What do you turn to?

7 Sep 2004

Hello guys and gals,
If you've had a really bad day, week, month etc... How do you try and relax or recover?
I personnally am quite bad as I turn to drink (hence now) but I also tend to sit back and think which tends to calm me down and relaxes me no end.
How about you? Do you have a special 'thing' which helps you lose steam? Physical, mental or just bizarre?

7 Sep 2004

You drinking WITHOUT me???? :cry: :cry:
Have a hug rather than a glug!! lol

:lol:

7 Sep 2004

:shock:
what's relaxation???
I generally have Morbius to keep me on the straight and narrow but he's on perm nights so tend to overrely on the net and wine.

7 Sep 2004

Music for me,always works no matter what.
And Steve of course,always there to cheer me up after a really shite day(unless he's the one thats pissed me off in the first place of course!! lol

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7 Sep 2004

Quote by Jags
You drinking WITHOUT me???? :cry: :cry:
Have a hug rather than a glug!! :lol:

Thank you Jags. I really am in a need for one of them at the moment. :kiss: But alas, this beer isn't going to drink itself. If only I had some goldfish????
I find browsing the net very comforting as well. Just checking random sites or anything that pops into the head.

7 Sep 2004

I vent (wrtten), often try to take the piss when I am venting, and when I`ve unloaded, and am feeling mentally exhausted, I soak in the bath for AGES!
Works for me. :mrgreen:
Venusxxx

7 Sep 2004

yep matt
all to often it involves the odd tinnie or two. and a copious amount of SH bollox. not a bad combo at times.
baths are good tho venus, need a good scrub? ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ;-) )))
with a good bit of verve too ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ))) i am a northern soul yer know. lol

n x x x ;-)

7 Sep 2004

if i am really pissed off i find shopping for new erotic undies does it for me knowing what it will lead to later on also helps to cheer me up no end XXXX LEE

7 Sep 2004

Drink.

7 Sep 2004

Sleep (escape)

7 Sep 2004

Quote by neilinleeds
yep matt
all to often it involves the odd tinnie or two. and a copious amount of SH bollox. not a bad combo at times.
baths are good tho venus, need a good scrub? ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ;-) )))
with a good bit of verve too ((( blatant tart mode sexual innuendo! ))) i am a northern soul yer know.
n x x x ;-)

No, I don`t need a good scrub. However, when I need a good scrubber, I`ll know where to come wink

Venusxxx

7 Sep 2004

mine's really sad I'm afraid.
Chilling out for me involves driving up ontop of a good hill top and setting up my portable ham radio station for the day. talking to people all over the world, while looking down on the world going by. Doesn't happen too often but works every time.
Just to bring it back to smut briefly, two of my favourite locations are TITterstone Clee Hill and the Lickey Hill's. ooo errr missus.
Ian

7 Sep 2004

A hot bubble bath with my water-proof vibe wink

7 Sep 2004

Quote by Libra-Love
A hot bubble bath with my water-proof vibe

Growel

7 Sep 2004

When the brown stuff hits the fan, I call Hosty and sob... He does this great line in benevolent concern - then promptly informs me he's arranged for a bunch of his mates to shag me senseless over the bonnet of his Nissan.
rolleyes

7 Sep 2004

7 Sep 2004

In times of trouble, sex, chocolat, and red wine in that order of preferance!!

7 Sep 2004

relaxation....how about a good wank....does it for me !!

7 Sep 2004

Quote by Ian_Mids
mine's really sad I'm afraid.
Chilling out for me involves driving up ontop of a good hill top and setting up my portable ham radio station for the day. talking to people all over the world, while looking down on the world going by. Doesn't happen too often but works every time.
Just to bring it back to smut briefly, two of my favourite locations are TITterstone Clee Hill and the Lickey Hill's. ooo errr missus.
Ian

Many a QSO on the top of Wrotham Hill in my younger years - Little did I know back then that the car parks I used to frequent with a generator any my trusty Yaesu FT690R would be used again latter on in life for meetings of the dogging brigade!
73's
Dave !

8 Sep 2004

Well, being a single male (lets not go there), i got to be honest and say that having a nice slow relaxing wanking session does it for me.
I also love to drive to the top of a hill or anywhere with a view and simply watch the sunset/sunrise always leaves me in total bliss and at peace with myself and the world. Unfortunately this year the weather meant thereâ€™s not been to many chances, but I did spend 4 days in Ibiza and every evening I just sat on the beach watching the sunset, glorious
Too follow on from ian_mids comments about TITerstone around there you have places like Lickey End, Fockbury lane, Rimming lane and not to far away a road simply called BELL END i bet the people at number 69 get some ribbing lol

8 Sep 2004

When im down and feel unloved i play the mosted depressing music i can fined.
If ive had a real crap day i try and write music on my keyboards.
And if the shit is flying i have to get my fix on ebay spend spend spend lol

:lol: :lol:
Redshift

8 Sep 2004

Quote by mattmoleman
Hello guys and gals,
If you've had a really bad day, week, month etc... How do you try and relax or recover?

There's a hill near where I live. From the top on a clear night, I can see the whole of London spread out beneath me. Above I can see the Universe. And in between these two magnificent objects, there's me. All on my own with the source of my frustrations in full view, because you can bet your life whatever has pissed me off is either London or the Universe.
So what do I do? I scream. I scream blue bloody murder. Not just at the top of my lungs or from the pit of my stomach, but with every last atom of my being. Why? Because for all their greatness, neither London nor the Universe can bloody stop me, that's why. All my anger, my fear, my frustration, my absolute raging fury, I unleash directly at its cause.
And the universe just has to sit there and take it.
That's power!

8 Sep 2004

Quote by Ice Pie
There's a hill near where I live. From the top on a clear night, I can see the whole of London spread out beneath me. Above I can see the Universe. And in between these two magnificent objects, there's me. All on my own with the source of my frustrations in full view, because you can bet your life whatever has pissed me off is either London or the Universe.
So what do I do? I scream. I scream blue bloody murder. Not just at the top of my lungs or from the pit of my stomach, but with every last atom of my being. Why? Because for all their greatness, neither London nor the Universe can bloody stop me, that's why. All my anger, my fear, my frustration, my absolute raging fury, I unleash directly at its cause.
And the universe just has to sit there and take it.
That's power!

Great post Ice Pie
I often have the same feelings.
Sometimes just looking up at the clear night sky make me realize just how lucky i am to be part of the Universe, and too see it in all its glory right there above me, but it can also scare me.
The thought of infinity scares me just looking at the thousand upon thousands of galaxies stretching further in to the night sky but never ending. As I sit there one man alone I simply can not comprehend infinity itâ€™s too big for me it scrambles my mind, infinity how can it be?

8 Sep 2004

For me it's simple. Music. I can make all the troubles of the day disappear by having my stereo on and my favourite tracks of all time blasting through the speakers.
I used to (as a teenager), ritually, fall asleep with my headphones on, and it's amazing just how therapeutic is really is.
Silky xxxxxxx

8 Sep 2004

Quote by Heather
When the brown stuff hits the fan, I call Hosty and sob... He does this great line in benevolent concern - then promptly informs me he's arranged for a bunch of his mates to shag me senseless over the bonnet of his Nissan.

Oh Heather that's terrible. I feel for you..
At least Hosty could have an Audi
lol

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8 Sep 2004

The best cheerer uppers are my kids,they always give me a kiss and a cuddle when im feeling just seem to know,bless em theyre the best!!
Or they come out with something completely rediculous and send me into fits and fits of giggles lol

8 Sep 2004

Quote by rebecca_uk_tv
The thought of infinity scares me just looking at the thousand upon thousands of galaxies stretching further in to the night sky but never ending. As I sit there one man alone I simply can not comprehend infinity itâ€™s too big for me it scrambles my mind, infinity how can it be?

With you on that one! As a 12 year old kid I'd lay on top of a shed roof pondering the same question... I could never get it out of my head that there had to be a brick wall and then 'what the heck was behind that?!'
All I know is that infinity is really, really big. smile

Actually I don't know I just believe what I am told... Science is the 21st Century equivalent of religion I guess. lol

8 Sep 2004

Given that no-one else has mentioned it, maybe this is bizzare confused

I throw myself into work with complete dedication if my 'home life' isn't going so well.

8 Sep 2004

Best thing i've found is I go skiing at Xscape in Castleford. Always sets me back on the right track. Course being able to ski helps

8 Sep 2004

Music
Been blasting out The Who today and took great, and repeated delight in shouting out the line 'Who the Fuck are you?' - juvenile I know, but so rewarding!!! lol

:lol:
Just hope my boss isn't reading this cos he'll have heard me. :shock: