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What do you wear in bed?

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I've just read this on a website...
"One of the easiest things to do to keep the spark alive in a relationship is to wear sexy lingerie to bed. It is easy to fall into a rut of just wearing some frumpy flannel pajamas to bed. It makes the man feel appreciated and wanted when his woman cares enough to take the time and effort to wear something sexy and it makes a woman feel sexy when her man buys her sexy lingerie to wear because she knows he thinks she will look great in it."
And I thought to myself.. 'what a load of tish tosh'... but is it?
What do you wear for a normal night to bed? I actually wear nothing because I get too hot and even when I've worn sexy nighties they get pulled off anyway!
Does it make any difference what you wear in bed or is it 'what's underneath that matters'? lol
i wear tshirts in bed, and boxers....although i can happily sneak fully clothed...jeans, belt, jumper, shoes the lot...even on a bed of cd covers...good times
zip-nada-nothing
I think its whats underneath that matters.
I wear an old 'sisters of mercy' t-shirt or something similar...
Mr goth and I dont really get time to sleep in bed together because he works nights, so when we are in bed together, whatever weve got on comes off rather quickly!
Lisa
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A la Marilyn- but without the Chanel No.5. smile
Not a stitch, nowt, nothing. Apart from possibly if it's really really cold some discrete socks- I have circulation problems and my extremities get so cold that having them touch you in the night could be grounds for divorce! lol
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I think its whats underneath that matters.
I wear an old 'sisters of mercy' t-shirt or something similar...
Mr goth and I dont really get time to sleep in bed together because he works nights, so when we are in bed together, whatever weve got on comes off rather quickly!
Lisa
xxxx

amen to that! :giggle:
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I think its whats underneath that matters.
I wear an old 'sisters of mercy' t-shirt or something similar...
Mr goth and I dont really get time to sleep in bed together because he works nights, so when we are in bed together, whatever weve got on comes off rather quickly!
Lisa
xxxx

amen to that! :giggle:
Most definately! wink
And also, I cant sleep in clothes that are too restricting or fancy...
Apparantly I thrash around like an electocuted octopus, so Id just end up all tangled. And very confused in the morning when I realise I cant move!
Lisa
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i wear nothing unless im on a promise :twisted: but as we usually play downstairs usually naked in bed although i do dress up for downstairs in sexy gear lol
cant really say if it helps anything that adds a bit o spice to it can only help
Usually a little nightie but when the kids are away with my parents, nothing biggrin
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When we go out or if we are going to meet someone mrs f does wear different underwear but bed for us is always naked.

Oooh yes, now that's the bit that makes bed sexy.. I always always dress for bed on meets redface
I think there's nothing hornier than turning over in bed and feeling skin to skin, or having a very nice "prodding" sensation in your back first thing in the morning! :rascal:
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I think there's nothing hornier than turning over in bed and feeling skin to skin, or having a very nice "prodding" sensation in your back first thing in the morning! :rascal:

ooh il second that cant beat it lol
It depends who's in my bed with me at the time :twisted:
meaning, as I'm usually alone it's pjs in winter and stuff all in summer rolleyes
What do you wear in bed?

A smile :giggle:
Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Well as i'm on my own and no one to curl up to hehehe
at this time of year pjs sock and if it's really cold my dressing gown too oh and a hot water bottle erm oh and my furry bed throw and erm what else i'm sure i forgot something biggrin :D
Sexy i know
Debz xxxx
I wear pyjamas all year round unless I've got some compnay in which case I'll be naked or start off with something sexy and end up naked lol
I like to be covered up to sleep so I always have a duvet - even when it's red hot. My summer one is only 3 tog anyway.
I like pyjama bottoms on cos i don't like the feel of my legs pressed together. (no jokes please!) :twisted:
Well, if I'm by myself it depends how cold I am. Often start off in my lovely pj's and lose them during the night as I warm up.
When I'm sharing my sleeping space like to be naked - love to feel a warm naked body wrapped around mine.
I sleep naked... always have!
Wearing something in bed just feels weird and usually ends up twisted round my neck.
I have an electric blanket and a hot water bottle to keep me toastie when I'm on my own. wink
Flannelette nightie, bed socks, scarf, dressing gown, hat..........Im ready for anything at all times I am!! confused
as i live alone most of the time its pj's or nothing depending upon how warm it is.
if i have company depends how the night is most of the time dont get chance to change for bed before being dragged into it :twisted:
Earthy xx
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I've just read this on a website...
"One of the easiest things to do to keep the spark alive in a relationship is to wear sexy lingerie to bed. It is easy to fall into a rut of just wearing some frumpy flannel pajamas to bed. It makes the man feel appreciated and wanted when his woman cares enough to take the time and effort to wear something sexy and it makes a woman feel sexy.."

And what does the man do to return the favour? dunno
I don't ever wear anything in bed when planning to go to sleep. But if going to bed with another reason in mind, then that's different.
Just a smile and a frown when I'm asleep (apparently) biggrin
I get way to hot to wear anything else and have been known to stick my feet out of the end of the bed to cool down. redface
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I don't ever wear anything in bed when planning to go to sleep. But if going to bed with another reason in mind, then that's different.

me too! nothing worn if just planning on sleeping - but have a variety of items if i am planning some extra-curricular sleeptime activities!
mr swin wears boxers if he is planning on sleeping! he wears nowt if he isnt!
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Apparantly I thrash around like an electocuted octopus, so Id just end up all tangled. And very confused in the morning when I realise I cant move!
Lisa
xxxx

Me too rotflmao :rotflmao:
About the house, its pyjamas, fluffy socks and slippers cool
I do dress up at times for bed :twisted: but overall, it's naked for both of us at bedtime - i just cant stand being restricted wink
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I've just read this on a website...
"One of the easiest things to do to keep the spark alive in a relationship is to wear sexy lingerie to bed. It is easy to fall into a rut of just wearing some frumpy flannel pajamas to bed. It makes the man feel appreciated and wanted when his woman cares enough to take the time and effort to wear something sexy and it makes a woman feel sexy.."

And what does the man do to return the favour? dunno
I don't ever wear anything in bed when planning to go to sleep. But if going to bed with another reason in mind, then that's different.
I thought that when I was reading it..! I'm going to get all women's rights here mind.. but how come it's the woman who has to dress up to make her man feel appreciated?? :shock: A woman likes to feel appreciated also! lol
In saying that Kiss hun, I've just had this frightening image of Jay with a posing pouch from Ann Summers on!.... hmmm well maybe not! :shock:
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Just a smile and a frown when I'm asleep (apparently) biggrin
I get way to hot to wear anything else and have been known to stick my feet out of the end of the bed to cool down. redface

Meet your mate!!.. That's how I sleep, on my side, feet out the bed, I hate to have them hot. Trouble is you wake up in early hours and cannot feel your toes! haha
comando all the way
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Just a smile and a frown when I'm asleep (apparently) biggrin
I get way to hot to wear anything else and have been known to stick my feet out of the end of the bed to cool down. redface

Meet your mate!!.. That's how I sleep, on my side, feet out the bed, I hate to have them hot. Trouble is you wake up in early hours and cannot feel your toes! haha
I'd be happy to feel your toes for you wink
I wear jim jams most of the time, especially in the winter, but i do wear something sexy when im in the mood. In other words, Joe only has to look at me to know what we are going to be doing that night. wink
Louise xx