what do u do?????

15 May 2008

What do you do ????
I was out shoppin in town today
Saw someone i met at social
You have had a drink with them
Also talked to them since in chat room
What do u do
Say hello ??
Just watch them walk by??
Wait for them to say hi first??

15 May 2008

Smile and keep on walking - then mail them later lol

15 May 2008

all depends on the situation were they with anyone? kids friends etc, personally wouldnt speak to anyone who was in company or possibly in a work style situation better to leave it then maybe send a pm later
or if they say hi say hi bacxk but keep on walking

15 May 2008

We had similer thing we swung with a couple then bumped in to her at tesco, she was working we said hello asked how she and he where then went on shopping. Now they dont talk to us at all rolleyes

15 May 2008

I'm for ever bumping into people i have met at socials etc etc....i just say hello..and have a conversation, as i would with any other freind i would see. I honestly can't see the problem... certainly don't mention SH or anything....just treat them as any other friend I say.

15 May 2008

I once went to Nottingham, and saw loads of people from SH.
It wasn't until later, it dawned on me that I was there for the Notts munch, and so were they, to say I was relieved, is an understatement!

15 May 2008

i agree with fanny depends on the situation and if it could cause them no end of questions as to who i was and how they knew me.
widey you're a numpty wink

15 May 2008

well it happened to me the other day and i just walked by cos she had a child with her and i wasnt convinced she would remember me anyway lol

15 May 2008

i have been stopped before... got the shock of me life... lol

:lol: :lol:
I say hello, have a chat and be generally friendly... I don't mention anything about swinging at all...it is possible to have a chat without mentioning sex at all.... kinda cool... unless they bring it up..... but most people don't :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

15 May 2008

I have friends from SH, I would have to say hi to them. For all the others I have met my memory for names is soooo bad I would prob stay quiet, so they would not realise the name had gone...

15 May 2008

It's not happened to me yet.... but I have taken all your tips on board for when it inevitably does (knowing my luck it'll be when I am taking my folks out for Sunday lunch or summat!?!)

17 May 2008

Personally i wouldnt say hi to them because you don't know who they are with, i had a guy i had met off here saw me in the street once while i was with my children and he came over and started talking to me i was very annoyed with him as i was with my kids so i wouldn't talk to someone else out of respect for their privacy, i would however send them a PM when i next went on the PC to say hi i saw you earlier but wasnt sure if i should talk as i didn't know who you was with etc...so they didn't think i was being ignorant