Well you're not only meeting people but managing to engage them in conversation for an hour, so you can't be doing anything terrible! It's probably just one little thing you need to add to the "package", so to speak, before you're absolutely irresistable.
Is there something in particular that seems to cause the people you meet to reject you? Maybe something you say, or do? Have any of them given you a clue as to what you could be doing wrong?
I've asked if I've said anything wrong, and they always say 'no'. And then something like 'you're a lovely man, but i don't think...' Which leave me non the wiser!
Perhaps I just look like their brother... But I don't want a platonic relationship. Really!!
I know i'm not like everyones brother, but how long does it normally take before I find someone who wants to get to know me better?
How long is a piece of string?
It's all down to luck. Imagine you're mixing a fruit cake. Toss in one glace cherry; that's you. Now add a big juicy raison; that's the lady who wants an intimate relationship with you. Now get your metal spoon and fold the mixture. How long before the cherry and the raison meet?
I prefer a cake with much more fruit, cherries and Raisins, just one of each is just too little. and if there is a selection of nuts ( as there appears to be on this site) so much the better!
so chuck in the cherries and sultanas and currants etc
Regards
Gilbert
Wooster !
All I can say is you are doing better than most single guys so soon, so keep the faith and as they say " persistance overcomes resistance"
Hey Wooster, welcome to Swinging Heaven.......
Doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong.....sometimes people just don't get on and aren't attracted to each other....it's nothing that you've done. And you may do the same one day, meet up with someone and find they aren't your type....as long as both parties are polite about it, don't worry too much.
Get involved in the site and come to a Munch and let us get to know you.....
Your not alone Wooster, happens to me every time, only takes a couple emails before the women start calling me a nice guy and giving me advice. Meet a couple women thou, you know straight away if theres in sexual attraction between you and it only takes me a couple minutes to know if I'm going to click with some one.
I did click with one woman, but just was not attracted to her at all, Did not stop her trying to get me in bed thou. Thing is don't be disappointed with rejection because one day you might have to do the rejection yourself. Just keep advertising there are beautiful women out there looking for nice guys like us.
Any room for nuts in this fruit cake? Cos I`m definately a nut..........
Welcome to the forum!
Venusxxx
mate... if you are getting to meet people then you can't be doing a lot wrong.... you are impressing people enough that they want to meet you.. the only think that i would say being another single guy is to just take your time and be yourself.... i have met various people 5 or 6 times before anything has happened because it helps to be really good friends first... and remember that you are all there to have fun and they are likely to be as nervous as you are.....
sean xxxxx