I suppose this is the million dollar question that most guys ask, when wanting to know if thier wife or partner is 'up for it'
Truth is, this account was opened by me, as a sigle guy, i am actually married (shock horror - i am not the first)
The reason i opened the account was basically, to satisfy my curiosity into the .
I had long wanted to see my girlfriend at the time and now wife with another guy, i never once mentioned this though, until one night only a year ago maybe when during sex, i asked her if she would like another man to watch us.
To my utter shock, in her fantasy it was me doing the watching, funny hey!!
Anyways, this topic always comes up during sex, she orgasms to the thought of it durig sex, its never mentioned during the day, only during sex.
So the question is, does she want it? or is it just a fantasy????
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What Are The Signs - Is My Wife Wanting Another Man
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Sex God
Quote by topnotchguy
So the question is, does she want it? or is it just a fantasy????
There is only one person who can answer that question, and unless she also has a 'single' female profile on here, it is unlikely she will reply to your post
Seriously, you need to ask her if it is something she wants to happen, or is it just a fantasy. You may need to think how you will deal with it if she says it is something she wants to try and if you are prepared to take it further. Often fantasy and reality (for you as well as for her) are two very different things.
Tread carefully, and think of the consequences before you do anything, including how she would react if she knew you was on this site.
Sex God
In fairness he hasn't done anything that many others have done, including me!
But to answer the question, the only way you will know is if you talk openly with each other.
But to answer the question, the only way you will know is if you talk openly with each other.
I can understand the question and talking to you're SO would be the best answer anyone could give you but...
things to lookout for
1. has she stopped feeding you
2. do you get sex with her now
3. does she still do your washing
If any of the above ring bells then forget about asking her, it to late.
You'er Wife should be the 1st person you talk to not 1,500,000 cyber swingers
things to lookout for
1. has she stopped feeding you
2. do you get sex with her now
3. does she still do your washing
If any of the above ring bells then forget about asking her, it to late.
You'er Wife should be the 1st person you talk to not 1,500,000 cyber swingers
Master of Sex
Quote by Trevaunance
In fairness he hasn't done anything that many others have done, including me!
But to answer the question, the only way you will know is if you talk openly with each other.
and if she is up for it.. just think of all the wasted years you could have been exploring and having filthy fun together if you had opened up and spoken honestly about your fantasies and desires rather than hiding them in here..
let us know how it goes! goodluck!
Sex God
Sorry MissVery was that reply aimed at me or the OP?
Master of Sex
Quote by Trevaunance
Sorry MissVery was that reply aimed at me or the OP?
I was following on from what you said, aimed at OP.
Can't get anything past you on the forums jeez :rude:
Sex God
Ah no problem, it's just you quoted me, but I figured the text wasn't for me. So I thought I'd best ask 
