Just to say we are leaving this site (and all others) if our names are down for any events you are attending then please remove them?
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oooh u can be so sarcastic when you want to be mr tweeky
:giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
mr and mrs dpg xxxx
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Mr Tweeky
Sex God
:boo: All the very best for the future. Take care
I've seen this elsewhere too, but still dont know what's actually happened but its serious enough to prompt this...... but anyway...
aside from reasons for leaving, when they see all this cheery handwaving stuff, you know, treating others as you expect to be treated yourself, they'll probably be glad to be turning their backs on our 'happy friendly community' ......maybe while you're at it Tweeky, you should stick the knife in a bit further.
aside from reasons for leaving, when they see all this cheery handwaving stuff, you know, treating others as you expect to be treated yourself, they'll probably be glad to be turning their backs on our 'happy friendly community' ......maybe while you're at it Tweeky, you should stick the knife in a bit further.
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
It is a shame really - I quite liked the honesty and observations they made in a few posts.
sorry to see u go....
hope everything goes ok for you............
2`s
Sex God
Quote by PoloLady
It is a shame really - I quite liked the honesty and observations they made in a few posts.
(you will note the lack of rolling sarcastic eyes - as I actually mean that)
Me too.
Sex God
sorry to see you both go.... having met flaidais at munches and spoken to media in certain chatrooms, i am glad that you both got together!!!... i wish you the best in whatever happens in the future...and hopefully pop in from time to time and don't be strangers......
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
sean xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Quote by Shireen_Mids
Tweeky that was a bit harsh.....
Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.
Thank you for those of you who have supported us and, we have to say, goodbye to a 'not so friendly' community of others.
xxx
Sex God
Quote by flidais-media
Tweeky that was a bit harsh.....
Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.
Thank you for those of you who have supported us and, we have to say, goodbye to a 'not so friendly' community of others.
Ignore the sarcasm, not worth a response.
Well I for one will definately miss you on here and miss meeting you at some of the Munches coming up. Very sorry to see you go but do I understand you have a pm explaining what is happening about the violence you have mentioned.
Take care both of you, and whatever you decide, loads of luck and good wishes for the future
Sex God
Your reasons for leaving are yours alone and it seems a few folk will miss you, but I know exactly why your thread was pulled and to cite that as one of the reasons is a flounce. I see no point in rippling the waters, you've made a decision and I wish you luck, but the thread being pulled was wholly justified.
i too have seen this elsewhere and i am really sorry to see you go, especially having only met you once and not really got chance to get to know you, but people have their own reasons for doing what they do and i hope everything goes well for you in the future, and whatever bad experience has caused this is soon a distant memory.
take care of yourselves
Earthy x
take care of yourselves
Earthy x
Quote by davej
Your reasons for leaving are yours alone and it seems a few folk will miss you, but I know exactly why your thread was pulled and to cite that as one of the reasons is a flounce. I see no point in rippling the waters, you've made a decision and I wish you luck, but the thread being pulled was wholly justified.
We will no longer be posting after today, but just want to say that, as far as we are conerned no one should have to put up with the treatment we received at the club and we wished everyone to know, hence the post that we felt needed to be on here. You have your reasons for removing the post, it is your site and your choice. Likewise it is our choice to leave, but we believe in freedom of speech and expression..surely something that we, as 'swingers', should believe in?
Sex God
Quote by flidais-media
Your reasons for leaving are yours alone and it seems a few folk will miss you, but I know exactly why your thread was pulled and to cite that as one of the reasons is a flounce. I see no point in rippling the waters, you've made a decision and I wish you luck, but the thread being pulled was wholly justified.
We will no longer be posting after today, but just want to say that, as far as we are conerned no one should have to put up with the treatment we received at the club and we wished everyone to know, hence the post that we felt needed to be on here. You have your reasons for removing the post, it is your site and your choice. Likewise it is our choice to leave, but we believe in freedom of speech and expression..surely something that we, as 'swingers', should believe in?
maybe u should voice your opinion in the clubs/party review section....so others can read it..
don`t let one bad experience spoil everything.......there r other clubs out there....
Quote by flidais-media
Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.
Not entirely true! The Admin team moved it and you've been in PM correspondence with St3v3 about it and have given futher details about the alleged assault. St3v3 has TOLD you that he's going to be in touch with the club.
This is the message you got from him and to which you responded.
st3v3 wrote:
Hi,
Just moving your thread into the mods lounge to get the opinions of the other moderators, would you let me know what happened, also is this club listed in our clubs & parties section.
Steve
(admin)
NOT the same thing as the 'mods moving it' and another reason for you leaving here - what's the reason you gave at another site???
I'm sorry you had a difficult time at the club but the picture you are painting of how it's being dealt with here is just not true and can't be left undefended.
:roll: :roll: (yep -sarcastic rolling eyes from me)
Sexlightened
I have no idea what all this is about, but I figure you must have your reasons and it sounds like you had a bad experience which I'm sorry for. I wish you well and hope, if you did not find what you were looking for here, you find it elsewhere.
Take care of each other.
H.x
Take care of each other.
H.x
Quote by Jags
Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.
Not entirely true! The Admin team moved it and you've been in PM correspondence with St3v3 about it and have given futher details about the alleged assault. St3v3 has TOLD you that he's going to be in touch with the club.
This is the message you got from him and to which you responded.
st3v3 wrote:
Hi,
Just moving your thread into the mods lounge to get the opinions of the other moderators, would you let me know what happened, also is this club listed in our clubs & parties section.
Steve
(admin)
NOT the same thing as the 'mods moving it' and another reason for you leaving here - what's the reason you gave at another site???
I'm sorry you had a difficult time at the club but the picture you are painting of how it's being dealt with here is just not true and can't be left undefended.
:roll: :roll: (yep -sarcastic rolling eyes from me)
Thanks Jags :thumbup:
That makes far more sense and I'm glad you posted it for all to see
flidais-media - you have your reasons for leaving his site and another one, but please do not attempt to muddy the waters.
The cause of this outburst is a result of the treatment you received at a Club last night. Whilst we Mods are horrified by the details you gave us we have removed your thread whilst we speak to the owners of the club, to determine if we will allow them to feature in the Club Reviews on this site. There are always two sides to any argument and it only right and proper that we listen to both sides before making any decision.
I would suggest that you sleep on it and reconsider your decision. You have had a bad experience but it would not be fair to blame the whole Swinging Community for that!!
No emoticons whatsoever!!
The cause of this outburst is a result of the treatment you received at a Club last night. Whilst we Mods are horrified by the details you gave us we have removed your thread whilst we speak to the owners of the club, to determine if we will allow them to feature in the Club Reviews on this site. There are always two sides to any argument and it only right and proper that we listen to both sides before making any decision.
I would suggest that you sleep on it and reconsider your decision. You have had a bad experience but it would not be fair to blame the whole Swinging Community for that!!
No emoticons whatsoever!!
Just sorry to see you go flidais-media
Just hope you will reconsider, I myself have left the site for reasons, but came back after a couple of weeks as i thought to myself, why should i let a couple of small issues affect our fun we get out of swinging, plus we have made quite a few friends on here now
Not saying your reasons are big or small issues as i don't know what went of but maybe you could weigh up the good and the bad to see which one is heaviest ?
Anyway, if you do go, we wish you all the luck and joy in the world
All the best
Shaz xxx
Just hope you will reconsider, I myself have left the site for reasons, but came back after a couple of weeks as i thought to myself, why should i let a couple of small issues affect our fun we get out of swinging, plus we have made quite a few friends on here now
Not saying your reasons are big or small issues as i don't know what went of but maybe you could weigh up the good and the bad to see which one is heaviest ?
Anyway, if you do go, we wish you all the luck and joy in the world
All the best
Shaz xxx
Sex God
Quote by Jags
Just one of the reasons we are leaving Shireen. There was a post were we explained the violence we received at a certain club in Bristol last night but the mods on here have removed it , yet another reason why we are leaving.
Not entirely true! The Admin team moved it and you've been in PM correspondence with St3v3 about it and have given futher details about the alleged assault. St3v3 has TOLD you that he's going to be in touch with the club.
This is the message you got from him and to which you responded.
st3v3 wrote:
Hi,
Just moving your thread into the mods lounge to get the opinions of the other moderators, would you let me know what happened, also is this club listed in our clubs & parties section.
Steve
(admin)
NOT the same thing as the 'mods moving it' and another reason for you leaving here - what's the reason you gave at another site???
I'm sorry you had a difficult time at the club but the picture you are painting of how it's being dealt with here is just not true and can't be left undefended.
:roll: :roll: (yep -sarcastic rolling eyes from me)
There wasn't any reason given on another site.
Quote by Sgt Bilko
flidais-media - you have your reasons for leaving his site and another one, but please do not attempt to muddy the waters.
The cause of this outburst is a result of the treatment you received at a Club last night. Whilst we Mods are horrified by the details you gave us we have removed your thread whilst we speak to the owners of the club, to determine if we will allow them to feature in the Club Reviews on this site. There are always two sides to any argument and it only right and proper that we listen to both sides before making any decision.
I would suggest that you sleep on it and reconsider your decision. You have had a bad experience but it would not be fair to blame the whole Swinging Community for that!!
No emoticons whatsoever!!
It's not that we are leaving the scene (which we are) because of the thread being removed, of course that would be daft. But we are amazed that anyone would expect the club to give a true account what happened, realistically they are hardly likely to say 'oh yes, they said they didn't like the club so we shoved them out and assaulted them' are they? Realistically, we have no reason to tell anything but the truth about the club, we went there, in good faith, hoping for a fun evening...on the other hand, they will want to paint themselves as innocents to avoid the possibility of people not attending their club anymore.
In a case like this there is not 'right and wrong' on both sides. There is us, who are cut and bruised and a club who are not going to tell the truth about what happened. We trust that everyone here can see what we mean?
Sex God
Tell me if I'm bieng too nosey but has the incedent at the club last night the reason for you stopping swinging?
If so don't let it put you off!!
If so don't let it put you off!!
Quote by hisandhers
Tell me if I'm bieng too nosey but has the incedent at the club last night the reason for you stopping swinging?
If so don't let it put you off!!
No we havn't stopped swinging...we will carry on doing that with our established friends and any others we happen to meet....but we are leaving the established websites and scenes .
Sex God
Quote by flidais-media
Tell me if I'm bieng too nosey but has the incedent at the club last night the reason for you stopping swinging?
If so don't let it put you off!!
No we havn't stopped swinging...we will carry on doing that with our established friends and any others we happen to meet....but we are leaving the established websites and scenes .
good luck to you both
