Sexlightened
Hi everyone can anyone give advice on what sort of photos get the best response? we've got some on but we're just a bit worried that they might not be what people are looking for. any advice would be great. cheers
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what are the best photos?
Orgasminator
they both look very nice to me! 
Orgasminator
its always nice to see a face tho...... i wish people were braver.
Sexlightened
yeah but it can be a bit dodgy if someone you know is on the site. it could raise anembarasing situation,
As ive said many times before i'd love to show my face but I have to protect those around me
but I do agree easyease that a face pic is probably one off the best to have on your profile.
But hey if any one wants a face pic they can always pm me for one as I myself like to put a face to the posts I read :)
but I do agree easyease that a face pic is probably one off the best to have on your profile.
But hey if any one wants a face pic they can always pm me for one as I myself like to put a face to the posts I read :)
Orgasminator
but if someone recognises you its your position to ask what they were doing here. 
Sex God
Personally, cock and fanny photos don't rock my boat much, although it's nice to see sometimes before you meet up.
My personal preferences are body photos, maybe in underwear or something a little bit more subtle that makes me wonder whats underneath. A bit of mystery.
Gem. x
My personal preferences are body photos, maybe in underwear or something a little bit more subtle that makes me wonder whats underneath. A bit of mystery.
Gem. x
Sexlightened
i see what you mean but in our village everyone knows everyone elses buisness and i already think there is someone from where we live on the site. I don't mind who knows what i do, i'm not hurting anyone and we are all having fun but my wife is wary. by the way if you pm sone one and put a photo on does it come up as an attachment?
Orgasminator
you can invite someone to view your private gallery i think but not sure how.......ive never done it. yeah its a shame there are still narrow minded bigots out there in the world. bloody spoilsports.
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you can invite someone to view your private gallery i think but not sure how.......ive never done it. yeah its a shame there are still narrow minded bigots out there in the world. bloody spoilsports.
Go to my private gallery on the right >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
aand send an invite to the user of your choice
Orgasminator
simple as that eh mik. ta!
Sex God
Quote by da69ve
Truthfully....cock and fanny shots don't do it for us,facial shots are normally the best you can always block out part of your faces if you prefer that!
true, but lets be honest, blanking out your ears wasn't the smartest move, I recognised you straight away.
Personally I prefer just normal photos and that's what'll be going in our profile once I get new batteries for the camera.
I understand why people don't, though. I found a great pic of someones the other day, I'll see if I can find it.
Edit: here, these guys have the right idea if you ask me:
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-507493.html
I understand why people don't, though. I found a great pic of someones the other day, I'll see if I can find it.
Edit: here, these guys have the right idea if you ask me:
http://photos.swingingheaven.co.uk/photo-adverts/swingers-507493.html
Sex God
Quote by little gem
My personal preferences are body photos, maybe in underwear or something a little bit more subtle that makes me wonder whats underneath. A bit of mystery.
Gem. x
Gem
do you mean like a Wetsuit or something????
Sexpert
For us body shots are more important than genitals, generally we know what they are going to look like Still maybe a few minutes in photoshop could improve the shot be removing either the worlds longest pube or the stray piece of cotton from the second photo 
I think the body shots can determine almost instantly if we are likely to be attracted to a cpl. It sounds shallow I know, and we are not proud of this, but unfortunately it is a fact that some people, no matter how nice they are, do not fire our rockets due to body size, shape, etc...
As we are sure we don't rock the boats of many others
Still, that's life, and it's always better to be proud of what you've got, and be happy to display it, and not to bother at all because of embarrassment. Life’s too short to be embarrassed.
Still maybe a few minutes in photoshop could improve the shot be removing either the worlds longest pube or the stray piece of cotton from the second photo I think the body shots can determine almost instantly if we are likely to be attracted to a cpl. It sounds shallow I know, and we are not proud of this, but unfortunately it is a fact that some people, no matter how nice they are, do not fire our rockets due to body size, shape, etc...
As we are sure we don't rock the boats of many others
Still, that's life, and it's always better to be proud of what you've got, and be happy to display it, and not to bother at all because of embarrassment. Life’s too short to be embarrassed.
Sexlightened
Looks like i've opened a can of worms here, but thanks for all your help, keep it coming in. Honestly it really has been a great help. i'll have to get some more photos in our private gallery. cheers guys
Definatley Face shots are dodgy!! Went to work and a guy came up to me and said "Hi, you look fab in that Nurses uniform, and shaved too!!!" ... he had spotted my face and pics on another (i know tut tut!) Adult Site. Talk about blush as i had a couple of staff with me at the time. Now he keeps winking when he see me!!! It was at a football ground with 18,000 fans in it, would you believe ONE PERSON out of all them spotted me!!
Orgasminator
cant go wrong with a nurses uniform...................
Sex God
Personally I would much rather see a body pic, either clothed or unclothed, but not the open legs stuff, bit too in your face (no, not literally). If you feel a bit uncomfortable about being recognised, you could always crop the pics so they dont show you above the shoulders.
Good luck anyway
Good luck anyway
Sexpert
Quote by skybluebabes
Definatley Face shots are dodgy!! Went to work and a guy came up to me and said "Hi, you look fab in that Nurses uniform, and shaved too!!!" ... he had spotted my face and pics on another (i know tut tut!) Adult Site. Talk about blush as i had a couple of staff with me at the time. Now he keeps winking when he see me!!! It was at a football ground with 18,000 fans in it, would you believe ONE PERSON out of all them spotted me!!
I would hope more than one of them spotted you :shock:
as opposed to recognising you
Quote by sexycouple22
Hi everyone can anyone give advice on what sort of photos get the best response? we've got some on but we're just a bit worried that they might not be what people are looking for. any advice would be great. cheers
We prefer to show or see action shots, at least you get some idea of what people are into. There appears to be some people happy to show faces when dressed but not without clothes, if you are going to be recognized does it make any difference?
Photos of cocks and pussy could be anybody, be a bit more adventurous.
You will be supprised how much response you get.
Sexpert
Quote by rondatheslut
We prefer to show or see action shots, at least you get some idea of what people are into. There appears to be some people happy to show faces when dressed but not without clothes, if you are going to be recognized does it make any difference?
Photos of cocks and pussy could be anybody, be a bit more adventurous.
You will be supprised how much response you get.
Action shots? Ah like parachuting or riding a motor bike? In that case, yes it would give you an idea what they were into
If you meen sexually, well you could just ask, and then have a conversation about it?
How does a photo of a man having sex with a woman, or vice versa, give you any idea what they are into? Without context the photo is worthless as a guage of sexual activity. As titulation, that's a different matter. Thats more likely why people like action shots, because they get off on them
No not like parachuting or riding a motor bike. If we wanted those we would not be here,
suggest perhaps you are on the wrong site if that is how you see action shots.
You don't have any idea of what a couple are into by looking at a photograph of them having sex? Well here are a few clues. If the guy is fucking her arse they are into anal sex. If the girl is sucking his cock they are into oral sex. if the girl is blindfolded,restrained by her wrists and having her bum spanked they are into bondage,spanking and some sort of Dom/sub the girl is involved with two guys they are into threesomes.
If the girl is involved with a black guy its a fair assumption that she enjoys both black and white guys. Its quite easy really but if you have any problems with photos and what they mean just ask.
Sexpert
Quote by rondatheslut
No not like parachuting or riding a motor bike. If we wanted those we would not be here,
suggest perhaps you are on the wrong site if that is how you see action shots.
You don't have any idea of what a couple are into by looking at a photograph of them having sex? Well here are a few clues. If the guy is fucking her arse they are into anal sex. If the girl is sucking his cock they are into oral sex. if the girl is blindfolded,restrained by her wrists and having her bum spanked they are into bondage,spanking and some sort of Dom/sub the girl is involved with two guys they are into threesomes.
If the girl is involved with a black guy its a fair assumption that she enjoys both black and white guys. Its quite easy really but if you have any problems with photos and what they mean just ask.
I think you missed the point we were trying to make, or we missed the point in making it.
The parachuting could mean they are adventurous, and the bike riding could mean like living life for the now! Qualities that could make good bedfellows. A photo of a bloke shagging a womans arse could just mean he likes anal sex, and she is so subserviant, she will do what ever pleases her man. If a girl is involved with a black guy it is not a fair assumption to say she enjoys both black and white guys. It may be the black guy and the white guy are both welsh, and she has a thing for the welsh, not colour. The point we tried (and failed) to get across was, that pictures are no substitute for having a conversation about what you like and find attractive in others. The face and body shots are a fair indication of attractivness. If you think you could enjoy thier comapny without being revolted by thier looks, then you can delve further into what they like and dislike etc. Just like meeting real people in a pub. We have no problem with action shots, and in fact we enjoyed your ones. They are very good. But on their own they tell us nothing about you. Other than you seem to like sex and having your picture taken, like we do. You assume they convay a bit about you, and we could draw conclusions from those pictures, and in the whole our conclusions may be right. But if we get it wrong you may be offended.
Sorry if our post seemed negative, it wasn't meant to be, just trying to say why clothed body shots and conversation can be better than action shot. (Also it avoids the picture collectors)
xx
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I think you missed the point we were trying to make, or we missed the point in making it.
Sorry if our post seemed negative, it wasn't meant to be, just trying to say why clothed body shots and conversation can be better than action shot. (Also it avoids the picture collectors)
xx
We think you missed the point from the beginning.
sexycouple22 asked the question " What are the best photos to get a response".
They didnt ask about conversations. We therefor gave our opinion to that question.
If you now bring conversation into the debate we would agree that human beings have this wonderful ability to comunicate with each other, the problem is that they do not
always tell the truth.
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I think you missed the point we were trying to make, or we missed the point in making it.
Sorry if our post seemed negative, it wasn't meant to be, just trying to say why clothed body shots and conversation can be better than action shot. (Also it avoids the picture collectors)
xx
We think you missed the point from the beginning.
sexycouple22 asked the question " What are the best photos to get a response".
They didnt ask about conversations. We therefor gave our opinion to that question.
If you now bring conversation into the debate we would agree that human beings have this wonderful ability to comunicate with each other, the problem is that they do not
always tell the truth.
:P
Sexpert
No, we got the point from the begining, and in our first post offered our opinion that body shots were best.
We just picked up on your comments about people seeming to be happy to show picturs of them selves dressed but not naked, and that action shots could tell you what sort of people you are. :lol:
We think you are right, and full action shots with the face shown will get more response than a fully clothed body shot.
Our relucatance to exhibit those kind of pictures on an advert stems from wether any of those responses would actually be usefull to us. We have had no real dramas from dressed body shots, but do have reservations about our action portfolio.
sexycouple22 could end up with a massive inbox from pic collectors, single men who can't read (providing they are not after single men of course
) and even work mates!!! 
After all, i'm sure we are not the only couple on here who have spotted pictures of people we know "having fun" on the web!!xx
Sexlightened
Suffolk cpl have a point. The worst thing that could happen to us would be someone who lives near by realising it's us. Action shots are all right but really what does it convey? you can read any thing into it. lots have people have given us pointers but i think in the long run we are going to have to do what is right after taking everyones views in and assembling our own,new, ideas. the thing i'm most worried about is picture collectors and possibly having my face, along with my cock, on a web site somewhere without me knowing about it.
