What happens at Swinger clubs? Specifically Xtasia

10 Aug 2003

Hi all,
I juts wanted to ask what happened in Swinger clubs. Is it a place where swingers meet up to then go elsewhere, or is there generally a lot of action in the clubs? Also, is the atmosphere generally welcome and acceptable to couples who want to check the club out a few times before getting down to it?
One other question - if for example my girlfriend and I were sat having a drink - is it normal that someone will come over and invite us to join them with their sex?
Finally, anyone been to Xtasia in West Bromich? Any comments?
All answers gratefully received. smile

10 Aug 2003

Hi
Never been to Xtasia but have been to most of the Manchester clubs and I can't imagine the rules would be much different. Swingers clubs are based on respect, in that people only need to do what they feel comfortable with. Very rarely is there any trouble like you often see in normal night clubs, and although you get the odd pushy guy, most are freindly and wait to be asked to take part in any action that is happening. In answer to your questions... Some people meet in clubs to go elsewhere, but a lot of action does go on in the clubs - couples meet other couples or singles hook up for group sex etc etc. Different clubs have different themed nights, so if you were planning to go on a particular night, just check with the web site to see that you are going on the right night! For example, some clubs have "greedy girls nights" in which there are lots of singles, whilst others have couples nights where singles are not allowed. Like I said, I don't know about Xstasia, but you could find out from their web site. The atmosphere in all the clubs I've been to is friendly, and yes you might get an invite or two if you're sitting having a drink, but if you don't fancy it just say no! No-one will think any less of you if you just go and watch, a lot of people just go to watch anyway, so you certainly wouldn't be unusual. My advice would be, just go once and check it out, nothing beats personal experience ;-) Have fun. Michelle

11 Aug 2003

We can recommend this club. We live on the South Coast but still feel it is worth travelling up to. The atmosphere is non-pushy and there is plenty of opportunity to get involved with others if you want it. The club has a dance floor that each hour is curtained of for an errection special 15min (basically free to grope what and who ever though respect to be shown when it's obviously not wanted- usually ends up with the girls snogging and touching each other up whilst the blokeys go get some more drinks!) :shock: There is a jaccuzi and several play areas, dungeon etc and each area has it's own set of rules as to what is allowed. This is good for couples who want to play without being harassed and for newbee's not sure if they can join in or not. wink

Go along and enjoy - you don't have to participate but you doubtless will once you've settled in. :twisted: Singles on Friday and Couples on Sat. One nice aspect is the hotel next door that gives a if you are attending the club.

11 Aug 2003

we also live on the south coast...but havent been to xtasia...just thought we would post something...

27 Aug 2003

Xtasia - Well worth the trip :twisted:

10 Sep 2003

Quote by vodka_babe22uk
i also live on the south coast and wish we were lucky enuff to have clubs down here to go to

Actually I found one in Brighton that was quite fun a few weeks ago Vodka Babe. Unfortunately there isnt anything on the South coast that is as good as the ones further north though :-(
Peter

10 Sep 2003

No it was Bristol Gardens Health Studio. They arent specifically a swing club but theres lots of naked people :-) I met a nice couple from Kent and spent a happy hour with them in one of the private rooms. They do have couples only night as well on Saturday I think, but I have yet to find a fem who will go with me :-(
Peter