Very shy couple

16 Dec 2005

Hi there everyone we are new to the swinging ar gunuine young couple from liverpool mark is 26 and melissa is 24. we are very keen to hear from people who have been swinging for a few like to get advice and storys from people so we can be sure on what we are doing is a good hints and tips on what to do an what not to do whud be very appricated. Like to get to know people as we dont know a single person who also does this and it whould be nice to actually chat bout the feelings we have an the need to our friends propaly wudnt aprove on what we way thanx for takeing the time to read this and hope to har rom you all soon.

16 Dec 2005

I would suggest spending some time on the forum, get to know people, and if possible, get to some social meets, that way you can put faces to nicknames.
Oh, and welcome to the site.

16 Dec 2005

Hi and welcome to the asylum M&M!!!!!!
What Kry said is spot on. Let people get to know you and you can get to know them before you take things any further at all. In order to swing, in my humble opinion, you have to get on with the 'intended' for a start.
Hope you find what you're looking for but most of all - have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
C x

16 Dec 2005

Hiya Mark and Melissa,
Welcome to the site ;)
Take a wee while to browse the links on the left, have a read through the forums (although I would discard a lot of the posts made in the last 3 days lol) and get a feel for the place smile

There are no hard and fast rules to follow as such, but you must set boundaries and stick to them and respect other peoples'. No really does mean NO here lol.
Place an ad if you haven't already lol and join in with the banter in the threads-it will feel like home in no time ;)
Best wishes,
Minx x x

16 Dec 2005

ok thanks for the advice kry and carrieann will take in to account what you both time we have chatted to somebady on the chat they seem to always be very pushy single there any couples out there got u wondering.

16 Dec 2005

thanx biwelshminx when you sy bounderys what sort of bounderys do u mean?

16 Dec 2005

Quote by cool4catz
She means agreeing with each other how far you will be prepared to go - assuming you are looking for another couple, what kind of activities will be allowed to happen with that other couple, will kissing be allowed, are you going to do full swapping, soft swapping / same room sex, etc etc. You need to work these things out before doing anything.

I said all that without opening my mouth :shock: ;)
Minx x x

16 Dec 2005

oh yeah we have boundrys already in place we each now what each other wnats an dont wants.

16 Dec 2005

ok thanks for the advice kry and carrieann will take in to account what you both time we have chatted to somebady on the chat they seem to always be very pushy single there any couples out there got u wondering.

Hey, I ain't pushy, lol.
You will find everyone saying basically the same thing, get to know people, read a few posts that people have written, join in on a few conversations, when people start to know you, they will possibly initiate meets with you, it's all developing a rapor with people, I have been on the forums for a couple of months now and I am still getting to know people and vice versa, I myself tried the adverts on the let's meet up forum, didn't get anywhere though, mainly due to the fact that people are still getting to know me, I hope you enjoy your stay on the site and that you make some friends, we are all sane honest we are (walks away chuckling inanely).

16 Dec 2005

cheers kry so what shall i start joining in on posts an things really get 2 know ppl

16 Dec 2005

twoneswingers,
I don't think the chat room at this point in time is the right place to to meet a couple sad

The site has recently been taken over and the chat room has been changed into, what is affectionately nicknamed 'the wank room'.
There is another chat room linked to the site, which is the one that was there originally-it's where more of the regulars go and it's a nicer place to be IMO.
If anyone wants to use the original java chatroom, you can get to it here http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/chatroom/jpilot/chat.html
Thanks Angel-Chat lol ;)
Minx x x

16 Dec 2005

i see what you mean by the wank room again biwelshminx we will try that link.

16 Dec 2005

You're welcome guys-it's a much nicer place ;)
Minx x x