Hi,
We are a happily married couple with children, in our 30s and pretty 'normal' we think. We want to try our first 3some but cannot seem to take the final plunge!
We would love to hear from other couples, especially the female if she was reluctant or very nervous about doing a 3some for real. What persuaded you to do it and how did the first time go?
Thanks
Mark and Lisa xx
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what finally persuaded you to try a 3some?
Sex God
What kind of threesome do you mean, MMF or FFM ?
M & H
M & H
Sex God
Well I'll assume as the others have that it's MMF.
For us............. pillow talk, H asked me what I fantasised about so I told her......... (doing an MMF) she thought about it for a couple of weeks, then asked was I serious. I said yes, we talked some more to make sure that neither of us would have any hangups or issues and the rest is history
For us............. pillow talk, H asked me what I fantasised about so I told her......... (doing an MMF) she thought about it for a couple of weeks, then asked was I serious. I said yes, we talked some more to make sure that neither of us would have any hangups or issues and the rest is history
Sex God
talking one night about seeing her with a fem ,went to club she ended up in fff 3 sum "whhoo whooo" great fun ,went on to next stage with me involved was even better.
can't say i needed persuading either
not really sure how i got into it bit of a long story really lol
the first 3sum i have was many many years ago with the couple i used to baby sit for
after that i went with a few men/woman nothing serious just tarted about as you do when your young
then i met paul (the hubby) and i never told him about any of this as far as he knew i was a herto female blah blah blah 
many years later ( and i can honestly say i never cheated on him but the fact i was in a 'normal' hetro relationship was very hard for me as i longed to meet women for many years while we was together) i suggested we tryed swinging as i was very curious about having sex with women (see what happens when your not honest from the start lol) he was a bit unsure about it, did the usual...why arn't i good enough for you no more thing.....but we did meet a couple and the rest is history :twisted: that was about 5 years ago now
not really sure how i got into it bit of a long story really lol
the first 3sum i have was many many years ago with the couple i used to baby sit for
after that i went with a few men/woman nothing serious just tarted about as you do when your young
then i met paul (the hubby) and i never told him about any of this as far as he knew i was a herto female blah blah blah many years later ( and i can honestly say i never cheated on him but the fact i was in a 'normal' hetro relationship was very hard for me as i longed to meet women for many years while we was together) i suggested we tryed swinging as i was very curious about having sex with women (see what happens when your not honest from the start lol) he was a bit unsure about it, did the usual...why arn't i good enough for you no more thing.....but we did meet a couple and the rest is history :twisted: that was about 5 years ago now
Sexlightened
not had one yet :cry: but gonna soon
we just started talkn about it got really horny and went from wanting 3some to a biig orgy lol
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we just started talkn about it got really horny and went from wanting 3some to a biig orgy lol
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Sex God
someone offered!
I was persuaded to take part in an MMF threesome as part of my 'things to do before I hit forty' list. We are all still great mates and meet up for drinks quite often, was asked to take part in an MMFF foursome by the same guys recently but chickened out of that one although the offer still stands should I want to at any time.
I'd say go for it and enjoy if you are both willing.
I'd say go for it and enjoy if you are both willing.
Was back in the Uk at a reunion with my Ex, bumped into an good friend from uni..............couple of white russians later (the drink!),,,,,,turns out she's now bi....... :shock:
bit of a shock, then my mind started running :P ....but my ex beat me to it,,,,and I got to make drinks :shock: ....but did get to join in later :twisted:
Never made drinks so quick in my life :P
bit of a shock, then my mind started running :P ....but my ex beat me to it,,,,and I got to make drinks :shock: ....but did get to join in later :twisted:
Never made drinks so quick in my life :P
Warming the Bed
We had fantasised about FFM for some time and had also mentioned MMF. The idea of either got us rather excited so when the opportunity of a foursome with another couple arose we expored the possibilities.
One thing we both found was that we enjoyed watching each other with a member of the opposite sex a lot more than we thought we would. I was dubious of the MMF at first but once we'd swapped with the couple it was par for the course and we don't regret it one bit.
Bring on more.
One thing we both found was that we enjoyed watching each other with a member of the opposite sex a lot more than we thought we would. I was dubious of the MMF at first but once we'd swapped with the couple it was par for the course and we don't regret it one bit.
Bring on more.
Sex God
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Have just tried my first fmmm this weekend and that was fun too
susie xxxxxx
:shock: omg I missed that... must have been at the bar getting another soft drink
My first 3some.... I was asked to at the end of a works Xmas do!
Had fancied the bloke for ages, the female wasn't someone I'd ever thought about it with but omg she was sexy!:happy:
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Hi,
What persuaded you to do it and how did the first time go?
I'm greedy :twisted: that's why i like it :P
First time was a few years ago and was lots of fun and happened sort of spur of the moment and felt so natural and horny. Only regret was why I hadn't tried it earlier
Sex God
The fun, finally convinced me.
As a single female / or/ part of a couple, I have always enjoyed the 3somes I have been involved in, mmf or ffm. :P :twisted:
There is only one occassion that afterwards, I thought was wrong and should never have happened. :cry:
As a single female / or/ part of a couple, I have always enjoyed the 3somes I have been involved in, mmf or ffm. :P :twisted:
There is only one occassion that afterwards, I thought was wrong and should never have happened. :cry:
Sex God
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. :P :twisted:
There is only one occassion that afterwards, I thought was wrong and should never have happened. :cry:
Sarah? a question
Was that after your first time? as i believe Anne could feel that but know she will bounce back we have discussed this and she agrees
Anne should only do what she feels happy with, and you should both talk about it afterwards even if good or bad. have fun
Sex God
What persuaded me to have a 3sum?????
Lots of voddie n coke ;)
Lots of voddie n coke ;)
For us it was about making fantasies come true,
Still havent had a ffm threesome ( give me a hug we are free and available hun) but we have had a couple of mmf and mmff 4somes which were great.
I would LUUURRRVVVVEEEE to try a ffmm 4some with another bi couple now, we have had bifem couples but not bim and bifem couples.
Still havent had a ffm threesome ( give me a hug we are free and available hun) but we have had a couple of mmf and mmff 4somes which were great.
I would LUUURRRVVVVEEEE to try a ffmm 4some with another bi couple now, we have had bifem couples but not bim and bifem couples.
Well i was on holiday......... so before i went i new a cpl in the cafe that i really liked and asked them for there phone number as i new they lived close to where i was staying............. so i rang them and they came to vist me....she is also bi like me and the both of them are bloody lovely............ any way we all went to a nudist club where they have rooms to play in and we just all hit it off as we all felt comfortable with each other!
And now we all are the best of mates and i Love emm to bits!
And thats the main thing about swinging ......... make sure you find some one or some ones......... first that you feel totally comfortable with!
And now we all are the best of mates and i Love emm to bits!
And thats the main thing about swinging ......... make sure you find some one or some ones......... first that you feel totally comfortable with!
