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Hello Stockinglegs
mmmmmmmmmmmm a very warm welcome to the forums
Hope you enjoy
Wayward1 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Still waiting lol wink wink
hiya stockinglegs and welcome to the forum
........hmmmm its a tough one to say what I am physically scared of......deep water I think is a major one, and although not frightened, I DETEST slugs with a vengeance evil
Evil spawns of satan that they are..... mad
dont mind hospitals, doctors, needles or anything like that (comes from working in an operating theatre for 13 years lol )
BUT i do have a huge amount of emotional fears....similar to most on here...loss of a loved one, is a major major issue with me and it even extends to things like kites and helium baloons - stuff that can float away...bizarre :shock: :lol:
i dont mind men in gorilla suits, IF anyones offering :P :twisted: :
I laugh in the face of fear....... rolleyes
Hi Wayward
Think it's Mr S you're still waiting for lol
but thanks for posting anyway x
I'm scared of daddy-long-legs - its the clickety noise they make and sheep
I can't say I'm actually afraid of many physical things, although I'm not keen on cockroaches, or of finding my way barred by groups of intoxicated young males ( yes I know - I'm a wimp)
Jaymars contribution about emotional fears strikes a big chord though, and fear of losing friends, and fear of rejection are probably the biggest ones


Oh -- and a great first forum post
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Men in gorilla suits
Luckily I don't come across these every day. What are you afraid of??
smile

DONT come to a south wales social then redface
Im afraid of myself rolleyes
A friend of mine had a phobia of Andy Pandy dunno
Think my only fear is..
that i will fail at been a good dad to my daughter.
I hope i am always there for her when she needs me.
Cotton wool
Clowns
Birds
Heights
Needles
Dolls
Confined Spaces
Crowds
I'm sure there's more confused
you scare me Julia :twisted:
Large noisy groups of people. Parties, wedding receptions etc.
Some say everyone get nervous in these situations but rushing to the toilet to be physically sick warrents a bit more than nerves and is closer to fear.
Hi Keeno
Large crowds worry me, it's the thought that I wouldn't be able to escape if anything went wrong. Wedding receptions are grim anyway and best avoided. No more invites for me lol
Im afraid of
Spiders :scared:
Shedding snake skin ( wheres the feel sick emoticon)
Becoming totally dependant on anyone ( in a health sense)
Louise xx
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Hi Keeno
Large crowds worry me, it's the thought that I wouldn't be able to escape if anything went wrong. Wedding receptions are grim anyway and best avoided. No more invites for me lol

I don't think its as anything a logical as escape routes. Its the noise, the proximity of people, even thinking about is turning my stomach :cry:
snakes,snakes and did i mention snakes...........
the thought of em and the look of em, cant even look at them on tv or in a book........
ran like hell when they got one out at longleat and i aint built for running lol
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Hi stockinglegs and welcome! lol
I don't actually have any physical fears so to speak, my fears are all emotional type fears ie., my main one is my fear of losing people I love. This may sound strange but my first marriage broke down by the person I loved so much walking out on me and for that reason I have battled for years in my second marriage to finally trust that this won't happen again. It's been an emotional struggle but I've got there.
I constantly fear for people's wellbeing, so that's why I'm saying my fears are all emotional. Christ I'm a thinker! :lol:

Totally agree with you on this, im not really scared of much physically but emotionally i fear alot, especially dying and leaving my kids behind!!!. kiss
Thanks biggrin and 1 for u :kiss:
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Im afraid of
Spiders :scared:
Shedding snake skin ( wheres the feel sick emoticon)
Becoming totally dependant on anyone ( in a health sense)
Louise xx

How often do you do that then Lou? blink
Quote by keeno
Large noisy groups of people. Parties, wedding receptions etc.
Some say everyone get nervous in these situations but rushing to the toilet to be physically sick warrents a bit more than nerves and is closer to fear.

and that's mine :cry:
Bigcockroaches :uhoh:

there are 3 things im scared of .. the first is ballons.. *shuddder* :twisted: there the creation of the devil...
the second is clowns.. *shuuuuuuuuuuuuudder* they are also the creation of the devil evil
and the third is dying alone.. i had a massive near fatal overdose.. and lucky lived.. but at the time i had no one.. and the thought of not being found for 6 weeks until the smell get to much is terrifying cos at that time that would of been the way to go... i still dont have anyone to bury me, no next of kin.. but i do have people that give a shit now.. so im nearly there!!!!! heheh... .but ballons an clowns are worse..!!!!!!11
but wouldn't it be awfull to be foundd by a balloon wielding clown, who strode from his car (after all doors fell off, and radiator sprang from the car) carrying a commedy shovel?
(I'm also a clown-o-phobic... though know not why)
lp
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Im afraid of
Spiders :scared:
Shedding snake skin ( wheres the feel sick emoticon)
Becoming totally dependant on anyone ( in a health sense)
Louise xx

How often do you do that then Lou? blink
oh Fire rolleyes lol you know what I mean, seeing it on tv, or in the zoo,s it makes my skin crawl :shock:
Louise xx
After watching Malcom and Barbara loves farewell last night i am terrified of me or one of my loved ones getting altzimers(sp?). :cry:
Quote by lyns
After watching Malcom and Barbara loves farewell last night i am terrified of me or one of my loved ones getting altzimers(sp?). :cry:

Its a terrible condition. It must be so much better to have altzimers than to look after a loved one with it. At least if it is you, you wouldn't know.
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After watching Malcom and Barbara loves farewell last night i am terrified of me or one of my loved ones getting altzimers(sp?). :cry:

Its a terrible condition. It must be so much better to have altzimers than to look after a loved one with it. At least if it is you, you wouldn't know.
I agree.
I don`t know if you watched it but it was horrible to watch, she loved him so much and had to watch him slowly die for 15 years, I ended up blubbing like a baby while watching it. :cry:
Quote by lyns
After watching Malcom and Barbara loves farewell last night i am terrified of me or one of my loved ones getting altzimers(sp?). :cry:

Its a terrible condition. It must be so much better to have altzimers than to look after a loved one with it. At least if it is you, you wouldn't know.
I agree.
I don`t know if you watched it but it was horrible to watch, she loved him so much and had to watch him slowly die for 15 years, I ended up blubbing like a baby while watching it. :cry:
I didn't see it but I work with old people and enough of them have altzimers for me to see what it can do. It is a dreadful, dreadful condition.
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snakes,snakes and did i mention snakes...........
the thought of em and the look of em, cant even look at them on tv or in a book........
ran like hell when they got one out at longleat and i aint built for running lol

and also Louise_and_joe.........I love snakes....we have 7 at home and I love em all to bits- they all have different personalities lol
Theyre not as bad as people think they are, but anyone with a phobia, I sympathise....not nice feelings to have...maybe I could help you with your phobias.......