Hi,
I feel a little odd at the moment, got a girl friend and all that but feel like I want to start exploring other sexual fantasies that I have swirling round in my head.
My girlfriend thinks I'm a little strange when I mention involving other people in our bedroom antics although we do have a lot of dirty talk, and it turns us both on, I feel I want to take things further. She however doesn't. Mind you some people that have either advertised on this site or reply to adverts to make me a little worried.
I mean I fancy joining another couple for a bit of frolics, but I also like the idea of watching my girlfriend having sex/giving oral, having sex in the same room as another couple.
I know there are plenty of people that think like me or have the same dreams.
I've done the whole 3 some with women on a couple of occasions... that was cool.
Is the best way to meet a couple for either me being involved with them or trying to get the girlfriend into it on here, with the ads ? I just hear so many reports or junk emails and non genuine offers.
Anyway.... I almost wrote a book then!!!
Dave
Probelm is if your girlfriend does not want to have sex with other people you can't make her and if you 'bully' her into and she just does it to make you happy it could seriously ruin your relationship, just ask yourself...is it really worth it?
I had already thought of that but you're right.
I wouldn't try to bully her into anything that she didn't want..... but when you think about some people, I'm not saying all won't try anything unless a little pressure is applied in the right places.... don't you think.
She enjoys fantasy bit, just abit different from the first time you tried using tools or anal if you get me.
Cheers for the replies though, oh and thanks for sticking it in the right place!!
oh no not saying I would do anything without her knowledge. She's spent quite a bit of time on this site so I know she is keen.
Not the type of guy that needs to do the dirty. As you say might as well go single!
Thanks and v nice nipples... you can tell winters set in.
Oh and I like your advert.... I'll show it to the girlfriend at some point!
When we started, I was the bold one who led the way into the club, but it was my hubby who led the way once inside and I got nerves.
Maybe just start by both going to a club and watching and see how you feel about it then. Have some fun by yourselves in a corner, and see if it fits. That way you can both satisfy your curiosity and nobody gets pushed into anything.
Sometimes the reality is better than the fantasy and vice-versa.
Good name - have I heard it before?
David,
Keep up the horny chat and she might come round once the subject isnt quite so 'new'. Might take a few years, mind!!! After that its like the Marmite advert, once she tries it she'll either love it or hate it.
Well you have certainly got me firedup now. Thanks for the pep talk, and the avatars....debz4u....
We've had a little chat about it and she seems happy for us to try things out. Suprisingly enough she was happy for me to go with another couple??!!
I'll have to do some research and find a place that we can go to, not too far mind, thats go the right feel. Just a bit worried that we end up going to some seedyhole full of single, ugly men.... though I suppose they are everywhere!!!
Any of you people from around the mids that can reccommend something ? Or a nice clean, reasonably attractive couple that would be interested ?
That was said as if I directed at someone. Not the case. I meant no offence.
Come on, you read peoples ads, there are some people out there that can take the horny out of a situation and make it feel uncomfortably seedy. Perhaps my terminology.
Question if you were looking to meet someone for sex and all they sent you was the tip of their cock would that not be slightly odd ?? Please remember I am new/novice at this line of convo so try to be gentle in the slating!!!
Most kind.... point taken.
Not the most tactful at the best of time.... others would agree!
Hey I've had surgery since then!!!
Ok... will check that link out....
) stage, she's quite welcome to drop me a PM with any worries etc.
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