Waiting to hear back from ladies I met at a normal party

25 Jul 2006

Quote by da69ve
what a friendly reception....

what ...lost your sense of humour....just having abit of fun....i'm sure he'll see the funny side of it!
speaking as someone who doesnt know me from adam, you dont know if i had one in the first place so flipa

well all i can offer you then is this! :moon:

ooooo i quite like that lol

25 Jul 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

I don't think anyone's intention was to be unfriendly, if they were anything like me, they were confused as to how to reply/react to the post.
I still think he should give it up, as I think the ladies in question are taking the piss.

25 Jul 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

Quote by Freckledbird
Ok, a long winded post I admit.
Basically, what should I do ?.
How long to wait before admiting defeat? Best to just ask out straight, rather than by email
later?
Fingers crossed for Salsa class with 3rd lady.

I think they're taking the piss - give up now before you completely humiliate yourself.
Believe it or not Freckledbird actually offered some advice.....scary isn't it! bolt

25 Jul 2006

Sorry to hear the ladies have not responded. In all likelihood they gave you fake email addresses.
Not every woman who turns a man on has honest purposes and intends to see it through. You have to take it as part of life and move on.
However, one word of caution: at parties, most people know each other so it is very likely lady No. 1 told lady No. 2 that you were coming on to her. Then they may have agreed that none will pursue it with you so they don't upset each other, or they felt offended you hit on them both. I mean they can see what is happening around them, even if they don't talk between them. We women like to feel unique.
I have met you in person and can vouch that you are both a handsome man and a nice person. So I don't think you should let this cloud your week. Or the piss take of the usual suspects.
kiss

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Tania
Sorry to hear the ladies have not responded. In all likelihood they gave you fake email addresses.
Not every woman who turns a man on has honest purposes and intends to see it through. You have to take it as part of life and move on.

Like I said:

Quote by Freckledbird
Ok, a long winded post I admit.
Basically, what should I do ?.
How long to wait before admiting defeat? Best to just ask out straight, rather than by email
later?
Fingers crossed for Salsa class with 3rd lady.

I think they're taking the piss - give up now before you completely humiliate yourself.

25 Jul 2006

Quote by sheddy
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting

Careful now, I'm sure Rachel can get pregnant that way..... unless of course she sneezed three times after brushing against your leg and had a hot bath when she got home confused

25 Jul 2006

Quote by the_Laird
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting

Careful now, I'm sure Rachel can get pregnant that way..... unless of course she sneezed three times after brushing against your leg and had a hot bath when she got home confused

:shock:
I heard it was sneezing four times!
:giggle:

25 Jul 2006

Quote by sexkittenhfx
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

Excuse me! Since when do you have to go through a person's entire posting history before responding sensiblyto a post he makes? I feel you may have made that comment tongue-in-cheek, if not, well... rolleyes

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Tania
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

Excuse me! Since when do you have to go through a person's entire posting history before responding sensiblyto a post he makes? I feel you may have made that comment tongue-in-cheek, if not, well... rolleyes

Seeing as he's only made 10 posts - it's not exactly a massive task is it? I often look at somebodys posting history before responding if I don't 'know' them - it helps me decide whether they are making a joke etc. It also helps you discover when people are bullsh*tting.

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting

Careful now, I'm sure Rachel can get pregnant that way..... unless of course she sneezed three times after brushing against your leg and had a hot bath when she got home confused

:shock:
I heard it was sneezing four times!
:giggle:
Maybe we should check with Rachel? If she's got about 15 kids then it's obviously four times lol

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
I often look at somebodys posting history before responding if I don't 'know' them - it helps me decide whether they are making a joke etc. It also helps you discover when people are bullsh*tting.

:thumbup: Absolutely.

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Tania
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

Excuse me! Since when do you have to go through a person's entire posting history before responding sensiblyto a post he makes? I feel you may have made that comment tongue-in-cheek, if not, well... rolleyes

Well i too like to check out people's posting history.....i just wish a few more people would do the same for your earlier stuff.....it might open a few eyes! :roll:

25 Jul 2006

Quote by Kiss_Me
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting

Careful now, I'm sure Rachel can get pregnant that way..... unless of course she sneezed three times after brushing against your leg and had a hot bath when she got home confused

:shock:
I heard it was sneezing four times!
:giggle:
Well that'll explain why we have two kids then :doh:

25 Jul 2006

Quote by the_Laird
Parts of It translate in my head as typical school boy chatter such as this............
"I sat next to Rachel Higinbottom on the bus and her legs brushed against mine does that mean she fancies me"
Is it a staement, work in prgress or just plain old look at me style posting

Careful now, I'm sure Rachel can get pregnant that way..... unless of course she sneezed three times after brushing against your leg and had a hot bath when she got home confused

:shock:
I heard it was sneezing four times!
:giggle:
Well that'll explain why we have two kids then :doh:
:laughabove:
So how come I haven't got any children then?
Ok perhaps I know the answer to that!
cool

25 Jul 2006

Kiss_Me, I think you need to attend my 'special' sex education lessons :twisted:

25 Jul 2006

ok seriousely....
i dont know you, but you appear like hard work.
first of all if a guy asked me for my email ratherthan numberetc i would think it a bit odd, but maybe that just me and ive been out of the "dating " sceen to long???
i wouldnt actually even give out my number if i had only had a shortconvo with a guy in passing at a party anyhow.
it screems desperation , sorry, but not everyone goes out serching for a date. viewing the friend as a obstacle isnt nice. It seems it doesnt matter who it is but every female you come accross your sizing up as potential date.
chill out relax and go with the flow, this is just way to eager and forward to me.
if your art of conversation is anything like how you told this story its hard work keping interested.
thats just how i have read it, i may be wrong.

25 Jul 2006

here i go.........
firstly... ive got to say that the email address thing is a winner........... its a tried and tested method believe it or not... and it works.......a great ice breaker in the long term... and it gives the appearance that u are different...........
the problem u had m8, is that u sent emails TOO early........one should wait a bit before contacting someone who has given you their details........... its the kiss of death.......even then i t helps to take your time before asking women out ..... its that eagerness/desperation thing that women dont like..........
its the same with replies to texts and emails... who ever said that u need to respond staright away.............. maybe their doing to u what you should be doing to them.......ie.. keeping u on a string.......
flirting and dating in the "real world" is alot different than setting up meets on here... big time.......
still its just a game....... and if u want to get ahead, get your techniques right.... and youre gonna become good at it.....................
oh
.... and remember ... always act cool..............
cool

25 Jul 2006

:huh:
H.x

25 Jul 2006

5 mins here but the worst bit is that Picadilly seems to have used SH techniques and guidance as part of his chat up routine and it didnt work :shock: :shock: :shock: what went wrong :shock: :shock: works for me every time :shock: :shock: :shock: :shock: you sure that you were on the right advice page lol

:lol: :lol:

25 Jul 2006

This reminds me of an article I saw in the paper today about a guy who met a woman at a party, sent her an over-the-top email two days later, and is now famous for his bad chat-up techniques because she forwarded the mail to her sister and it's now all over the world.
rolleyes

Email is SO not the way to go in these situations unless you are really amazingly great at expressing yourself in writing, which this poster, bless 'im, doesn't really seem to be ...

25 Jul 2006

i send funny pics or links to funny videos...........
anyway... what the fook would i know................
rolleyes

25 Jul 2006

I'm not sure i'd be keen on the whole email thing, as is often demonstrated on hear the lack of tone etc in txt, email etc it is very easy to misconstrue the meaning of a sentence. I prefer face to face contact but if not a phone call would be my prefered method. but then maybe I'm old fashioned

25 Jul 2006

Quote by osker99
I'm not sure 'd be keen on the whole email thing, as is often demonstarted on hear the lack of tone etc in txt, email etc it is very easy to misconstrue the meaning of a sentence. I prefer face to face contact but if not a phone call would be my prefered method. but then maybe I'm old fashioned

But then maybe that's not always a bad thing?

26 Jul 2006

Quote by da69ve
i simply observed an unfriendly reception, Freckledbird.
i hadnt gone back through all his posts, i do apolagise.........as for constructive advice for him? it seems no one else has any so, no, i dont.

Excuse me! Since when do you have to go through a person's entire posting history before responding sensiblyto a post he makes? I feel you may have made that comment tongue-in-cheek, if not, well... rolleyes

Well i too like to check out people's posting history.....i just wish a few more people would do the same for your earlier stuff.....it might open a few eyes! :roll:
Tanias recent stuff has enough contradictions in it!
I also haven't forgotten her bizarre claim that I was "in denial" about meeting her when I never have.

26 Jul 2006

Quote by niceandgentle
Tanias recent stuff has enough contradictions in it!
I also haven't forgotten her bizarre claim that I was "in denial" about meeting her when I never have.

Duh! You are not the brightest match in the box, are you? I had only said that it would seem to others you were in denial, never said we have met. Anyway, I'd rather have a date with a man who had troubles expressing himself or was a bad speller or both than meet a guy who had a humour bypass. wink

26 Jul 2006

Quote by de_sade
You still here?
De_sade

Yes, I am. Got a problem with it? Oh, sorry, you dohave a problem, I forgot! lol

26 Jul 2006

Take it to pm guys please?

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Tania
Tanias recent stuff has enough contradictions in it!
I also haven't forgotten her bizarre claim that I was "in denial" about meeting her when I never have.

Duh! You are not the brightest match in the box, are you? I had only said that it would seem to others you were in denial, never said we have met. Anyway, I'd rather have a date with a man who had troubles expressing himself or was a bad speller or both than meet a guy who had a humour bypass. wink

I resent being made out to be stupid Tania,I'm not,and if I have a "humour bypass" how come I'm often to found sharing a laugh with other SH members online?
Why would it seem to others that I was in denial saying we have never met when that is the truth?

26 Jul 2006

Quote by Sassy-Seren
Take it to pm guys please?

I'm not sure if you mean Tania and De Sade or me as well.
My apologies Sassy if you meant me too but I resented Tania's public insult toward me and likewise wanted to resond to it in public.
I am here for the fun and the friendliness of the forum and not for arguements and I hope my conduct on the site in general proves that Sassy.