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what do you look for first in a swinging partner/partners?

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after something that was whispered in my ear about 6am this morning got me thinking, do people have a particular something that they look for
eg personality, sense of humour, ability to hold body in yoga positions for long periods of time? you can even be shallow and say penis size ladies lol.
im definately a personality person, i like to find interesting people first i think, but also being nicely presented is another thing that springs to mind.
nicely presented ???? is that the same as well preserved ? lol
To answer your question .............. no idea !!!! Same as real life I think .......... someone who makes you laugh, feel good, feel comfortable and who can cook !
lol ............. Wasnt looking for Steve when he threw himself at me lol ................ I am gonna be such a dead woman now !!!
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxx
hahahaha, hopefully hes catching up on sleep and wont read that blonde.
nice to see cooking on there, its a rarely requested skill i noticed. ;)
breathing is a must biggrin
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breathing is a must biggrin

although ive heard for some members this is optional.
Lancy hiya hun smile
Main thing I look for is a nice pair of tits :twisted: lol jk hun. The most important thing for me is someone who can make me :giggle: yes looks do count to some extent but not massively to me :)
As long as she don't look like this :

I don't mind too much :P
Minx x x
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Main thing I look for is a nice pair of tits

i guess you dont want to see how i was pushing my chest together then?
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Mmmmmmm, she looks nice :lickface:
i mainly go for personality, but someone who also likes me helps lol
looks are not important to me, i normally got for a person who i can easly talk to, who is fun and got a good sence of humour.... end of the day looks can catch the eye, but you need more than that to reel a person in!
I always look for the white stick and labrador...............
.............then I know I am in with at least half a chance lol .
Dave_Notts
I look for someone who will reply to my PM's - always seems a good sign! lol
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Big Tits, obviously

omg!!............ you said that with out stuttering :shock: wink
well has to be personalty with me!.......its beats every thing really! if they have that they have the rest
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I always look for the white stick and labrador...............
.............then I know I am in with at least half a chance lol .
Dave_Notts

i take it, if she is deaf then your laughing!!!
:twisted:
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I always look for the white stick and labrador...............
.............then I know I am in with at least half a chance lol .
Dave_Notts

And apparently Mr Blunkett is not that fussy either. biggrin
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i mainly go for personality, but someone who also likes me helps lol

don't get much action then NN :scared:
Intelligence and sense of humour are absolute musts for me. I just can't be turned on by anyone I don't connect with mentally... if we can't laugh together, it's difficult to see how we can become good friends, and if I can't be your friend, I don't want to shag you, frankly.
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Intelligence and sense of humour are absolute musts for me. I just can't be turned on by anyone I don't connect with mentally... if we can't laugh together, it's difficult to see how we can become good friends, and if I can't be your friend, I don't want to shag you, frankly.

And a good memory................. lol
sorry couldn't resist rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
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Intelligence and sense of humour are absolute musts for me. I just can't be turned on by anyone I don't connect with mentally... if we can't laugh together, it's difficult to see how we can become good friends, and if I can't be your friend, I don't want to shag you, frankly.

And a good memory................. lol
sorry couldn't resist rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Oh bog off! :P :lol2:
lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'
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i mainly go for personality, but someone who also likes me helps lol

don't get much action then NN :scared:
Git :kick:
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lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'

oh sorry just for you....
I got for a huge cock gotta be at leasr 12inchblast
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lol, where are all the shallow people posting 'cock size'

>>>is feeling brave today! I'm willing to put my hand up to this one!
Intelligence and sense of humour are absolute musts for me. I just can't be turned on by anyone I don't connect with mentally... if we can't laugh together, it's difficult to see how we can become good friends, and if I can't be your friend, I don't want to shag you, frankly.

Ice, you're bang on with this one - but I'll openly admit that if a guy has all that and is particularly 'well endowed', he'll usually shoot straight to the top of my 'to do' list !
shallow rolleyes lol
nicely presented ???? is that the same as well preserved ? lol
the first ones done by a celebrity tv chef
the second is done by the undertaker
Someone that makes me laugh, with nice eyes and a smile. Possibly a bit cheeky but that makes me feel good rather then just another boring old shag confused
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Someone that makes me laugh, with nice eyes and a smile. Possibly a bit cheeky but that makes me feel good rather then just another boring old shag confused

Oh i think you've met your match..... ;)
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Someone that makes me laugh, with nice eyes and a smile. Possibly a bit cheeky but that makes me feel good rather then just another boring old shag confused

Well, I'm cheeky!
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Someone that makes me laugh, with nice eyes and a smile. Possibly a bit cheeky but that makes me feel good rather then just another boring old shag confused

Well, I'm cheeky!
I've never noticed dunno
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