shyness and wonders if anyone believes her

20 Sep 2005

Quote by bigDewi69
and socks on.

NOW we do have LIMITS on SH you know ....

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by freckledbird
smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy.
Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? :lol:

A bit like Saturday night then? :lol:
Ermmmmmmmm a bit, but I was thinking of vanilla in a bowl with choc sauce surprised

ops:
pleads shyness and wonders if anyone believes her
Umm, have to think about that one :lol:
No, dont believe you bolt

20 Sep 2005

Mrs NWC, I was hiding in the same corner as you! biggrin

20 Sep 2005

Quote by freckledbird
smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy.
Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? :lol:

A bit like Saturday night then? :lol:
Ermmmmmmmm a bit, but I was thinking of vanilla in a bowl with choc sauce surprised

ops:
pleads shyness and wonders if anyone believes her
you little fibber FB... wink

20 Sep 2005

Quote by tattyxpx
smother it with dark chocolate sauce - yummy.
Ah...you don't mean ice cream do you? :lol:

A bit like Saturday night then? :lol:
Ermmmmmmmm a bit, but I was thinking of vanilla in a bowl with choc sauce surprised

ops:
pleads shyness and wonders if anyone believes her
you little fibber FB... wink

:oops: :oops: :oops: :oops: :oops:
I think we need to let Blake have his thread back :lol:

20 Sep 2005

I actually heard someone say
Next time I won't be so shy
lol

Now should we have a game of guess who said this :lol:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Sarah
I actually heard someone say
Next time I won't be so shy

Now should we have a game of guess who said this :lol:

I know, I know - it was Mrs NWC biggrin

20 Sep 2005

Quote by freckledbird
I actually heard someone say
Next time I won't be so shy

Now should we have a game of guess who said this :lol:

I know, I know - it was Mrs NWC biggrin

Incorrect MrsFB, try again :lol:

20 Sep 2005

Quote by Sarah
I actually heard someone say
Next time I won't be so shy

Now should we have a game of guess who said this :lol:

I know, I know - it was Mrs NWC biggrin

Incorrect MrsFB, try again :lol:
Errrrrrrrrrr was it Mr NWC then?

21 Sep 2005

Ok. if we aint vanilla then what are your individual flavours ?
:lickface:
cc_7up

21 Sep 2005

Quote by northwest-cpl
I think vanilla means non-swinging in this context.

Thanks for the post guys.
I think McDonalds do the best Vanillla - and you can have it inside or even in the street. Dont like anything else they have on offer though.... Blake