If I can make a girl laugh, I become attracted to her!
If I can make her come, I fall in lust with her.
If she can put up with me for more than a few days, I fall in love with her!
kind of makes sense,
if anybody does figure out a formula for what attracts people, please let me know would, it'd be very useful
eyes and a smile attract me
a girl could be any siz, shape, colour or from another planet
if she has great eyes and a nice smile im hooked
thats not to say i reject anyone without these thing
Think it would be easier to reply to 'what doesn't attract you' - list would be much shorter!!
The word I would use is presence.
Why are some women (and men, I guess) of all shapes and sizes sexy, but others of a similar shape & size are not? They have presence - I am here, this is me, I am interesting in my own right, etc.
Why are lapdancers good at their job? They have presence (any lapdancers on here care to comment?)
I guess it's the X-factor.
TC
i did not say it was a necessacity - just enough to get me interested...
although someone who owns a bar of soap and deodrant would not go amiss....
I used to talk to a girl on the phone for work, I spoke to her a couple of times a week to start, we laughed and joked, then it turned to inuendoes (sp) and then downright lust.
I arranged to meet her and what a shock, she was everything that I had imagined, and that she had told me, large girl sz 18ish, brunette, but what I hadn't got over the phone was that she was 'kin ugly, with as much facial hair a I have, and her personal hygene was none existant, saw her once, wined, dined and put in a cab. :cry:
Other than that, not too bothered about age, colour, like nice eyes, hair. Body wise, err,don't do thin, would have to be sz14 minimum, no upper limit really, my wife is 18/20 and I love her to bits. Like a nice pair of boobs, don't do fried eggs, like a tummy, and large bum. Not into legs either.
My best mate and his wife thinks im a few sandwiches short of a picnic, he likes kelly brook, whoever is on page 3 that day, the obvious ones
i like phillippa forrester, cos she doesnt take it all too serious, i like charlotte church cos she has curves and refuses to become a stick insect , i like jo frost, purely cos of the way she askes if you have been naughty, i like lorraine kelly cos there is something i dont quite know what, i like sarah beeny cos she looks like filth (to me) and wears leather..
id rather be laughed at for the variety of women that attracts me, then be stuck with one stereotype like rod stuart - yes blondes are lovely, but but he has missed out on brunetts
there, now i have embarrassed myself, i will let you carry on lmao
The most important thing is confidence - if someone feels good about themselves then that rubs off and you feel better about them.
But it's got to be real confidence - not just cocky front. A sort of 'im comfortable with me and i like me' sort of thing.
Brains, and a passion for life.
That's all it takes...
The ability to hold a conversation and make me laugh
Physically across a crowded room, someone with a really good laugh, one of those head-thrown-back open mouthed laughs. Nice eyes and smile, squidgable bum :smitten: and as mentioned in another thread, initially, a close cropped haircut with a goatee beard.
None of the above are mutually exclusive though, as long as the first point is there, none of the rest of it matters too much if there's some kind of chemistry going on :twisted:
). For me, personality is far more important and that's the main reason why we haven't just jumped into a swinging experience with strangers. If/when we go further, it'll have to be with people we know, like and trust. 
, the ability to work out when I need to be listened to - the ability to listen to me when I need it. Interesting thoughts, an interesting past, the ability to take the piss out of themselves.