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tmann
Sex God
What is it that gets your attention, not what gets your pants off, but what is it that makes you think, 'eeerm'.
Does a well dressed person grab your eye and say look. Is it lots of leg, mussel or just something very different about someone.
For me it is confidence, not arrogance, just self confidence. Be she walking into a room in suit, or dazzling spangles, or emerging from the waves in her birthday suit. If she has confidence, she has my attention. If she backs it up with the right smile I may even talk to her.
That is in the real world. Here at SH, it is all in the words, but sometimes a picture of a smile. Sorry smiles every time over face less pussy.
Travis
venus68
Casanova
I think you have me with the smile. I love a broad smile and a twinkle in the eye.
Then there are a catalogue of other things lol, which are too numerous to mention wink
Unknown User
Oooh. That twinkle of intelligence and humour. And fabulous thighs!
Calista
Sex God
Depends ... on the forum it's personality and their sense of humour (because I find that a huge turn on). At a social it's pretty much the same but as you also said it's their confidence and presentation.
Callie
tmann
Sex God
Quote by TheLovelyOne
Oooh. That twinkle of intelligence and humour. And fabulous thighs!
I am just trying to remember when you saw my thighs?
tmann
Sex God
Quote by venus68
I think you have me with the smile. I love a broad smile and a twinkle in the eye.
Then there are a catalogue of other things lol, which are too numerous to mention wink
I can nor say that there are not other things but confidence is the biggest. The smile, then a sense of humour, and never ever saying "Know what I mean."
Unknown User
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Oooh. That twinkle of intelligence and humour. And fabulous thighs!
I am just trying to remember when you saw my thighs?
In my dreams redface
;)
Freckledbird
Sex God
Intelligence and humour, then when you meet them, a bit of a twinkle in their eyes.
Oh, and nice thighs :twisted:
Peanut
Sex God
Well it sounds like I'm fucked then as IRL I have no confidence whatsoever.
Apart from the obvious things like legs'n'ass. I reckon it's the quality of the smile and an undefinable quality of the eyes. I think I also respond better to demureness rather than confidence too.
Unknown User
someone who makes me laugh is a big thing for me, that and that twinkle....and a sexy voice!!
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
someone who makes me laugh is a big thing for me, that and that twinkle....and a sexy voice!!

Hmmm, I may just know someone who is reputed to have those qualities...
Unknown User
Quote by Peanut
someone who makes me laugh is a big thing for me, that and that twinkle....and a sexy voice!!

Hmmm, I may just know someone who is reputed to have those qualities...
do tell mr nut biggrin
Peanut
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
someone who makes me laugh is a big thing for me, that and that twinkle....and a sexy voice!!

Hmmm, I may just know someone who is reputed to have those qualities...
do tell mr nut biggrin
Oh no, I really can't.
<talk mode="Soap Opera">I think I've said too much already</talk>
:twisted:
Unknown User
well whisper it into my inbox then, i havent had any mail today!!!
Unknown User
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol
Unknown User
A great smile, dark hair (preferably), beautiful eyes..... Things like confidence and style kick in as soon as I've picked my jaw off the floor!
Calista
Sex God
Hmmm what grabs me ?
Usually Morbius when I'm least expecting it ;) hump
Callie
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by janemcc
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol

Sounds like MrFB smile
Unknown User
Quote by Misterwood
A great smile, dark hair (preferably), beautiful eyes..... Things like confidence and style kick in as soon as I've picked my jaw off the floor!

sounds like me!! :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle: :giggle:
noladreams
Sex God
Okay... what grabs me?
Eyes. Nice eyes, preferably with a mischievous 'twinkle' in them.
Hands. I like hands. I can find a pair of hands quite a turn on... big, strong and interesting hands. *swoon*
Smile. Yep, a cheeky grin is a bonus.
Laugh. Love a nice laugh.
Voice. Sexy, deep voice. Or an attractive accent... *sigh*
Conversation. Someone who can keep my interest. Someone who can debate the meaning and the minutae of life.
Style. Call it years spent working in the fashion industry or just call it fickle/shallow... whatever but I admire people with style. Real style. Their own style and not necessarily slavish followers of fashion but folk who dress well and in a way that reflects their personality.
Someone who matches all of the above? Yet to find them... a combination of several of the above then yeah, I'd be pretty much 'grabbed'!!
wink
Unknown User
Quote by noladreams30
Okay... what grabs me?
Eyes. Nice eyes, preferably with a mischievous 'twinkle' in them.
Hands. I like hands. I can find a pair of hands quite a turn on... big, strong and interesting hands. *swoon*
Smile. Yep, a cheeky grin is a bonus.
Laugh. Love a nice laugh.
Voice. Sexy, deep voice. Or an attractive accent... *sigh*
Conversation. Someone who can keep my interest. Someone who can debate the meaning and the minutae of life.
Style. Call it years spent working in the fashion industry or just call it fickle/shallow... whatever but I admire people with style. Real style. Their own style and not necessarily slavish followers of fashion but folk who dress well and in a way that reflects their personality.
Someone who matches all of the above? Yet to find them... a combination of several of the above then yeah, I'd be pretty much 'grabbed'!!
wink

:notes: :notes: :notes:
noladreams
Sex God
Quote by Bonedigger
Okay... what grabs me?
Eyes. Nice eyes, preferably with a mischievous 'twinkle' in them.
Hands. I like hands. I can find a pair of hands quite a turn on... big, strong and interesting hands. *swoon*
Smile. Yep, a cheeky grin is a bonus.
Laugh. Love a nice laugh.
Voice. Sexy, deep voice. Or an attractive accent... *sigh*
Conversation. Someone who can keep my interest. Someone who can debate the meaning and the minutae of life.
Style. Call it years spent working in the fashion industry or just call it fickle/shallow... whatever but I admire people with style. Real style. Their own style and not necessarily slavish followers of fashion but folk who dress well and in a way that reflects their personality.
Someone who matches all of the above? Yet to find them... a combination of several of the above then yeah, I'd be pretty much 'grabbed'!!
wink

:notes: :notes: :notes:
Oi... Nice try but taking notes so you can be teacher's pet ain't gonna make me tell you who those Valentines were from any quicker (if at all! :twisted: ) you know!!
:wink:
Unknown User
I love confident people, I love smilers and also eye contact. If you can hold my eye contact your a winner!
I person who is attractive without knowing it is a big turn on for me as is someone who has wit and intelligence.
Unknown User
Quote by janemcc
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol

you know who has at least two of them then! wink
Unknown User
Quote by noladreams30
Okay... what grabs me?
Eyes. Nice eyes, preferably with a mischievous 'twinkle' in them.
Hands. I like hands. I can find a pair of hands quite a turn on... big, strong and interesting hands. *swoon*
Smile. Yep, a cheeky grin is a bonus.
Laugh. Love a nice laugh.
Voice. Sexy, deep voice. Or an attractive accent... *sigh*
Conversation. Someone who can keep my interest. Someone who can debate the meaning and the minutae of life.
Style. Call it years spent working in the fashion industry or just call it fickle/shallow... whatever but I admire people with style. Real style. Their own style and not necessarily slavish followers of fashion but folk who dress well and in a way that reflects their personality.
Someone who matches all of the above? Yet to find them... a combination of several of the above then yeah, I'd be pretty much 'grabbed'!!
wink

:notes: :notes: :notes:
Oi... Nice try but taking notes so you can be teacher's pet ain't gonna make me tell you who those Valentines were from any quicker (if at all! :twisted: ) you know!!
:wink:
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
ooohh yes about that information swapping.....pm box thattaway <<<<<<<< g'wan u know ya wanna....and i havent had any mail all day lol :lol:
Unknown User
Quote by Freckledbird
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol

Sounds like MrFB smile
cool yep but didn't cop the bum as he was sat on it wink
Unknown User
Quote by Bonedigger
Okay... what grabs me?
Eyes. Nice eyes, preferably with a mischievous 'twinkle' in them.
Hands. I like hands. I can find a pair of hands quite a turn on... big, strong and interesting hands. *swoon*
Smile. Yep, a cheeky grin is a bonus.
Laugh. Love a nice laugh.
Voice. Sexy, deep voice. Or an attractive accent... *sigh*
Conversation. Someone who can keep my interest. Someone who can debate the meaning and the minutae of life.
Style. Call it years spent working in the fashion industry or just call it fickle/shallow... whatever but I admire people with style. Real style. Their own style and not necessarily slavish followers of fashion but folk who dress well and in a way that reflects their personality.
Someone who matches all of the above? Yet to find them... a combination of several of the above then yeah, I'd be pretty much 'grabbed'!!
wink

:notes: :notes: :notes:
Oi... Nice try but taking notes so you can be teacher's pet ain't gonna make me tell you who those Valentines were from any quicker (if at all! :twisted: ) you know!!
:wink:
:cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
ooohh yes about that information swapping.....pm box thattaway <<<<<<<< g'wan u know ya wanna....and i havent had any mail all day lol :lol:
will you two plueeeeeeeeeeeeese get a room! :lol:
Unknown User
Ive JUST had a breakthrough!! :thrilled: :thrilled: :thrilled: I may not need that info sharing after all!! yay :bounce: :bounce:
Freckledbird
Sex God
Quote by jaymar
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol

Sounds like MrFB smile
cool yep but didn't cop the bum as he was sat on it wink
Next time then :rascal:
Unknown User
Quote by Freckledbird
For me it has to be a combination of tall with broad shoulders,self confidence,that sexy twinkle in the eyes and a nice bum if i can get all of them in one package even better lol

Sounds like MrFB smile
cool yep but didn't cop the bum as he was sat on it wink
Next time then :rascal:
Oh yeah... and a snog! :wink: