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Maybe I'm being paranoid here but........................
Last night at the munch there seemed to be a vey different attitude towards me than at previous munches. Maybe it's just an extension of some of the previous threads we've recently had or maybe I was just trying to spread myself too thinly but I definitely got the impression that to a lot of people I wasn't steveg_nw, I was steveg_nw the moderator.
It has actually put me off arranging another one because I don't want to be seen as steveg_nw the moderator, I just want to be steveg_nw out for a good time like everyone else.
This might not make a lot of sense to most people but I had to say it cos it's been playing on my mind all day.
Steve (in a contemplative mood)
You may well be right Steve, but I'd try not to think about it too much if I were you. To me, you're just Steve_g, but because if the nature of what you do on this site I think it's natural that some SH folk may treat you differently. Don't be disheartened, I think you're a lovely bloke and it's certainly their loss! kiss
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Quote by steveg_nw
I definitely got the impression that to a lot of people I wasn't steveg_nw, I was steveg_nw the moderator.

Sorry Steve .... but to me you're just steveg ..... a lovely sexy man lol ... who also managed, yet again, to arrange another superb Munch kiss
And, if you carry on 'feeling paranoid' ... let me know who it is and I'll go n sort 'em out smackbottom :grin:
Anway .... there were no moderators at the Munch .... only friends, new and old ... some hat we hadn't as yet met rolleyes
Lucy :kiss
ps .....
Steve...
cant say as we have crossed theads at all...? BUT I think you just have to chill out man. Drop off the old MODS hat and join in a night for a laugh? I cant recall you doing so in ages, so maybe you need to chill out...? Get WBB to give you a granvill ( my new word on here and busty knows its meaning...? ), you just need to be with the crowd for a bit and go ape?
RH
Steve sorry I didn't get to talk to you longer the amount of people there was so overwhelming.
I don't think you should be worrying you and Vicky did a brilliant job!
Quote by lucyslovely
Anway .... there were no moderators at the Munch .... only friends, new and old

Very well put - exactly how I'm sure Misschief and I view these munches too. The only pigeonhole we may use is that a few people were the super-lovely organisers who've made it possible to have such a great evening......but certainly not a mod/visitor split.
Carpathian
I wasn't there but it seems to me a lot of people are very grateful to you for making their everybody can or want to take the trouble to make a llot of people as a manager you've also shown great planning and organisational skills. So take a pat on the back and be proud of your achievement. Well done.
Quote by rocky horror
so maybe you need to chill out...? Get WBB to give you a granvill ( my new word on here and busty knows its meaning...?

i did offer! rolleyes
well ok, not exactly a "granvill" but almost
i actually offered to leather his arse with judys riding crop thingy and he declined.... so cant say i never tried !
biggrin :D :D
WBB
xxxx
Steve g you did a great job with Vicky, and we didnt get to chat with you either as you seamed a very busy boy, makeing sure everyone was ok.I'm sure you will make up for things at other parties and meets hun....... ohh great arse by the way! love peppsxxxx lol biggrin wink :lol: :D :lol: :D :lol: :D
Quote by shireen-steve
I think you will find that people were a little in awe of you....... wink

Did you see any of this at all Steve???
kiss
Shireen
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Quote by steveg_nw
Maybe I'm being paranoid here...
Possibly. As far as I'm concerned there was no distinction, I was pleased to meet so many lovely people and I couldn't give a stuff who's a mod on here and who's not... I hardly notice who's a mod even when I'm reading the forums, and it certainly doesn't matter offline.
Great 'do', well done and thanks. biggrin
Ice
*Swiftly kicks herself because she edited her post and deleted the nice bits about Steveg......
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Shireen
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Quote by steveg_nw
Maybe I'm being paranoid here but........................
Steve (in a contemplative mood)

Yep lol :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
To us you are Steve, not moderator, not even steveg_nw, just Steve.
You are our friend and that's how we always see you passionkiss
A very humbled Steve is locking this thread. I shouldn't have posted it in the first place and I apologise for doing so. I'd like to thank all the people that have posted on here and I'd also like to thank the people that have sent me a pm about what I said.
Thanks to everyone.
Steve. redface