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What do you do if your G/F hates giving you BJ's guys?
Beamer, maybe there's a reason she thinks its disgusting??????????
:arrow: maybe previous experience put her off? someone pushed her head down too far and made her gag etc? maybe she;s been bought up with the idea that oral sex is unnatural or something? - you wont know unless you talk about it
:arrow: doesnt like the idea of cum in her mouth? - condoms? or trust in you to 'pull out' before you cum and finish off by hand?
:arrow: hate to say it, but perhaps your personal hygiene needs attention? or she hates pubes near her mouth?
there's a load of reasons why she might think its 'disgusting' - but unless you talk to her (and I do not mean any of this ' owww go on babe, just try it, you'll love it if you just have a go' business ) you cant do anything to reassure, encourage or 'help' her.
That said, it may well be that she just doesnt like it, for whatever reason. I have vanilla friends who just wont suck cock, ever, and i've never understood why - but this is your Mrs we're talking about, and maybe part of the problem is that you're talking to us about it, not her?
:arrow: maybe previous experience put her off? someone pushed her head down too far and made her gag etc? maybe she;s been bought up with the idea that oral sex is unnatural or something? - you wont know unless you talk about it
:arrow: doesnt like the idea of cum in her mouth? - condoms? or trust in you to 'pull out' before you cum and finish off by hand?
:arrow: hate to say it, but perhaps your personal hygiene needs attention? or she hates pubes near her mouth?
there's a load of reasons why she might think its 'disgusting' - but unless you talk to her (and I do not mean any of this ' owww go on babe, just try it, you'll love it if you just have a go' business ) you cant do anything to reassure, encourage or 'help' her.
That said, it may well be that she just doesnt like it, for whatever reason. I have vanilla friends who just wont suck cock, ever, and i've never understood why - but this is your Mrs we're talking about, and maybe part of the problem is that you're talking to us about it, not her?
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Quote by Beamer121well my girl was the same i had to have a tatoo removed from my knob before she would ever do it,miind the the tatoo was "sunderland 2006 prem champs" she said she found that hard to swallow
Just wanted to know how the guys in this forum feel when they are with a partner who hates giving oral sex.
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It's not easy like going out and getting a new toothbrush dambuster! lol
and
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It's easier getting another woman than going through all the effort of yoga classes lol
So getting another woman is easier than getting a new toothbrush or learning yoga :confused:
When I said get another, I meant another as in additional.
I didn't mean "kick that bitch to the kerb, boyfriend"
(GO Ricky, Go Ricky)
That way, you could have one for food cooking, and one for cock sucking.
Does she enjoy anal ? You might need three
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Well Missy let's just say she thinks it's disgusting lol I think that sums it all up!
Why does she think it's disgusting tho???
I mean, if it's just something that's beyond her boundaries, then I'm afraid it's something that you have to accept and live with.
But if it's cos shes scared an explosion might happen in her mouth :shock: or something like that she finds disgusting...... then all is not lost lol, a lot of communication and little tiny steps forward could be the answer
I mean, if you're in the shower together, if she tries it then, there's no 'stuff' to taste as such - just the texture of you, which is a fantastic sensation :twisted: .......... not the texture of you I mean :uhoh: well you could be a fantastic texture....ummm.... probably are :uhoh: in general I meant :uhoh: (phew!!big hole digging prevented and barely noticed there I reckon 8-) ) ..... but it's a good way to give it a try if she's just unsure 8-)
But like I said, if it's something beyond her limits, then you'll have to respect that and move on.
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Personal hygiene is not a problem I spend more time in the bathroom than her lol!
I am very conscious about my grooming. Clean shaven all the time!
I guess it's something that she has tried for my sake but doesn't want to do it again. Shes says she doesn't like it -END OF! lol
I'm just looking at the big picture here hun, it was a possible reason, that's all.
Hmmmm tried it for your sake? that might be a significant part of the issue then.
ok, i'll throw another one in - is it something to do with size? big cocks are pretty intimidating when you've got one in your mouth (
) especially if you have any kind of 'issues' with gagging/ choking/ not getting the breathing right and start suffocating ( :lol: ), plus it gives ya chronic jaw ache :cry: Flip side of course is a small cock... well I cant think of reasons but personally speaking I just cant suck small cock
its a bit like that nails down blackboard feeling :lol: :lol: But, if you're saying she's put her foot down, she hates it, there's no way she's giving you oral etc then yep, like you say, end of.
but - is the rest of your relationship not worth the sacrifice ?? or is getting a BJ the be all and end all and you dump her and look for someone else?
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We've got a good relationship, so I guess I could live with and know all the guys in this cafe are thinking you're mad :shock:
:inlove: awwwwwwww
you've made me go all pink and fluffy now
you could always play with another couple - that way you can both enjoy oral and she doesnt have to put owt in her mouth! :lol:
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Personal hygiene is not a problem I spend more time in the bathroom than her lol!
I am very conscious about my grooming. Clean shaven all the time!
I guess it's something that she has tried for my sake but doesn't want to do it again. Shes says she doesn't like it -END OF! lol
On a semi proper note ...............................
There might be a message in there for you.
Some girls do - some girls don't.
I adore oral sex. I enjoy the feeling of a girl swallowing me. I worship genuine cock lovers. You know - the girls that suck/stroke/play/fuck cock because theywant to ?
Your profile says your a single guy, so we wouldn't know the "status" of your relationship with your "girlfriend" - (You know - your profile page where you've tried to get round the site rule of NOT PUTTING CONTACT DETAILS)
But if it's a serious relationship - As a clue, I spent 5 years in a serious, long term relationship with a girl that didn't swallow.
There's more to life (not a great deal) than getting what we want in the bedroom/lounge/bathroom/patio/kitchen/decking/half way up the stairs/in the pantry when she bends over to reach into the freezer.
