I would say someone gently kissing my neck would awaken all my zones.
There are more but I wont give to much away at once
what switches your lights on?
What triggers your mind?
What puts you in the mood?
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Sex God
Quote by Theladyisaminx
what switches your lights on?
What triggers your mind?
What puts you in the mood?
Switch - kissing or, like you, someone nuzzling my neck.
Trigger - intelligent and/or funny conversation.
Mood - good company, good food, good wine.
Sex God
Biggest turn on fer me is the other person being turned on.
The one thing that really turns on my lights though is deep and steady eye contact at the moment of penetration. It's what I always remember if it happens.
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The one thing that really turns on my lights though is deep and steady eye contact at the moment of penetration. It's what I always remember if it happens.
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Quote by westerross
Biggest turn on fer me is the other person being turned on.
The one thing that really turns on my lights though is deep and steady eye contact at the moment of penetration. It's what I always remember if it happens.
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Oh my Tuney... that's just got me going!
I love that.I tend to just have to look at Jay doing normal things, like the other night, he was bent over plumbing our new dishwasher in, and the sight of his rear got me all unnecessary..
The biggest turn on has to be your partner being turned on.
Sexpert
I have to agree with minx on that….
kissing my neck works every time….
Errrmmmmm…. My mind is always triggered lol……. But teasing, talk, and visionary stimulation all help!!!!!!
Ohhh and shopping……. For toys that does it too!!!!!!
Like you say tho, best one is the sight of your lover being turned on……Mmmmmm
Best shut up before I say too much……
kissing my neck works every time….
Errrmmmmm…. My mind is always triggered lol……. But teasing, talk, and visionary stimulation all help!!!!!!
Ohhh and shopping……. For toys that does it too!!!!!!
Like you say tho, best one is the sight of your lover being turned on……Mmmmmm
Best shut up before I say too much……
Casanova
Having my back stroked with certain items
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Quote by Calista
Flirty conversation, laughter, great humour all pusy my buttons to a degree.
The mind is a wonderful thing and often gives away exactly what we are thinking .lol
Personally I find an intimate discussion with someone you share a mutual sexual attraction to be a big turn on ....especially if done in a public place so the anticipation and tension builds up.
A long and sensual snog mmmmmmmm goes straight to my loins.
The inside of my thighs being stroked.
As a taurean my neck is also wired straight to my groin lol
Oh I so could go on ...lol
Quote by Dawnie
No way would I admit anything in here on the off chance someone would do use it against me :lol2:
A few things stun me into silence and I become putty in someones hands but :gagged:
Isn't that the idea though .... get someone horny and use "it" against them
Or them using "it" against you ;) You've got the wrong idea about swinging Dawnie!
Quote by Calista
No way would I admit anything in here on the off chance someone would do use it against me :lol2:
A few things stun me into silence and I become putty in someones hands but :gagged:
Isn't that the idea though .... get someone horny and use "it" against them
Or them using "it" against you ;) You've got the wrong idea about swinging Dawnie!
:lol2: Yes but Sassy might read this thread and that scares me
Quote by Dawnie
No way would I admit anything in here on the off chance someone would do use it against me :lol2:
A few things stun me into silence and I become putty in someones hands but :gagged:
Isn't that the idea though .... get someone horny and use "it" against them
Or them using "it" against you ;) You've got the wrong idea about swinging Dawnie!
:lol2: Yes but Sassy might read this thread and that scares me
Too late :twisted:
Orgasminator
The lightest touch on my back and my neck gets me all wobbly, and if it's followed by one of THOSE kisses ya know really deep and meaningful with hands running through hair & tongues entwined.....oh my!!! 
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ops: :oops: umm mentally.. am with FB and prob Nola (although I can't recall if she has added to this ) good conversation and wit.
Physically.. lots and lots of things. It has to be someone who has turned me on mentally first.. but I like my neck being kissed/bitten/scratched. I also like my throat being held tightly (that is a recent discovery) I may just venture into breath play next. I love my hair being wrenched backwards so hard that my hair starts to pull out.
Ummm but less extremely I love being kissed, especially if the person holds me tightly while they do it.
For me to do to someone else... I love the person to be restrained either verbally or physically and for me to have total control.
Something tells me that I am going through a full on BDSM phase.. whowouldathunkit.
Physically.. lots and lots of things. It has to be someone who has turned me on mentally first.. but I like my neck being kissed/bitten/scratched. I also like my throat being held tightly (that is a recent discovery) I may just venture into breath play next. I love my hair being wrenched backwards so hard that my hair starts to pull out.
Ummm but less extremely I love being kissed, especially if the person holds me tightly while they do it. For me to do to someone else... I love the person to be restrained either verbally or physically and for me to have total control.
Something tells me that I am going through a full on BDSM phase.. whowouldathunkit.
Sex God
Quote by splendid_
umm mentally.. am with FB and prob Nola (although I can't recall if she has added to this ) good conversation and wit.
Physically.. lots and lots of things. It has to be someone who has turned me on mentally first.. but I like my neck being kissed/bitten/scratched. I also like my throat being held tightly (that is a recent discovery) I may just venture into breath play next. I love my hair being wrenched backwards so hard that my hair starts to pull out.
For me to do to someone else... I love the person to be restrained either verbally or physically and for me to have total control.
Something tells me that I am going through a full on BDSM phase.. whowouldathunkit.
:thumbup: Probably not as succinctly, but I could have written all of that. Total agreement there splendid.
Well, except the restraint bit - I've been the restrainee but never the restrainer... :rascal: Maybe I ought to give that a go some time!
Sex God
Quote by niceguysdoexist
Personally I find an intimate discussion with someone you share a mutual sexual attraction to be a big turn on ....especially if done in a public place so the anticipation and tension builds up.
Yep - I love this too. I once met someone to discuss a bdsm scene we were thinking of playing together. Being the first time we had actually met up, I wanted the venue to be a fairly public, neutral place. However our topic of conversation was anything but suitable for public discussion...
We met at a rather swanky modern art gallery. Man, I have never been so aroused by just talking about sex. It was a combo of first-meet thrill and the fact that we were having a saucy kind of illicit chat as we strolled round admiring the art.
Hot, hot, hot. Hotter for being in public.
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__kick 'em up the bum!
slow pedestrians really have my ire!
lp
Sex God
Quote by __random_orbit__kick 'em up the bum!
slow pedestrians really have my ire!
lp
mmm bum
lpdon't get distracted now..remember your ire!!!hehe
