forgive my ignorance but what is meant by 'vanilla' hell if you dont ask you never learn
this has been asked several times, basically its a typical relationship or sex. anything that would be considered non swinging or kinky.
many refer to sex outside of swinging as vanilla.
as far as im aware it came from the BDSM world when refering to activities that were not BDSM or friends that were not into the scene as "vanilla"
x fem
"vanilla"
is the standard ice cream flavour. From there we have
vanilla twist,
a cone with a flake stuck in it,
neapolitan, chocolate, strawberry and vanilla,
all the way up to Knicker-boxer-glory.
Is that what you meant?
In gay terminology - VANILLA - refers to just wanking and kissing basically. Maybe with a little TT (Tit play) and safe fucking or finger fucking.
Sleaze on the other hand refers to much unclean, unsafe sex like W/S (watersports) fuck piss (fucking with piss up your arse), FF (fist fucking), poppers, CBT (cock ball torture), Gob, BDSM, SM and other kink fun.
Generally here Vanilla means non swingers...
I had a vanilla date last night. You don't think there's going to be a difference bewteen a vanilla date and a swinger's social meet but there is!
It's so hard not to do the 'sexy flirt' with someone nowadays :shock: