Hope I got this in the right place and I don't offend anyone.
Over the past week I have masturbated a fair bit, more then usual and I sometimes notice if I masturbate alot then my drive is low for awhile later.I mea I want to but it can be more difficult to becoame hard. Now my firts sexual experience I had trouble getting and maintiaining an erection. I hoped to overcome this. The thing is I should be having sex 2mox with a woman off here and I don't want to disappoint.
So Iiask is there anyway to guranettee an erection besides viagra coz thats 2 last minute now and also is it normal to have problems like this? I mean its not like a whacked off alot in one day, its was more like once a day.
any help is appreciated
Well, I'm not the expert on this but once you have an erection you can keep it hard using a cock-ring,which you should be able to get at any decent sex shop.
I hope you have a successful time with your friends tomorrow!
Thanks
yeah I do get anxious. I just discovered there wil 2 ladies there!!! its gonna be car fun to, easier if it was my hosue but no can do. Doubt I'll be able to get a cock ring but I may try it thanks.
I think you shouldn't worry about it. Relax. Take deep breaths. See if you can work a nice, relaxing soak in the bath into your preparations. Getting and maintaining an erection is kinda like breathing, in that if you don't think about it it'll happen all by itself, but if you start to concentrate on it it goes all funny.
And at the end of the day, remember that if you really can't get it hard, you've still got one tongue and ten fingers you can use; it really isn't the end of the world.
don't think it mattres now, it will just be a general meet and no sex, damn. Thanks fo advice, more is welcome.
Arch anget - if you are so anxious perhaps it is good that the first meet is a social one. Take time to relax and get to know them a little - it may help. Try not to have a downer on the fact it is a social, rather than a sexual meet. Think of it as an opportunity to enjoy the company of members of the other sex without the pressure of having to perform.
In fact the key thing is to relax!
Think of sex and the bonus by-product instead of the be all and end all of a meet!
Good luck though!!
Mrs Peel
no stand in's required!!
Yeah I know, I am a tongue and fingers man already but last time I got a bit...got at for not maintianing it u know, I mean I got her off tingue and fingers but she wanted dick to but was a different girl, not the one I'm seeing 2moz