Sorry to excite all the single guys out there! ;)
Another silly question from us - and again - just researching!
If we wanted a single guy to join us - where is the best place to find them? Don't have time to hang around the forums - and the ads are cluttered! Are the ads the best way to go? (reply or place?) Is this site the best to use - or do pay sites provide more genuine ones? Or is it best to just grab them at a club? (we've only been on couples nights).
We would have strong limits and would only "soft play" - e.g. no penetrative sex - and we feel single guys want more? Is this view accurate - or are single guys happy to just play? If we met via email then it can be laid out, but how about meeting at a club? Its a bit more difficult to find out then - and guess the guys would say yes to anything - then try it on anyway when hormones kick over!!
Anyway - thoughts, experiences and tips - esp from single guys most apprecaited...... If we were to go down this route, we'd probably go for a bi or curious guy just to ensure everyone gets their turn at a good pampering! ;)
....lets see if we get tempted down this path...!!
Join the most popular community of UK swingers now
Login
WANTED: Single Guys! (opinions)
Sex God
Is this site the best to use - or do pay sites provide more genuine ones?
ummmm . . . . this is now a pay-site! as pay sites go, i've no doubt it's the bestest one there is! ((( i have occasionally looked at the *coughs* "competition!"
;) )))i speak from experience. . . . the single males who use this forum, and the chatroom too, are the nicest, friendliest, most polite, non-pushy people you could ever hope to meet!
:smug:
:P
neil x x x ;)
I know you said you don't have time to use the forum but i'd sugest it is the best place (as well as the chat room) to find your man so to speak. With ads all you get is the reply and whatever you do to follow up may it be MSN, phone calls or some other way to judge a persons charater. Where as if you read peoples forum posts you get a good idead of their views and experiances on a wide range of topics, so you can get a preety good idea of what type of guy he is.
To put it bluntly any fool can bullsh*t his way through a couple of MSN chats and a phone call
where as if he is more in the public eye like you are in the forum or chat room people will pick up on what type of person he is.
To put it bluntly any fool can bullsh*t his way through a couple of MSN chats and a phone call
where as if he is more in the public eye like you are in the forum or chat room people will pick up on what type of person he is.
Sex God
just stick more or less what u have just said in LMU asking for pm`s......
then spend 2 days wading thru the replies...
check their profiles/pics/ads etc and go from there
then spend 2 days wading thru the replies...
check their profiles/pics/ads etc and go from there
Quote by mik69
I know you said you don't have time to use the forum but i'd sugest it is the best place (as well as the chat room) to find your man so to speak. With ads all you get is the reply and whatever you do to follow up may it be MSN, phone calls or some other way to judge a persons charater. Where as if you read peoples forum posts you get a good idead of their views and experiances on a wide range of topics, so you can get a preety good idea of what type of guy he is.
To put it bluntly any fool can bullsh*t his way through a couple of MSN chats and a phone call
where as if he is more in the public eye like you are in the forum or chat room people will pick up on what type of person he is.
What that brown wooden man said :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by OnlyUs
Sorry to excite all the single guys out there! ;)
Another silly question from us - and again - just researching!
If we wanted a single guy to join us - where is the best place to find them? Don't have time to hang around the forums - and the ads are cluttered! Are the ads the best way to go? (reply or place?) Is this site the best to use - or do pay sites provide more genuine ones? Or is it best to just grab them at a club? (we've only been on couples nights).
We would have strong limits and would only "soft play" - e.g. no penetrative sex - and we feel single guys want more? Is this view accurate - or are single guys happy to just play? If we met via email then it can be laid out, but how about meeting at a club? Its a bit more difficult to find out then - and guess the guys would say yes to anything - then try it on anyway when hormones kick over!!
Anyway - thoughts, experiences and tips - esp from single guys most apprecaited...... If we were to go down this route, we'd probably go for a bi or curious guy just to ensure everyone gets their turn at a good pampering! ;)
....lets see if we get tempted down this path...!!
love the irony of not having time for the forums... yet asking people who use the forum for advice by the way......
:):)so onto the question you ask...where is the best place to find single men??? best answer i can give is that stick with whatever works for you.... if you are more inclined to not want to know anything about someone... then go to a club.... if you want to know a little... then use the ads.... if you want to know a fair bit about the people... then use the forum/chatroom and go to munches.....
the reason why i personally love the forums is that every piece of writing can be used as a resource to find out about people.... just like if i was interested in you guys i could go back an read the 121 posts you have done.....
as to which would be the best site to use.... would you go into sainsburys and ask about asda????? there are loads of different sites out there, and different things work for different people....as for the difference between a paid site and a free one.... nothing!!!! to put it bluntly a dickhead on a paid site is going to no different that a dickhead on a free one... maybe that is where it pays to do your research........
why do you feel that single guys would want more??? as long as you set your boundries and the people respect that then there should be no problems... that would be the same if it was a single guy...a single girl or a couple.....
whatever you decide to do, as long as you are having fun along the way....
sean xxxxxx
well providing your not looking to get to know someone a little first and need someone quick.......
Fastest i would say chatroom..... go in to the chatroom and make a room up called something like "male needed tonight in ( your rough location) 4 couple"
next i would say photo adverts......... but a bit more planning can go in to it the adverts, just stick a new advert in there and watch them role in, quite a few might just be one liners, quite a few just don't read your advert and quite a few will be completely opposite to what you want but you will get some replies that are very very good
last i would say the meet me part of the forum but still fairly quick, and if they respond from a forum request then you at least know they would of written what you have asked for.
this is what we think any way
shaz x
Fastest i would say chatroom..... go in to the chatroom and make a room up called something like "male needed tonight in ( your rough location) 4 couple"
next i would say photo adverts......... but a bit more planning can go in to it the adverts, just stick a new advert in there and watch them role in, quite a few might just be one liners, quite a few just don't read your advert and quite a few will be completely opposite to what you want but you will get some replies that are very very good
last i would say the meet me part of the forum but still fairly quick, and if they respond from a forum request then you at least know they would of written what you have asked for.
this is what we think any way
shaz x
:smackbottom: Quote by mik69
To put it bluntly any fool can bullsh*t his way through a couple of MSN chats and a phone call
where as if he is more in the public eye like you are in the forum or chat room people will pick up on what type of person he is.
What Mik says is very true, but a lot of conversations go on in the chatrooms by means of whispering, therefore not in the public eye.
As far as clubs go I can't imagine any guy trying it on once things got going if you have set the ground rules first, most guys including myself are happy just to play if that's all you wanted. Some are happy just to have a chat and a laugh even, unbelieveable I know, but still true
You obviously spend some time in forums with the number of posts you have done, so I would definitely say try your luck in forums and chatrooms.
As far as ads are concerned, yes, you will receive lots of replies, but if you haven't got time to hang round forums, have you got time to sort the good from the crap replies to your ad. Don't forget a lot of people on here are not full members so even if you got a reply, and you replied to them, they can't read it.
Best of luck if you decide to try, shame I'm not bi
Baz xx
Thanks for the replies - and interestingly and surprisingly - no PM's on th subject 
Maybe we are just pig ugly!
We've taken on board and will now worry when (if) we decide to proceed.
We may take the club route if guys are just happy to chat! Can imagine it:-
"Hello"
"Bye - you are too fat"
"Hello"
"Bye - you smell"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"Bye"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"I'll play soft but am a homaphobic and won't play in same soon as other man"
"Bye".
lol! Maybe we worry too much! ;)
Maybe we are just pig ugly!We've taken on board and will now worry when (if) we decide to proceed.
We may take the club route if guys are just happy to chat! Can imagine it:-
"Hello"
"Bye - you are too fat"
"Hello"
"Bye - you smell"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"Bye"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"I'll play soft but am a homaphobic and won't play in same soon as other man"
"Bye".
lol! Maybe we worry too much! ;)
Quote by HornyLittleBlonde
Have you tried putting a post in the "Let's meet up forum?"
No - as we are not ready yet - just playing with ideas! Never had a 3-some - only 4s & 6s ;)
No idea if we would like 3 (rather than 4/6 etc) as the balance is different. One good thing - means WE can spend more time together 
Sex God
Quote by OnlyUs
Sorry to excite all the single guys out there! ;)
Another silly question from us - and again - just researching!
If we wanted a single guy to join us - where is the best place to find them? Don't have time to hang around the forums - and the ads are cluttered! Are the ads the best way to go? (reply or place?) Is this site the best to use - or do pay sites provide more genuine ones? Or is it best to just grab them at a club? (we've only been on couples nights).
We would have strong limits and would only "soft play" - e.g. no penetrative sex - and we feel single guys want more? Is this view accurate - or are single guys happy to just play? If we met via email then it can be laid out, but how about meeting at a club? Its a bit more difficult to find out then - and guess the guys would say yes to anything - then try it on anyway when hormones kick over!!
Anyway - thoughts, experiences and tips - esp from single guys most apprecaited...... If we were to go down this route, we'd probably go for a bi or curious guy just to ensure everyone gets their turn at a good pampering! ;)
....lets see if we get tempted down this path...!!
Why would your post excite all the single guys? Some of them are quite choosy, you know!
Why would pay sites have more genuine ones? Only idfference is that they have paid to be members.
Why would single guys want more than soft swinging? There are some single guys who won't do penetrative sex.
There are couples who will agree to anything then try it on anyway when hormones kick in - you never know, even you might, if you found the right person.
Oh, and just because you go for a bi or bi-curious guy doesn't mean that everyone will get a turn at being pampered - what if he doesn't click with your male half?
Sorry but I can't help thinking that you're making an awful lot of assumptions here - and I wonder what you're basing them on
There are many single guys on here (some have replied on this thread) who are lovely men and yet have been tarred by the brush which has 'single men are twats' paint on it., which unfortunately is a view shared by many couples. Couples and single females are just as likely to be twats, in my opinion.
F-B
Absolutely - point taken on board. All assumptions are based on 3rd party posts and comments we have heard - none on first hand experience. Your response (and others in this thread) have inspired confidence. We just need to make sure (when we do) we find one who has the attitude that everyone on this thread seems to have!
Guess when (if) we do look for a single guy - we'll post asking for references! lol!
Seriously though - think you hit nail on head - we have a preconceived idea based on negative mutterings rather than honest fact.
XX
Absolutely - point taken on board. All assumptions are based on 3rd party posts and comments we have heard - none on first hand experience. Your response (and others in this thread) have inspired confidence. We just need to make sure (when we do) we find one who has the attitude that everyone on this thread seems to have!
Guess when (if) we do look for a single guy - we'll post asking for references! lol!
Seriously though - think you hit nail on head - we have a preconceived idea based on negative mutterings rather than honest fact.
XX
Quote by OnlyUs
Thanks for the replies - and interestingly and surprisingly - no PM's on th subject
We've taken on board and will now worry when (if) we decide to proceed.
We may take the club route if guys are just happy to chat! Can imagine it:-
"Hello"
"Bye - you are too fat"
"Hello"
"Bye - you smell"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"Bye"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"I'll play soft but am a homaphobic and won't play in same soon as other man"
"Bye".
lol! Maybe we worry too much! ;)
You have not been to a club then
Quote by PoloLady
Thanks for the replies - and interestingly and surprisingly - no PM's on th subject
We've taken on board and will now worry when (if) we decide to proceed.
We may take the club route if guys are just happy to chat! Can imagine it:-
"Hello"
"Bye - you are too fat"
"Hello"
"Bye - you smell"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"Bye"
"Hello"
"Hi sexy - are you happy to play only with no full fuck?"
"I'll play soft but am a homaphobic and won't play in same soon as other man"
"Bye".
lol! Maybe we worry too much! ;)
You have not been to a club then
Yes - but only on couples nights. The above was said in jest and based on our preconceived ideas of the "unknown mixed nights". (hence the lol! at the bottom) Quote by OnlyUs
Thanks for the replies - and interestingly and surprisingly - no PM's on th subject
Please excuse me if i'm out of order but why would you have any PM's on the subject, as you didn't ask for any
Or are you just asuming that you'll stick a post up and due to having some nice pics on your profile every single guy will want to PM you. Sorry but it doesn't work that way in here. All the single guy's I know are nice genuine and friendly there for when you asked for replies to your thread they get posted in your thread. I'm certain if you'd have asked for replies via PM you would have got them. My point is please don't tar all single guy's with the "she's sexy i'm going to PM her on the off chance" brush because trust me we aren't all like that. :) Mik69
It was a joke... The comments were in jest based on preconceived ideas which have been put right on this thread. Nicely so too! Obviously our humour doesn't come across here....
The comments have been surprising actually - and probably have changed our view of the single-guy scene. We truely hope we are as lucky with any meets than we have been with the respondants here....
THANKS!
It was a joke... The comments were in jest based on preconceived ideas which have been put right on this thread. Nicely so too! Obviously our humour doesn't come across here....
The comments have been surprising actually - and probably have changed our view of the single-guy scene. We truely hope we are as lucky with any meets than we have been with the respondants here....
THANKS!
