Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login

Voyeurism & Exhibitionism

last reply
45 replies
11.0k views
0 watchers
0 likes
Quote by Dawn_Mids
Both are ideal for me, however, even at my advanced age, I have never been fortunate enough to experience either, woe is me, sad

Just how old are you?
Where is Harry0 when you need him because he is of mature age but an amazing man to know biggrin
One hundred and three next !!! rolleyes redface :happy:
Quote by cu3b4ll
I suspect I fall into the voy category but it's not something I've thought much about. One sign I suspect is that I find vanilla porn bland and uninteresting, but give me someone's home video and I'm up and running. I suppose the thrill comes from knowing that it's real dunno
Too shy to exhibit though redface

A lurker surfacing here. I'm simply not in a league with most people here. I'm happily and faithfully married to a sexually conservative wife. where swinging is totally out of the question as a topic let alone reality. But I do still have my kinky side, which is why I lurk here sometimes and read stories. I decided to post now because the theme of this thread sort of catches me in both categories. I like to exhibit my wife so that other men can voyeur her, which I then love watching happen. I kind of get a double forbidden thrill because my wife is very reluctant to let strangers see her body, so pulling that off becomes a challange. The most she will allow, as a favor on a special occaision like my birthday say, .is dressing braless in a somewhat sheer top if we go out of town .
If my wife were more into it, it would be a great addition to our sex life because I always get hot when I know her nipples can be seen in public (no chance on her pussy). As it is though her real embarrassment about being put on display has become part of my thrill when I can arrange it, maybe because it really emphasizes the nature of exposing my wife's body to strangers. I guess It has crossed over into a mild humiliation fetish, because I crave sharing some non vanilla sex with my wife, and if a little sexual humilition is what's available, I'll take it. Otherwise I'm a caring and loving husband
I wrote a detailed true story about about my efforts to expose my wife in public, part with her knowledge and part without, if anyone wants to read it. Be forewarned though that there is a mild non consensual portion of it (exposing my wife to strangers when she was sleeping and couldn't object). It's in the Exhibitionist & Voyeur story area in case anything goes wrong with this link:
It depends how the mood takes me, but generally as I am extrovert, then the exhibitionist in me is the stronger.
John
redface
Yeah, Like u said. lol
Really liked my ex giving me head in the chillout tent at creamfields last year. I was makin eyecontact with people for fun :P
Quote by O. K.
Where is Harry0 when you need him because he is of mature age but an amazing man to know biggrin
One hundred and three next !!! rolleyes redface :happy:

Inches or cm?
I clicked on both voyeurism & exhibitionist, I love to watch ( I might learn a trick or 2) oh & the fact it turns me on, but go dogging & get off on the idea someone is watching
A bit of both really but don't get the opportunity to watch too often.
no question for me, I love both
Jasper
I booked a hotel on the seafront in Brighton a few years ago. I went with my then current partner.
During the afternoon we started another sex session. We were near the window and visible on the street.
We worked away at it for a good hour or so, during which time people could see from the promenade (big french word there).
Some just looked away and went dumb. Some couples perked up a bit and took it in. Various girls watched laughed and moved on. Some single guys hunkered down and watched the goings on till the end.
At one point she was up on a chair and I was tonguing her out in full view to the audience.
And it was an audienece. Eyes full on and faces stuck for life, I tell you.
It was Brighton, the sun was full on, the grockles walked the promenade. It was bang on.
Right as rain and chips.
Ah now this is interesting...
Over the past two years or so my tastes have definitely changed - I used to be a real voyeur but have found myself increasingly enjoying being watched.
Maybe it was being introduced to the club secene? I don't know.
What about the rest of you - do you like watching or being watched?
Nola x
Just checked that I havent already replied to this but I do know my preference has definately changed over the last few years. I would now say I am much more turned on by exhibitionism, and although I do love watching others, I prefer the showing off side of things. However, it has to be anonymous exhibitionism, in a situation where I dont personally know the people watching, for example, in a club setting. Not sure how I would feel at a party where I knew most people, but I suppose till I actually try it, I will never know wink
This is our thing, we love to be watched, however I usually have my eyes closed in ecstacy so I dont really get to see much wink
I'm a exhibitionist and my other half is more of a voyeur.