hiya
we have seen quite a few profiles where the cpl in the profile are NOT married to each other but rather seeing each other behind their partners back.
then placing ads to find other people to play with.
is it just us or is this a weird setup.
seem they cant be happy with the affair setup
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we find this weird do you?
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Sex God
Whilst I am not condoning cheating, I have played on a number of occasions with various pals as a "couple" and it has suited us and the people we have played with.
I have had no difficulty when playing with a bi male pal, as the people we played with accepted our set up without question. However when a straight pal and I tried to arrange to meet other couples we did suffer a bit of hostility about not being a "real" couple.
One thing I won't do is speculate on why someone might be playing with someone other than their spouse; it seems to me there are far too many reasons to even start to judge.
I have had no difficulty when playing with a bi male pal, as the people we played with accepted our set up without question. However when a straight pal and I tried to arrange to meet other couples we did suffer a bit of hostility about not being a "real" couple.
One thing I won't do is speculate on why someone might be playing with someone other than their spouse; it seems to me there are far too many reasons to even start to judge.
Sex God
I have never assumed that "couple" in the swinging sense necessarily means "couple who are married to (or partners of) each other". All sorts of setups exist: couples who are both single but just friends or fuck-buddies, couples where one half is married to someone else, some where the spouse knows, some where they don't, etc etc. I'm afraid I don't see that their background makes any difference in the swinging world.
You might just as well demand that mixed doubles tennis partners should be married to each other.
You might just as well demand that mixed doubles tennis partners should be married to each other.
Sex God
I would have thought that being on this scene would have learnt you to be
Tolerant and not judgemental about anyone on here tbh.
Tolerant and not judgemental about anyone on here tbh.
Sex God
Hey MikeNorth! 
Long time, no post (well for me anyway). 
Surprised I've not been deactivated by the 'hang out everyone who hasn't posted for 90days' brigade! 
OK Karrob, you've been here since 2007 and have only just realised that some couples are not live together, madly in love, married til death do they part?
Next you'll be telling me some of the women are actually men!?
:lol:
In reality, sometimes things between so called 'real' couples can be so much worse when they have a barney than when two strangers, for a whole host of individual reasons, have got together to have a bit of fun with others who match what they're both looking for.
Although if it really doesn't float your own boat Karrob, nothing wrong in saying so.
LG. x
Long time, no post (well for me anyway). Surprised I've not been deactivated by the 'hang out everyone who hasn't posted for 90days' brigade! OK Karrob, you've been here since 2007 and have only just realised that some couples are not live together, madly in love, married til death do they part?
Next you'll be telling me some of the women are actually men!?
:lol:
In reality, sometimes things between so called 'real' couples can be so much worse when they have a barney than when two strangers, for a whole host of individual reasons, have got together to have a bit of fun with others who match what they're both looking for.
Although if it really doesn't float your own boat Karrob, nothing wrong in saying so.
LG. x 