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Virginity - would you change losing it when you did?

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Heck Lost, I cant remember the last time I lost my virginity... confused :? :? :?
nope i wouldnt change it, ok it was in a cemetary at the age of 13 with someone a bit older than me and i wasnt ready really but wanted to please him incase he dumped me, stupid i know but kids are.
but that said, its part of my growing up and part of who i am so i wouldnt change it its just the way it is.
Earthy xxx
i cant remember my first time i was too drunk
What I don't like is the way it's seen as some kind of 'prize' by most men and they effectively steal it from you just as some sort of notch on the bedpost.
That's a nasty thing to do; it's like stealing a person's childhood innocence in my opinion because once you've lost your virginity you can never go back to that state of innocence and it seems like everything is about sex from that point onwards. I felt like that anyway. I felt the world was a horrible place when I realised how much it ran on sex.
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I'd have like to have lost it sooner and managed more practise since then
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What I don't like is the way it's seen as some kind of 'prize' by most men and they effectively steal it from you just as some sort of notch on the bedpost.
That's a nasty thing to do; it's like stealing a person's childhood innocence in my opinion because once you've lost your virginity you can never go back to that state of innocence and it seems like everything is about sex from that point onwards. I felt like that anyway. I felt the world was a horrible place when I realised how much it ran on sex.

I would say that women can be as bad. In fact I know that they are.. both with men and with other women.
Ultimately each individual has their own choices and decisions to make.
As for the world running on sex.... it is equally true that it runs on air and money and food etc etc.
I am still innocent of a lot about a lot of things.. and I believe that if I can still blush, then I must be. Sex hasn't changed my innocence I still blush about sex.
So, how are you defining your innocence?
My girlfriend and I lost our virginity together. She was a few years older than me. We stayed together and eventually got married and although we've been divorced nearly 25 years (she remarried and I went on to other things) we've always stayed in touch. We always remember with a smile that first time. I was rather drunk. That, I would change for sure.
Wouldn't change a thing. I was seduced by an older married woman. First session went on for five hours!! Don't know how either of us survived. Relationship lasted 18 mths then she told her husband and that was that.