Hi all,
One thing that I used to love doing with my now ex g/f was for us to sit opposite each other and masturbate whilst watching the other person. Seeing the one you love experiencing such a state of arousal and pleasure was just so exciting for me. Trying to delay the inevitable climax for as long as possible, the levels of pleasure you can reach are amazing!
I was wondering how many other people find this as much a turn on as me, and do this as part of their sex play. Also, I've heard of a masturbation club in the USA where everyone sits around and watches each other. What a fantastic idea! It's a shame someone hasn't organised something like that in this country (or have they ??).
Dave.
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Watching each other masturbate
Yeah it is pretty good,
Watching Steve getting off while watching me doing the same thing really is,mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We only discovered it the week before our wedding when we were trying to abstain from sex,but we did that and shagged for England,Wales and Scotland lol
:wanker: 
:hump: :hump:
I think it was an omen of a strong and happy marraige to come. :inlove: :love:
And Steve loves to watch me with toys while hes :wanker:
OOhhhh Yummy,mmmmmmmm
Clare,xxx
Watching Steve getting off while watching me doing the same thing really is,mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We only discovered it the week before our wedding when we were trying to abstain from sex,but we did that and shagged for England,Wales and Scotland lol
:wanker: :hump: :hump: I think it was an omen of a strong and happy marraige to come. :inlove: :love:
And Steve loves to watch me with toys while hes :wanker:
OOhhhh Yummy,mmmmmmmm
Clare,xxx
Sex God
Definately lots of fun. I like being blindfolded and ordered to by my g/f. I have to use my over active imagination on what she is doing. Very arousing indeed.
Lot of women in my experience too shy to do this in front of someone, once you work past that through gentle talking it really lets something out of them 
As well as being amazing to watch you can learn what they like, then go and do it to them with other bits of your anatomy and let them fly for a while :twisted:
As well as being amazing to watch you can learn what they like, then go and do it to them with other bits of your anatomy and let them fly for a while :twisted: Quote by tallnhairy
Lot of women in my experience too shy to do this in front of someone,
Hmmmmm ... that would be me then
in fact I'd probably find it easier in front of a stranger than in front of Pete! Go figure 
It's not something I feel at ease with ... I enjoy my privacy when masturbating .....
Quote by Calista
Lot of women in my experience too shy to do this in front of someone,
Hmmmmm ... that would be me then
in fact I'd probably find it easier in front of a stranger than in front of Pete! Go figure It's not something I feel at ease with ... I enjoy my privacy when masturbating .....
I totally agree - but i wouldnt be able to do it in fornt of a stranger either!! I can use my toys and stuff when Daz is is the same room, and thats not a problem, i just cant do it when he's sitting staring at me!!!
Never said it was easy ;) Amazed so many started this thread and were comfortable to be honest. One of my most prolific previous partners had never tried it herself so it not unusual for it to be one of those things you just don't try, hey most people don't even think about it.
It something you work up to in my experience. It can be worth getting over the embarrassment as it really stimulating to watch and do, but there nothing unusual in not feeling happy about it, and like all things if you not happy, don't do it
It something you work up to in my experience. It can be worth getting over the embarrassment as it really stimulating to watch and do, but there nothing unusual in not feeling happy about it, and like all things if you not happy, don't do it
Orgasminator
Quote by tallnhairy
It something you work up to in my experience. It can be worth getting over the embarrassment as it really stimulating to watch and do, but there nothing unusual in not feeling happy about it, and like all things if you not happy, don't do it
Thanks tallnhairy lol i was hoping for more along the lines of 'practice makes perfect' lmao
I will admit there is nothing quite like watching and learning!!!
To see how a woman brings herself to orgasm well surely it is a logical thing that if you can immitate the sensation then you will with practice get the same result!!
We men always start off like a bull in a china shop when it comes to women and if we can sit back and watch one another then we know how to go about in future... does this make any sense??
I like to watch and be watched!
To see how a woman brings herself to orgasm well surely it is a logical thing that if you can immitate the sensation then you will with practice get the same result!!
We men always start off like a bull in a china shop when it comes to women and if we can sit back and watch one another then we know how to go about in future... does this make any sense??
I like to watch and be watched!
Well believe it or not i have been a very shy girl in the early years of our marriage, but i agree that it is something that you work up to , so to speak. I also think its to do with feeling confident and comfy with your partner. If i'm haveing a bit of a downer about my weight etc he aways makes me feel good and well that makes me feel well sexy and we go nuts in the sex department.......getting back to the point i think it is VERY sexy and horny to watch your partner climaxing! ooooh the look on his face and visa versa and if we time it so it happens together WOW ......lol anyway im wafflinf again love peppsxxxxx
This is my first time posting a reply, first time on this site ever.
You have definatley touched a nerve there, I love watching my gf play with herself it gets me sooo worked up. And you are right watching then trying is definatley the way to learn what she likes.
Problem is though my gf is away with work next week.....noone to watch!!
So will probably be posting a msg on here for some cam fun with someone who likes to be watched.
Anyway this is my first time on this site......think i will definatley be back though.
:o :lol:
You have definatley touched a nerve there, I love watching my gf play with herself it gets me sooo worked up. And you are right watching then trying is definatley the way to learn what she likes.
Problem is though my gf is away with work next week.....noone to watch!!
So will probably be posting a msg on here for some cam fun with someone who likes to be watched.
Anyway this is my first time on this site......think i will definatley be back though.
:o :lol: 
Sex God
Yep, definately a turn on :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
My wife and i lov to watch each other. We vary where and when so it's not just in bed watching a porn vid.
The most memorable was in a hotel in Germany when we where on holiday. I was in the shower and my wife was sat on the loo watching me. The screen was clear glass but steamed up slightly. I could tell she was up for it as she kept talking about sexy things to get me aroused. We both soon started playing me in the shower her on the loo, we could just see enough of each other to make it really sexy. When i spunked it hit the wall of the shower and triggered a huge orgasm for my wife.
Great !!!
The most memorable was in a hotel in Germany when we where on holiday. I was in the shower and my wife was sat on the loo watching me. The screen was clear glass but steamed up slightly. I could tell she was up for it as she kept talking about sexy things to get me aroused. We both soon started playing me in the shower her on the loo, we could just see enough of each other to make it really sexy. When i spunked it hit the wall of the shower and triggered a huge orgasm for my wife.
Great !!!
Warming the Bed
a definite YES!!!
love watching and being watched.
love watching and being watched.
Sex God
Its a thing that both of us enjoy to the max and we do quite often.
With other people there would be different but if they were turned on and doing the same I think it would be good.
xx
D
With other people there would be different but if they were turned on and doing the same I think it would be good.
xx
D
funny how we both know we do it in private
and flick (hence her name ha ha) will do it a lot during lovemaking
but i do agree that it is somehow brings a little shyness when doing it in front of each other at a distance.
Maybe it`s because we don`t know exactly what the other is thinking and feel on show.
If you both have a hand on each other and yourselves to start with (feeling each others hands playing is a turn on) then if you pull your hand away from your partner and they stop playing with themselves that may be a sign they are uncomfortable.
Once you`re over the shyness it`s very very horny.
and flick (hence her name ha ha) will do it a lot during lovemaking
but i do agree that it is somehow brings a little shyness when doing it in front of each other at a distance.
Maybe it`s because we don`t know exactly what the other is thinking and feel on show.
If you both have a hand on each other and yourselves to start with (feeling each others hands playing is a turn on) then if you pull your hand away from your partner and they stop playing with themselves that may be a sign they are uncomfortable.
Once you`re over the shyness it`s very very horny.
Sex God
it is something that i did with my ex a lot..... i think it is highly erotic, plus the fact that it is both mental and physical and you know the other person is enjoying it is a turn on in itself.......
sean xxx
sean xxx
