Weight and sex

8 Jan 2004

Hi
I donâ€™t see this as an advert at the moment more of a topic about using sex to assist in weight loses.
This is a bit of a wild idea I know but is there anybody in the midlands area that would let his wife have Bisexual sessions as reward for her losing weight?
My wife would love to enjoy playing with another woman but has not really had the opportunity. I would love to offer her a woman encounter as reward for reaching her targets as motivation.
Iâ€™m sure there must be other people that could play this type of â€œgameâ€ to help their wives lose weight. Of course this is not a today meeting but for me to say to Rachel my wife that if/when you lose X amount of weight you will be given a women to play with would motivate her no end. Could you imagine two women being told that when they lose X amount of weight they can have each other as they please?
Iâ€™m sure there is a way to do this with out going down the pro route.
Has anybody else have any ideas?
All the best biggrin

Paul

8 Jan 2004

:shock: Well that's the most novel approach to requesting girl on girl and an FFM I've ever seen. Congratulations Paul 80!
Hope you find what you seek.
Sappho xxx

8 Jan 2004

I guess it is a way of asking for girl on girl Sappho but in this case Iâ€™m not asking for anything for my self, I just want to help Rachel and anybody else in the same boat lose weight and let them enjoy the results of there efforts. But you do make a point Sappho it could just be another way to get girl on girl or for me to get my kinky ways. But no! The girls could completely exclude me/us men from being present if thatâ€™s want they want and as for Rachel, wellâ€™ she wont know about this post until she gets home from work tonight. She might like the idea and then she may not but she will appreciate my efforts in trying to help, after all I canâ€™t force her to do anything.
Iâ€™m searching for ways to motivate someone that wantâ€™s to lose some weight, I have loads of ideas but this seems to be an ideal place to ask about any of the kinky ideas I have. Hope Iâ€™m not out of place.
All the best

8 Jan 2004

Paul,
Super idea, but you not really NOT going to be there are you?! surprised

Anything that motivates people has in general terms got to be alrirght!
:twisted: My only concern is that nice rounded girls do not become an endangered species,- tastes do vary.
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As someone who quite likes both models (and indeed those in between) I have nothing to fear! But we must consider others.
Interested to hear the reaction tonight, will you be sent to bed without any tea or to bed without the other.
Last Thought!
Exercise is good for you both, why not practice.
Joe Blow

8 Jan 2004

Well itâ€™s like this Joe Blow, when Rachel reads this thread she will react in one of two ways; Reply to this thread her self with her thoughts or just ignore me and the posts all together. But she wonâ€™t mind in the least that we are talking about weight and sex.
â€œMy only concern is that nice rounded girls do not become an endangered species,- tastes do varyâ€. Well Joe Blow weight goes on easier than it comes off so donâ€™t think you have too much to worry about on that score!
She likes to have fun and if we can all have fun together all the better. As for â€œSuper idea, but you not really NOT going to be there are you?!â€ well has Iâ€™ve said before if anything dose come of this then it will be down to the other people involved, of cause I would love to be involved but understand Iâ€™m thinking that girls can help each other lose weight here.
Just throwing ideas around
Thanks for your replies
Paul

8 Jan 2004

Well my wife is a size 20 and shes the most wonderful woman in the world to me and I wouldnt have her any other way - well I have her every way I possibly can actually, but you get the point.
I think that fitness is much more important than dress size, and I think the media has a lot to answer for making people ill with stress trying to get into those size 6 drainpipe jeans or whatever.
I run a group on MSN for BBW (big beautiful women) and hopefully men who will love them and support them just the way they are for their sense of fun and their personalities. To many of these ladies have been hurt and abused and put down for years.
It's good to see you are trying to make dieting fun, but not attach too much significance to size - I love good people, loving kind people, not someone of a certian height, width, length(lol), colour, age, whatever. smile

Party on dudes.... and.... Be excellent to each other...!

9 Jan 2004

Well put Andy and thanks for your response
Itâ€™s not a question of how I want Rachel to look itâ€™s what Rachel wants thatâ€™s important. I only want to help Rachel with what she wants to do. When I go over a certain weight I start to feel bulky and tired, I think we all have a maximum weight we can carry and still feel fit, so you hit the nail on the head, we both want to feel better in our selves. And of cause this time of year weight comes to mind thinking how we want to look on the beach in the summer lol.
Thanks for that
Paul

12 Jan 2004

Hi Paul (and Rachel) wave

So, what was Rachel's response to your thread ????
Were you sent to bed with no supper or were you sent to bed with double helpings of supper and sticky-pudding for afters ???(Weight-Watchers version of course!!!)
Spill the beans Paul!! (W/watchers again !!) lol

:lol:

13 Jan 2004

Rachel was amused by the Idea, Sgt. Bilko.
We have not talked much about it yet but sheâ€™s game if something were to come up.
I still think itâ€™s an interesting idea anybody want to play? lol. How we could make it work is open to debate but where theirs a will theirs away.
Cheers
Paul

13 Jan 2004

Paul80 that is definatly the best idea any one has ever come up with, but its a shame that it sometimes doesnt motivate them to lose weight, instead it incourage them to pick up a plate and break it on their partner's head. (that ofcourse if they are not into girl-girl scene).

15 Jan 2004

Well after considering the â€œgivingâ€ Rachel of a Bi-Night for losing weight Iâ€™ve decided that I will set Rachel with some weight lose targets then when she reaches each target I will take her to a club and let her free with the women. My thinking here is that going to a club cuts out the problems with being let down, we could arrange to meet people and if they let us down their will still be other people we can meet in the club.
We have only been to one club and that was Chameleons on a Saturday couples night so if anybody could advice us on our best night to find a woman or have any other ideas please let me know.
Thanks
Paul

15 Jan 2004

Yeah, if anyone does have advice on what are the best nights to find women, do let me know too please :twisted: - I guess that 80% of the forum would also like to know :shock:

15 Jan 2004

OK, that was a conservative estimate redface

, but there are plenty round here that, believe it or not, are not all that interested in women 8)

15 Jan 2004

Oh I know, you would think by the way we take the piss that the "fancy a shag" brigade would have changed their tactics by now rolleyes

. Then again, if you can't beat 'em, join 'em...
ANYONE FANCY A SHAG?
:twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
It's amazing how those postings tot up when there's a few debates going on at once. I think I'm the top poster at the mo, but that's because I have fingers in lots of pies :shock:

15 Jan 2004

ME! ME! ME! ME! ME!
Mal
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15 Jan 2004

Mal, you're just a greedy tart!

15 Jan 2004

Quote by bluexxx
Mal, you're just a greedy tart!

I know

:rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Mal
wink

(but who's complaining?)