I have this fantasy where I take my girlfriend to a hotel room and watch while she fucks another guy in front of me. I know it's kinda weird but everytime I think of it I get hard. I've been thinking about this for a few years now, but I'm not sure if I should ask my girl if she wants to do it, or if she'll think I'm a fucking weirdo. What do you think? Recipe for disaster?
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I think it depends on how your girlfriend feels about sex in general and only you can answer that one.
Have you tried discussing fantasies with her before?
It may be an idea to find out what her views are when discussing it as a fantasy and if she's open to it or excited by it, then move on to the possibility of making fantasy a reality.
Have you tried discussing fantasies with her before?
It may be an idea to find out what her views are when discussing it as a fantasy and if she's open to it or excited by it, then move on to the possibility of making fantasy a reality.
Sex God
this is a swingers site so what do u think?
i think this is a wind up as u have nothing about u what so ever
if u darent approach your girlfriend..............fantasise on...............
i think this is a wind up as u have nothing about u what so ever
if u darent approach your girlfriend..............fantasise on...............
Ok well you may have noticed that I only joined up today. I'm not a swinger (yet) and thought this community would be the ideal people to ask. There's no wind up at all...
In reply to HornyLittleBlonde, we havent really discussed fantasies to any length. Though she has casually told me she'd like to have 2 guys, though not sure how serious she was when she said that...
In reply to HornyLittleBlonde, we havent really discussed fantasies to any length. Though she has casually told me she'd like to have 2 guys, though not sure how serious she was when she said that...
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Ok well you may have noticed that I only joined up today. I'm not a swinger (yet) and thought this community would be the ideal people to ask. There's no wind up at all...
Don't take any notice of the moaners... it's a litmus test that gets applied to newbies here. Just take it easy and start to get involved in the threads here. Take a look at some of the older posts too (if you can find the time). They're a great source of a help and advice.
Above all, just have fun.
PS... are you a lover of the pier or a lover on the pier??
Hi Pierlover and welcome 
I think you need to speak to your other half first before taking your possible swinging adventures any further. It may be a fantasy of yours but she might balk at the idea. Some women go along with it just to please their partners but she has to be comfortable with it first.
If she's not sure about what to expect then maybe introduce her to this site, let her have a look around and even chat to people in here. Remember, there's no pressure to go along with anything just by becoming a member and it's always best to get the facts and advice before going ahead
Good luck ! :thumbup:
I think you need to speak to your other half first before taking your possible swinging adventures any further. It may be a fantasy of yours but she might balk at the idea. Some women go along with it just to please their partners but she has to be comfortable with it first.
If she's not sure about what to expect then maybe introduce her to this site, let her have a look around and even chat to people in here. Remember, there's no pressure to go along with anything just by becoming a member and it's always best to get the facts and advice before going ahead
Good luck ! :thumbup:
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In reply to HornyLittleBlonde, we havent really discussed fantasies to any length.
The perhaps you should.
As for her "casually telling yout" . . . . . that may well have been an "in" for you to discuss it further.
One word of caution tho' from an old fart - Some fantasies are best left as just that; a fantasy
Good luck and welcome to the asylum :thumbup:
Sex God
Quote by Pierlover
I have this fantasy where I take my girlfriend to a hotel room and watch while she fucks another guy in front of me. I know it's kinda weird but everytime I think of it I get hard. I've been thinking about this for a few years now, but I'm not sure if I should ask my girl if she wants to do it, or if she'll think I'm a fucking weirdo. What do you think? Recipe for disaster?
I think you're weird
Why on earth would you not want to join in
I'm only kidding, honest! The posts before me have said what I would say.
Talk to your gf and I hope it all works out the way you BOTH want it.
the Laird
Sex God
Welcome - good luck - take care. By that I mean think things through very honestly before you jump.
Sex God
pier,the realisation of your fantasy hinges on if your girlfriend actually does want to fuck another guy in front of you or not and if she doesn't then that's that!
Maybe if you really think that will happen, then neither of you are ready for swinging. Imho a huge part of any relationship, be it swinging or otherwise,is being able to communicate with each other.
Could you show her SH and maybe get involved together ? Could you steer the conversation in that direction one night, down the pub when you're both out with mates and see if your g/f responds?
I'm sure there with be others along soon with other ideas/opinions and suggetsions.
Could you show her SH and maybe get involved together ? Could you steer the conversation in that direction one night, down the pub when you're both out with mates and see if your g/f responds?
I'm sure there with be others along soon with other ideas/opinions and suggetsions.
Orgasminator
Pierlover
It had long been a fantasy of mine to do exactly what you are fantasising. I had talked about it with my ex partner but he was never too keen on making it a reality. The closest we came to it was having a play session with another guy photographing us and then this guy getting on the bed and touching me intimately whilst my ex partner was busy reviewing the pics. When he saw what was happening he got really upset but later on admitted the sight had turned him on. Still he never helped me get my fantasy
Perhaps your girlfriend would really love to do that but is afraid to press the issue in case you think SHE is weird, etc. Just ask her straight out if she remembers saying that to you and if she was serious.
I sincerely hope you both get to live out your fantasies as life is too short to pass it feeling disgruntled.
It had long been a fantasy of mine to do exactly what you are fantasising. I had talked about it with my ex partner but he was never too keen on making it a reality. The closest we came to it was having a play session with another guy photographing us and then this guy getting on the bed and touching me intimately whilst my ex partner was busy reviewing the pics. When he saw what was happening he got really upset but later on admitted the sight had turned him on. Still he never helped me get my fantasy
Perhaps your girlfriend would really love to do that but is afraid to press the issue in case you think SHE is weird, etc. Just ask her straight out if she remembers saying that to you and if she was serious.
I sincerely hope you both get to live out your fantasies as life is too short to pass it feeling disgruntled.
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In reply to HornyLittleBlonde, we havent really discussed fantasies to any length. Though she has casually told me she'd like to have 2 guys, though not sure how serious she was when she said that...
Theres your answer......"Doris, you know when you said......were you being serious?"
Depending on her answer, go from there....either "just curious, I wondered what made you mention it"
Or......"I was thinking about what you said, and I thought it might be nice to watch some other guy pleasing you- although Im not sure if it would make me jealous, you know how much I love you..."
In reply to HornyLittleBlonde, we havent really discussed fantasies to any length. Though she has casually told me she'd like to have 2 guys, though not sure how serious she was when she said that...
Theres your answer......"Doris, you know when you said......were you being serious?"
Depending on her answer, go from there....either "just curious, I wondered what made you mention it"
Or......"I was thinking about what you said, and I thought it might be nice to watch some other guy pleasing you- although Im not sure if it would make me jealous, you know how much I love you..."
Sex God
Quote by winchwenchHe's not returning my mail
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I'm surprised your thread isn't 17 pages long already with guys offering to help you turn that fantasy into a reality....
I warned him.
Very kind, Winwench - he does want her back after RPM finishes pleasing her.
Quote by foxylady2209He's not returning my mail
:shock:
I'm surprised your thread isn't 17 pages long already with guys offering to help you turn that fantasy into a reality.
I warned him.
Very kind, Winwench - he does want her back after RPM finishes pleasing her.
If theres anything left!
Sex God
Quote by winchwenchHe's not returning my mail
:shock:
I'm surprised your thread isn't 17 pages long already with guys offering to help you turn that fantasy into a reality.
I warned him.
Very kind, Winwench - he does want her back after RPM finishes pleasing her.
If theres anything left!
Do you think he's nervous about letting her loose on the guys in here yet?
Sex God
Ooooooo goodie.
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