Very new to all this

Hi, I come from a vanilla background, but with a minor detour into this world 20 years ago. A change in circumstanses has allowed me the possibility of trying this life style, how do I get started as it seems very differnt than last time

Join the chat rooms, introduce yourself, try to join in the chat and get comfy as it could be a long wait for anyone to chat to you.

Plus add to your profile to be clear about what you are in to or not and add some photos.

Always be polite and don't take rejection to heart, there are a lot of single guys out there.