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well ive learned by my mistake (beware guys)

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hi everyone
i feel such a vunerable silly f***.ive just been robbed into paying for hotel in leeds very clever if its you who is reading this ,what comes around goes around remember that if its you two.
beware guys theres two girls maybe one who invites you to a get together for a gang bang then asks for cash to pay for room.
they come up with a po box number and asks you to forward cash or postal order.
this is a CON dont fall for it . i know not all peeps are dishonest but there are one or two outside the site who
And you contacted these two girls how exactly?
If it's through this site then we want to know about it, with ALL the details. mad
Steve
Guess you learnt a valuble lession. many are conned aka the phone cards etc, and you just need to 'know' the person that bit better next time? If they were on here I suggest you pm a mod and have them remove their membership. They WILL get their own deserts eventually mate.
well said rocky horror, i do feel for you dirtyboy, and dont take this the wrong way but i think you may have been slightly niave...and these people who have done this to you, will forfeit there right to be here...
you have to remember chatting on a regular basis to people you have contacted, and the organisation that goes into meeting people from the site may take weeks/months, get to know the person/persons you are chatting with.
everybody as there own set of rules that they follow.
again we are sorry that you have been conned like this, many many people on this site a genuine, dont let it put you off
regards
soph n nige
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too right rocky im not falling for that again.i had another asking for cash as well but didnt take them up on the me to pay by paypall
Again, if they are from here then the Mods need to know about it.....this site is completely free and people should not be trying to con Cash out of people...... mad :x :x :x
hi eginhpos
im too trusting but no i dont think everyone is like a stupid mistake but believe me ive learnt the hard way
again mate...post on ALL the details to the mods. Twats like this deserve a good old shoeing...as they say in my part of the woods. Part payment is fine, because you know you have a meet, but alone is a no no... you could always cancel the room unless you have paid in their names....?
hi rocky.
silly f*** me paid them in cash to the person.
so all you con artists out there who pray on silly f**** like me sod off
Very sorry to read about what happened, Dirtyboy. I admire you for being bold enough to tell us all about it on here.
Mike.
hey we are all duped at some time...all about being careful in the end. I just thought if from off here we could stop em dead. Like has been said their are many on here who are nice people, and stopping on is the hardest, and them making friends is next BEFORE contact. It is how it is, and for the better I think unless you dabble in the lets meet area... but you know now and will not be caught out again...
Rocky
thanks mike but i had to warn others most of all new peeps
Quote by xxdirtyboyxx
im too trusting

Better too trusting than too cynical. sad
Fraud and confidence tricksters seem more and more common these days - - and it looks like sex is just another way they've found to scam honest people for a few bucks. Sorry you got caught DirtyBoy, and hopefully your post will alert other people to the dangers.
Quote by xxdirtyboyxx
thanks mike but i had to warn others most of all new peeps

I get the feeling by your continuing avoidence of how you got in touch with these people that you found their ads on another site. From what you say I'd guess an escort site or similar.
Whilst we don't mind you passing on your life experiences on here we do mind you giving the impression that you are finding these ads on this site. Either pass on the details or tell us where you came across them.
Steve
sorry to hear what happened to you. If it was someone from this site, please give us their details. If they're not from this site please try not to give the impression that they are!
Y'know, it's strange (getting off the subject a bit). Lots of men claim they've been contacted by escorts through sites like this, and I've no reason to doubt them. Yet I've never been asked for money for sex through kind of site. I've even mailed women whom I've later recognised as escorts on escorting sites, and they didn't answer. Makes no sense!
Roger. (So ugly even the escorts don't court him!)
I empathise, it happened to me a few times when I was younger, now wiser not to fall for it.. rolleyes also good of you to report it...
...as it happens there ARE, sadly, people trying to con through the ads on this site, i reported one to the mods today and they've been removed (thanks mods), so beware
Basically the 'person' (supposedly a 19 year old girl, who is quite hot in the pic but how do we know it's real, it could be from a porn site), after you express interest, asks you to pay for the hotel room and pay for their train fare to the hotel 48 hours beforehand, saying they can't meet you at your house, you can't travel to theirs, and they won't pick you up etc. :shock:
This 'person' goes by the name of 'becki'.
Well if the guy has to pay all that why not just pop into a 'massage parlour', tons of them in Manchester *sigh* confused
So obviously a scam and of course it went straight to the mods.
This shouldn't take anything away from this site, which is brilliant; get a lot of timewasters, but if you can hack through all that, I have met people through here and had the time of my life :-) and for that it's worth it...just as long as you take care.
tiger cool
I'm not necessarily saying that it was an escort site. It could have been an advert in the local paper for all I know. It's just that the reluctance to say where the ads came from makes me think that they weren't from this site.
Quote by roger743
Lots of men claim they've been contacted by escorts through sites like this......

I don't know of anyone that has been contacted by an escort through this site at all, I certainly haven't. We occasionally get one coming in the chatroom that comes out with something like:
"Been let down, available now in Manchester, good rates!"
It hasn't happened for a while though and they only get banned anyway. rolleyes
Steve
Quote by steveg_nw
I don't know of anyone that has been contacted by an escort through this site at all, I certainly haven't.

Sorry Steve, I didn't mean to cast aspertions on the good name of Swinging-Heaven. On this site all I've seen are a few men's adverts that say things like "No escorts!" and wotnot. I have heard more detailed tales on other sites, however...
As with the others, I was sorry to read about your misfortune. I can safely say that the chances of ME handing over cash like that is remote, I say remote rather than impossible because when the juices start to flow and everything starts to twitch we ALL can do things that are not normal behaviour to us.
Anyone out there that undertakes spontainious Dogging for instance always runs the risk of getting a bit more than they bargained for....as a very quick dash from a local car park pursued by a bunch of lads and their girlfriends desperate to roll me over and kick the living crap out of me proved, the young lady in question looked very tempting before the other thugs decided to leave the darkness of their cars. A lucky escape. Remember always do your homework, use the facilities and members of this site, they will help if they can and many are hugely experienced. Above all, if you put yourself in a vulnerable position, always have an escape route. However don't forget there is alot of good clean harmless fun out there and thousands of bona-fide Swingers and Doggers more than happy to share the experience with you.............And they don't all charge for the pleasure.
I was contacted by a couple who wanted money for a 'swing'. Obviously I not interested in that sort of thing and the mods were all over them (calm guys n gals this one fixed ages ago).
This site is well sorted if anyone takes you for a ride, be carefull, get to know people, go munching and then play with those you know, or known by those you know...
(Hmm almost becoming the known unknowns speech, quitting now while I still hopefully making some sense...)
hi all
i did contact these people through the this site but they removed themso i couldnt get there ad number..
i havent been on anymore sites and responded to them through at the end of the day its my fault i parted with cash
.these people would have been fly by nites like t mobile girls so they will come back thats why i wanted to warn others.
Quote by xxdirtyboyxx
.......i did contact these people through the this site but they removed themso i couldnt get there ad number...

We don't need their ad number, just the e-mail address they used. If you still have it then please send it to me by pm.
Steve
Thanks for the info xxdirtyboyxx. The two ads you refer to were deleted by the mods and the users were banned after we received reports from you guys. These are the comments we have beside the two accounts:
Quote by Report 1
"I responded to this ad a few days ago and now am being asked, after a couple of clever emails, to send £20 to an anonymous PO Box in order to 'help pay for a room for a gangbang'. It's a classic scam and obviously false"

The ad was deleted and the user banned on the 2nd June.
Quote by Report 2
"Asking for money for Hotel Gangbang."

The ad was deleted and the user banned on the 15th June.
I know this isn't much consolation but we do act on your reports as soon as we receive them. Any ad that is obviously a scam or involves a money transaction we delete straight away but if it isn't that obvious then we rely on you guys reporting them to us. Please keep these reports coming in.
Steve