What am I? (Serious topic)

4 May 2005

Following a recent comment from someone calling me a liar, what do you think I am?
I consider myself straight, heterosexual if you will. I like women, Iâ€™ve always liked women, well, apart from when I was a boy, I liked girls then. Since joining SH I have tried lots of things, both giving and receiving some didnâ€™t do much for me, receiving anal sex for instance, so Iâ€™m not keen to repeat that, some I did enjoy a bit, a particular lady using her strap-on on me, so I may repeat that, some things I really did enjoy, rimming, so anytime, ladies.
Other sorts of things like being in a party or group situation, I donâ€™t mind the contact with another guys genitals, not fussed who sucks my dick TBH. So, what am I and why?
Am I
Straight, because I think I am
Straight, because I prefer women
Bi, because I have no objection to a man sucking my dick
Bi, because I enjoyed the strap-on use by a lady
Gay, because I tried anal sex once
Gay, because I enjoy the strap-on use by a lady
Donâ€™t know not enough information
Whatever dude/ Iâ€™m voting liberal
Other

4 May 2005

Right, so I've voted straight. Erm, I won't be here til Tuesday, so feel free to debate (not that I could stop you) I'll be back on Tuesday to catch up and add my comments.
Chris...

4 May 2005

your just being yourself marms and dont question it. once you start questioning your sexuality a whole world of bullshit enters the mind and clouds your judgement. be yourself and do what you like doing and sod everyone else wink

word of the day ( fuk em )

4 May 2005

Quote by rachel-lane
your just being yourself marms and dont question it. once you start questioning your sexuality a whole world of bullshit enters the mind and clouds your judgement. be yourself and do what you like doing and sod everyone else
word of the day ( fuk em )

exactly what rach said.........but she beat me to it .....darn... smile

:)
i would just say you are a big old flirt and tart mate ......a nice one at that!!! is that not all you need to know.....
sean xxxxxxxxxx

4 May 2005

You're behaviourally bi (AKA a TART lol

:lol: :lol: ) but you identify as a heterosexual male cos ermmm..... you think you are one confused

:? :? :?

4 May 2005

what's with the labelling... you do what you enjoy, what makes you happy... you don't have to classify yourself as anything... and if you want to classify yourself openly as something and someone else calls you a liar what do you need to prove to them?
there are so many negative posts lately about members being abused, treated poorly, dumped by friends/other memebers/general public at large... and I just think it's a reallly big shame...
marms: please just play as you like with consenting others and don't worry about proving anything to anyone.
xxx
ms. ocky

4 May 2005

Hun, you're a slut and we love ya! What else matters? :P

4 May 2005

Quote by marmalaid
So, what am I and why?
Am I
Straight, because I think I am
Straight, because I prefer women
Bi, because I have no objection to a man sucking my dick
Bi, because I enjoyed the strap-on use by a lady
Gay, because I tried anal sex once
Gay, because I enjoy the strap-on use by a lady
Donâ€™t know not enough information
Whatever dude/ Iâ€™m voting liberal
Other

Does it really matter to you that much what anyone else thinks? After all if you say you think you are straight but maybe the poll will swing in favour of you being bi or indeed gay, would you then say "ok I must be gay because everyone else thinks I am" rolleyes

Labels, labels, labels confused

Tracy-Jayne
btw I voted bi because I don't know any straight man who would let another guy suck his cock, but I do know some bi ones :roll:

4 May 2005

Bah, I thought this was going to be a 'going for gold' type quiz sad

4 May 2005

You're the same as me, hun.
I think that makes you bi, with straight tendencies. Or it may make you a raving who kinda likes cock, too.
I'll get back to you.

4 May 2005

Quote by Vix
You're the same as me, hun.
I think that makes you bi, with straight tendencies. Or it may make you a raving who kinda likes cock, too.
I'll get back to you.

:rotflmao: :rotflmao:
dont say that vix. dont confuse the poor lad anymore lol
LABELS LABELS SOOOOO MANY LABELS !!! lol

4 May 2005

You are what you are Marms babes and we love you for it
Just dont ever change
As for a Label your too free a person to be labelled so I shant
Love n hugs
Vicky

4 May 2005

Quote by Vix
You're the same as me, hun.
I think that makes you bi, with straight tendencies. Or it may make you a raving who kinda likes cock, too.
I'll get back to you.

Oh geez - thought you were talking about me for a minute then! wink

4 May 2005

Marms,
You are a TART!!!!! kiss

.....we all know that.... and thats all we need to know!!!? dunno

We love you just the way you are!!
You say that you are straight..........if you know the answer you do you need to ask the question? :dunno:
Then again would a straight guy want..(or even consider having) his cock sucked by a man? :dunno:
Now I'm confused too!!!!!! bolt

Maybe you need a "just marmalaid" option?
H..xx

4 May 2005

Why do you need to be classed as bi-sexual, heterosexual or homosexual.
Why not just be sexual :smile2:

4 May 2005

I don't think it's a big deal to want to name yourself. I'm bi - i'm happy with that. Other people assume I'm straight - they're happy with that. I guess the thing to remember is that whatever you call yourself doesn't have to mean a fixed, final identity. People are subject to change so just accept that if it happens. And whatever you call yourself, there is no 'truth' about it - you are what you believe you are.

4 May 2005

You're just as straight as I am you big tart! wink

Why not go for a liberated guy who needs no labels? cool

Roger the Dragon

4 May 2005

Well Hunni, if you are straight, I sure enjoyed watching you pretending to be bi at Blue and Satins parties :twisted: :twisted:
redface

ops:
Kitty xx

4 May 2005

just be yourself marms theres no such thing as labels. i hate labels grrrr your a human being . humans are such a strange breed. BE YOURSELF !!

4 May 2005

Thanks for the comments and 'luvvings' so far, boys and girls. I just couldn't keep away for four days, could I? Ok, I couldn't keep away for four hours!
Just to clarify something, I ain't at any sort of lifes crossroads, I'm not sitting here worrying or wondering how I should label myself. I just have a self-perception and wondered if it was consistant with other peoples perception of me. I said I was straight, someone disagreed. Ok, fine. I don't mind someone not agreeing with me, I don't need a label, I know what I want and enjoy labelling myself won't help me get it.
I won't be needing your counselling services just yet, thanks Judy wink

Chris

4 May 2005

Why post the poll then??? confused

:? :? :? :? :? :? :?

4 May 2005

Quote by Kit
Why post the poll then??? :? :? :? :? :? :? :?

Like I said, interested in the perceptions of other people, simple really.

4 May 2005

I think that you are a normal red blooded male, that likes to experiment, and like Rachel says, forget the labels, just enjoy what you enjoy, and put the rest down to experience. If it wasn't fun you won't do it again.
Enjoy life, we only get the one.
John
smile

4 May 2005

Quote by rachel-lane
just be yourself marms theres no such thing as labels. i hate labels grrrr your a human being . humans are such a strange breed. BE YOURSELF !!

I agree with this, but I have always seen sexuality as a personaly thing.. If YOU think you are straight, then that is what you are.... sexual preferances are simply that and Im not even going to begin the whole sexaulity isnt just sex thing (although of course it does heavilly involve this).
I have been so deeply offended by people who have accused me of not being bisexual because I am in a relationship with a man or that Im a lesbian trying to hide it.. I dont ask people for their sexual history to 'proove' their sexuality and I dont expect others to want me to do so.
Anyway.. back to the point, you feel your straight - then your straight.

4 May 2005

Quote by marmalaid
Why post the poll then??? :? :? :? :? :? :? :?

Like I said, interested in the perceptions of other people, simple that important to you?
Just feels like you are asking questions of others when you already know the answers :?
Is it really that simple?????? :?

4 May 2005

I've just looked in my by bothered bag, and I'm not very confused

I don't think a private row where someone has accused you of something should be settled in the public forum by means of a poll. :?
Gem. x

4 May 2005

Quote by little gem
I've just looked in my by bothered bag, and I'm not very
I don't think a private row where someone has accused you of something should be settled in the public forum by means of a poll. :?
Gem. x

Don't think that was the reason for marm's poll hun, or was it? Think he's kinda re-assesing/re-evaluating how "society" may see his sexuality is all, but I could be wrong. Can think of a couple of people who've done just that, minus the poll, since I've been around on SH.
We are what we are, why apologise, make excusses or feel an obligation to catogorise (yes she's had too much wine) one's self who knows. Perhaps because society expects us to "know ourselves" and answer to their given labels dunno

4 May 2005

id say your just a fella who likes sex and enjoys himself
no label
no tag
no worries
who give a flyin fig what anyone else thinks you are
rolleyes

4 May 2005

Quote by little gem
I've just looked in my by bothered bag, and I'm not very
I don't think a private row where someone has accused you of something should be settled in the public forum by means of a poll. :?
Gem. x

What Little Gem said rolleyes

4 May 2005

Quote by little gem
I've just looked in my by bothered bag, and I'm not very
I don't think a private row where someone has accused you of something should be settled in the public forum by means of a poll. :?
Gem. x

I agree little gem :?
It sounds to me like the comments have hit a little too close to home to provoke such a response mad

And as the poll is showing so far, our perceptions of him is not the one he has of himself so I can't see the point to it at all rolleyes

:confused:
T-J