What attracts you?

24 Nov 2005

Money....
Oh, you mean sexually/personally redface

Errr, well, that has to be ...... money lol

not really, just trying to balance some incomings/outgoings at the mo, so money is on the brain

24 Nov 2005

I like someone who can make me laugh, is good company, can talk about anything, who have a smile that lights up their eyes. Physical appearance is not as important, although an attraction is essential.
I do prefer dark haired guys to light....my main preference!!

24 Nov 2005

Any woman that can spend 20 mins with me without wanting to stitch my gob shut works for me
apart from that im a big fan of eyes, i think they are the most intense physical feature
But without personality i dont think what a person really looks likes matters, well not to me anyway

25 Nov 2005

A mirror

28 Nov 2005

Build and height are normally unimportant to me so if we're just talking about looks and instant attraction I'd have to say the eyes do it for me every time. When people smile and you can see the sparkle in their eyes I find very attractive.
smile

28 Nov 2005

Im new here, but id like to chip in and say the eyes do it for me as well

28 Nov 2005

I find myself attracted to people who are comfortable with their own sexual desires, positive views to others, and a passion for sexual self discovery.
I like people who have and use their imagination and allow themselves to explore, without regrets.
I dont like my sexual path to become stagnant or unadventurous, this would be the worse case senario for me.
For me to be really happy and reach my sexual high, i need to have the freedom to explore all my innermost desires. It would be great to be able to do this, without other peoples prejudice`s and negative opinions that may differ from mine.
I dont understand or want people around me, who judge, criticize and condemn my actions. Very unattractive to me.
Thats why i dont judge others, regardless of what they do.
What right do i have ? None at all, its important for people to have free will.
Physical attraction is another matter all together.
H,red

28 Nov 2005

CONFIDENCE

28 Nov 2005

Quote by onlyme1981
Build and height are normally unimportant to me

Well at least there's one person on here who might like me then lol

I agree about the eyes thing BTW - they are a dominant feature IMO. As for the non-visual stuff, of course personality, presence and that certain 'je ne sais quoi' are what matter most for me.

28 Nov 2005

got to say the eyes do it for me i think the eyes tell you alot about a person and if you can make eye contact wow also the ability to make me laugh then i think everything else follows .

28 Nov 2005

xxx

28 Nov 2005

Quote by janeandwill
I agree with most things said here, it isn't physical attributes that attract me but presence and warmth, sense of humour and something I can't quite put my finger on but if it could be bottled and sold it would cost a fortune.

I'll let you put your finger on it, as long as you warm them up first... cool

28 Nov 2005

Quote by janeandwill
I agree with most things said here, it isn't physical attributes that attract me but presence and warmth, sense of humour and something I can't quite put my finger on but if it could be bottled and sold it would cost a fortune.

True - being present always helps! wink

Seriously though
Initially physical attributes which attact me are twinkling eyes and a warm and cheeky smile. Follow that up with good conversational skills and a mischievious sense of humour and that is the ultimate.