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Well you're not only meeting people but managing to engage them in conversation for an hour, so you can't be doing anything terrible! It's probably just one little thing you need to add to the "package", so to speak, before you're absolutely irresistable.
Is there something in particular that seems to cause the people you meet to reject you? Maybe something you say, or do? Have any of them given you a clue as to what you could be doing wrong?
Is there something in particular that seems to cause the people you meet to reject you? Maybe something you say, or do? Have any of them given you a clue as to what you could be doing wrong?
Forum Virgin
I've asked if I've said anything wrong, and they always say 'no'. And then something like 'you're a lovely man, but i don't think...' Which leave me non the wiser!
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Sex God
so it's NOT your personality then................ could you possibly have halitosis? 
Forum Virgin
Perhaps I just look like their brother... But I don't want a platonic relationship. Really!!
Sex God
well.. u cant look like EVERYONES brother! so u will get lucky eventually! 
Forum Virgin
I know i'm not like everyones brother, but how long does it normally take before I find someone who wants to get to know me better?
How long is a piece of string?
It's all down to luck. Imagine you're mixing a fruit cake. Toss in one glace cherry; that's you. Now add a big juicy raison; that's the lady who wants an intimate relationship with you. Now get your metal spoon and fold the mixture. How long before the cherry and the raison meet?
It's all down to luck. Imagine you're mixing a fruit cake. Toss in one glace cherry; that's you. Now add a big juicy raison; that's the lady who wants an intimate relationship with you. Now get your metal spoon and fold the mixture. How long before the cherry and the raison meet?
Sex God
You never answered the halitosis question.. But I will give you the benefit of the doubt on that.
If you stick to meeting people who don’t have brothers it’s only a matter of time before one of ur meets becomes fruitful (more so than Rogers cake!).
With me.. Its agreeing to meet the men in the first place that is the biggest step, I turn a lot more down before meeting them than I do once I have met.... this is because I have already decided I like a lot of things about them before I will agree to meet them.
i am sure many other people including the ones you met are the same.
Maybe u come across as a bit defeatist, and are expecting them to turn you away once they see you.. This would show and would put people off.
be confident. tell yourself that they are honoured to have your company.
It might end up that they believe it too!
luv n stuff
WBB
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If you stick to meeting people who don’t have brothers it’s only a matter of time before one of ur meets becomes fruitful (more so than Rogers cake!).
With me.. Its agreeing to meet the men in the first place that is the biggest step, I turn a lot more down before meeting them than I do once I have met.... this is because I have already decided I like a lot of things about them before I will agree to meet them.
i am sure many other people including the ones you met are the same.
Maybe u come across as a bit defeatist, and are expecting them to turn you away once they see you.. This would show and would put people off.
be confident. tell yourself that they are honoured to have your company.
It might end up that they believe it too!
luv n stuff
WBB
x
Sex God
Quote by Flipper
Good advice babe , now I think I need some help to overcome my shyness so I'm looking to you:shock: as you seem to be an expert .
i am as shy as they come!!!!!!!!!!
Hey Wooster, welcome to Swinging Heaven.......
Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong.....sometimes people just don't get on and aren't attracted to each other....it's nothing that you've done. And you may do the same one day, meet up with someone and find they aren't your type....as long as both parties are polite about it, don't worry too much.
Get involved in the site and come to a Munch and let us get to know you.....
Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong.....sometimes people just don't get on and aren't attracted to each other....it's nothing that you've done. And you may do the same one day, meet up with someone and find they aren't your type....as long as both parties are polite about it, don't worry too much.
Get involved in the site and come to a Munch and let us get to know you.....
Sex God
Quote by well_busty_babe
Good advice babe , now I think I need some help to overcome my shyness so I'm looking to you
i am as shy as they come!!!!!!!!!!
:laughabove:
:laughabove: :rotflmao::laughabove: :rotflmao::laughabove: :rotflmao:Can I remind you of the look at meeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!! link at the bottom of your posts :shock: :twisted:
:P 
For me, it shows that you are a genuine guy. Persevere and you will gain your rewards.
Your not alone Wooster, happens to me every time, only takes a couple emails before the women start calling me a nice guy and giving me advice. Meet a couple women thou, you know straight away if theres in sexual attraction between you and it only takes me a couple minutes to know if I'm going to click with some one.
I did click with one woman, but just was not attracted to her at all, Did not stop her trying to get me in bed thou. Thing is don't be disappointed with rejection because one day you might have to do the rejection yourself. Just keep advertising there are beautiful women out there looking for nice guys like us.
I did click with one woman, but just was not attracted to her at all, Did not stop her trying to get me in bed thou. Thing is don't be disappointed with rejection because one day you might have to do the rejection yourself. Just keep advertising there are beautiful women out there looking for nice guys like us.
Sex God
mate... if you are getting to meet people then you can't be doing a lot wrong.... you are impressing people enough that they want to meet you.. the only think that i would say being another single guy is to just take your time and be yourself.... i have met various people 5 or 6 times before anything has happened because it helps to be really good friends first... and remember that you are all there to have fun and they are likely to be as nervous as you are.....
sean xxxxx
sean xxxxx
